Wednesday, 14 December 2016

My mind wanders . . .


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Todd and I were talking about the Christmas's of our childhoods last evening as we sat here admiring our Christmas Tree , , , they were both very different, some of that  was due to the different times that we were children in and some of that was due to a difference in  family traditions.

Todd was born just prior to World War 2, and so for the first 7 years of his life, his dad was not around.   His mother and he lived with his maternal grandparents in their home just North of London.  It was a suburb, where it was considered to be a lot safer from the Hun's bombs.  He does have one memory of an incendiary bomb coming through the roof at one point, but mostly nothing happened at all.   He thought it was an adventure to sleep in the bomb shelter in the back garden and he had a Micky Mouse gas mask  which he took to school.

After the War things were quite different.  He got a baby brother and they, of course,  were not living with the Grandparents anymore.  Todd's father was a window washer and so there wasn't a lot of money, but Christmas's for him were quite magical nonetheless.  They awoke in the morning and found that Santa had been, and stockings were laying at the end of their beds.   Only once everyone was awake were they allowed to venture into the lounge.  Nothing was wrapped.  All would have been laid out and put on view as if it were in a department store and on display.    He said that his parents would have taken great pains to make the displays as magical as possible.   A book, laying open . . . a fort set up and ready for play, etc.    He remembers his father making him a wooden castle one year and it being his favourite gift of all.    There were smaller gifts, wrapped and laying on the tree, and off and on during the day, he or his brother would be invited to go and get one and unwrap them.   Nothing big or expensive, perhaps a small dinky car or some such . . . a very different Christmas to the ones I was brought up with, but . . .  no less magical.

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We did not have stockings when I was a child, although I always wished for one.  Instead we had coloured melmac bowls, which were normally our Cereal bowls.  (At Easter they became Easter Baskets)  Each bowl would be set at our place on our dining room table.  In them we would find a few hard candies, some nuts and a tangerine.  We were always happy with them.  Candy was not something we got very often back then.  All of our gifts would be wrapped and sitting under the tree, each person's gathered in one pile.  We were not allowed into the lounge to have a look until we were all up and had gone to the bathroom, brushed our teeth, etc.   Only then would my father would go in and turn on the tree lights.   We would be held back in the hall, our excitment so thick you could cut it with a knife.   Once the go ahead was given, the three of us would rush into the room . . . mouths opened in awe at what we found beneath the tree.   Each gift was wrapped and labeled.  The next half hour or so would be a mix of the sounds of rustling paper, ooohs and ahhhs and look what I got's!  We never got an awful lot.  My parents were very modest in their expenditures, but then again, they never went into debt either.  We were always happy, and that's what counted.

Some years we were treated to a red mesh stocking which was filled with little toys and candies.  I always loved those stockings.  They were bought already filled, and were the closest thing to a real stocking we ever had.

A bowl of candy and another of nuts would have magically appeared on the coffee table overnight.   The candy bowl was a divided dish, with two halves joined together in the middle with a handle.  It was made of pottery and one half was coloured pink and the other yellow.  There were the traditional hard candies .  .  . little peppermint pillows and cut glass squares, vari-striped satins and rock candy slices, with little pictures in the centres . . . a piece of ribbon candy or two.   On the other side there would be small pastel coloured creams, pink, green, yellow and white . . . soft centred, square ones and round ones, some rolled in sugar.   None would be allowed past our lips until breakfast had been eaten.  The nut bowl would be overflowing with walnuts, filberts and monkey toes to crack open throughout the day.

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The rest of the day would pass quietly as we played with whatever Santa had brought, while my father dozed on the sofa . . . Christmas Carols playing softly over the radio.  As the morning progressed, the smell of roasting turkey would soon fill the air along with the mouth watering anticipation of the Christmas dinner to come!   I always loved my mother's turkey dinners.   Her turkey was never dry and her gravy was always rich and delicious.   As an adult I cannot for the life of me understand why, as children, we fought over who would get the drumsticks . . . but we did.   I loved my mother's stuffing . . . it was made with bread and potatoes and onions and sage.  No matter how many times I try to replicate it myself, it never tastes the same or as delicious as my memory of her's does.  For dessert . . . mincemeat pie, fruit cake, my mother's war cake, her date or feather squares . . . not that any of us had much room for dessert.


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Those were simple times for both Todd and I.  Our Christmas's were not filled with ostentatiousness or the latest gadgets.  We got simple gifts and pleasures.    As simple as they were, they were filled with wonderful memories for each of us. It didn't really matter what Santa had brought . . . what mattered most was the love of family and being together.  Nothing has changed.  We still feel the same today.   We don't do presents for each other really.  We already have what we want or need.  The only thing I really want is to hear from each of my children.  That would be the best Christmas gift ever.   And of course I want my husband well, but I know that is a gift which will take months to receive.  I am hopeful however.  ☺  We will spend a quiet day.  There is only the Sacrament meeting to go to for church in the morning, no Sunday School or Relief Society/Priesthood. It will be a real treat to see all the children's excited and happy faces!  Can't wait for that!  I am cooking a turkey breast in the slow cooker and will have all of the vegetables done the day before, ready to just heat up.  We'll listen to Christmas music and talk to family and spend a nice day together with each other and with Mitzie.  Its going to be great!

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A thought to carry with you through today  . . .

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“Gifts of time and love 
are surely the basic ingredients 
of a truly Merry Christmas.” 
~Peg Bracken
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Today in The English Kitchen a delicious dish sized for just two.  Savoury Garlic Chicken.  You could easily multiply it to serve more if you wanted.  The sauce is really scrumptious!


Have a beautiful Wednesday.   Hope its filled with lots of lovelies and that you get all done that you want to get done.  Whatever you get up to, don't forget  . . .

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And I do too!


7 comments:

Suze said...

I am home and glad to see everyone.

We had simple Christmases as children. I remember having a mes stocking too. What a treat. We had pillow slips that were filled with balloons to fill it. One very fond memory was a blow up canoe. We used mum's hand beater to be an engine.

My children have had simple and more rich Christmases. At one time I bought them a Santa plate and this always appeared at Christmas with a juice box, a croissant and a new movie. This kept the kids busy until everyone arrived.

This year we will be visiting dad for brunch and Beth is making a n afternoon tea. I am sure we will be happy with that.

God bless.

I'm mostly known as 'MA' said...

I was born towards the end of WWII and really have no memories of that much at all. My dad was in the Army and my mom lived with her parents and a sister who's husband served in the military too. I do remember our Christmas stockings though. They were some of my dad's big socks and they always had an orange, tangerines and nuts in them. Christmas is filled with a lot of wonderful memories especially when you've reached my age. Hope you have a wonderful Wednesday!

La Table De Nana said...

You have great memories..I don't remember much..in fact I do not remember one Christmas shared with my brothers..I must have..one was 10 yrs older and the other 7..they moved out early though..they never lived with us on McClynn to my recollection..and I was 10..I do remember going to aunties and my brothers would put fur coats on that were piled on my auntie's beds..you didn't hang up clothes you put them on the bed w/ gloves in the sleeves.
I remember a much older male cousin trying to kiss me..(yuck and what would he be called today.)I am not making this up I don't think..who knows maybe I had a dream and it has seemed real.
I remember thosenet stockings..I do remember my mom putting together a very meaningful stocking..I remember the last Christmas..when she passed away:(
I make stockings for everyone here except J..
I find things that are nice for the girls..but the nice ones..I wait for Chapters/Indigo to put things on sale..
Marie..here..Michaels..I went last week Christmas is already 60 % off and other stores are offering buy 1 ornament get 2 free..I find that weird.
It used to be AFTER Christmas the sales.
Online shopping is BIG..the stores seem busy nevertheless..I am most excited to give my haidresser a stocking this year..she has nevr had one her whole life long.

Tatiana said...

Oh.. You know how I wish to be there.. I don't know what happened this year to both of us.. Yet.. I trust His plan.. I do miss you both

Marie Rayner said...

Glad you got home safe and sound Suzan. It sounded like you had a fairly good cruise and it must have been nice just to get away. Your Christmas sounds like it will be perfectly lovely. xoxo (I am laughing thinking of a blow up boat and egg beater engine!)

My mother was a girl in the War Pam. She is about 6 years older than Todd. They were very lean years but she has some lovely memories of what they did have and I always loved listening to them. It is lovely how a few nuts and some hard candy gave so much pleasure and of course the orange! xoxo

Shopping is insane here at the moment Monique! You are smart to do it all the year through! I loved your Christmas memories. I remember seeing beds piled with coats, the scarves in the sleeves. We have many similar memories. I had an uncle who tried to get my sister in a sleeping bag when she was about 10 and who also tried to get fresh with me, but I was smart enough to know what was going on and I told. My mother was furious. My father's family had some wierd people in it. He was obviously one of those! I always steered clear of him after that! I am sure your girls adore everything you get for them! How wonderful. Your hairdresser will be thrilled with what you give her. You are such a lovely person. I just know everyone loves you. How could they not! xoxo

Oh Tatiana, last year seems so long ago now. I miss you too. Perhaps in the next year we will see each other. Love you.xoxo

Sybil said...

Thanks for sharing these Christmas memories Marie...it is lovely to have Christmas traditions. I hope children of today will grow up with their own traditions. I remember going to bed even earlier than usual on Xmas eve and going to sleep quite quickly at Midnight ? Mum would come and waken me I expect Margaret and Sarah were already about as they were 10 years and 7 years older than me so I suppose my memory might go back till I was maybe 4/5 so they would be almost grown....anyway back to midnight I would be led into the sitting room, that had been quite bare when I went to bed...to find it lit up with Christmas tree in the corner ( I wonder how it was lit up as we didn't get electricity till 1953) anyway it was bright in there and Santa had been...I also had a net sticking..Santa didn't bring that it always came from Margaret I loved it full of things like magic colouring books, secret pens, a torch, and something I only recently lost a Pink rabbit shaped toothbrush..imagine I must have had it over 60 years ! Ah yes memories, traditions, our lives were dottedwiththem. I am thankful that Sarah kept up our traditions and always got Jacquelineabd Beth up at midnight and like me they were allowed to take one present back to bed with us...oh I could write and writeaboutthese happy long away days...but instead I will say night night. God Bless xxxx

Marie Rayner said...

Oh what wonderful memories Sybil. I loved reading them! God bless right back! xoxo