Monday, 1 December 2025

Hello December . . . .



Pinch punch the first of the month. Hello December.  The pinnacle of the year. The month we seem to work towards for half of the year with all of the planning and hopes that go into it. Today the kids can crack open their Advent Calendars and enjoy their first festive treat and the Elf on the Shelf can start going crazy around the house.

I got myself an Advent Calendar this year. The Bonne Maman one. Yes, it was a real splurge, but I reckon I am worth the occasional splurge. This morning, I have enjoyed my toast with a little pot of Wild Blueberry and Maple Jam.  What a great Canadian sounding combination. But does it work? I am not sure. It was tasty, the blueberries nice and tart with an underlying sweetness from the syrup, but I couldn't really taste the maple once it was spread onto my toast. 

I wonder what tomorrow will bring?





 There is some bad weather coming our way beginning tomorrow night. A real Nor-easter. Intense wind gusts, heavy rain and a hefty snowfall, although where exactly any of it will land, remains to be seen at the moment. Expect the stores will be busy with people gathering supplies just in case, today and tomorrow. The risk of the power going off is always great. I usually fill up my tub with water just in case (so I can flush the toilet).  I have candles for light and a high-powered flashlight. Lots to read. A portable power thingy for my phone. Lots of blankets and throws.

We could get snow. We could get rain. We will get weather.

I do have an eye appointment on Thursday so hopefully everything will have blown over by then. We shall see.


 


The best part of the holiday season for me has always been in the anticipation. The waiting. There is so much more to Christmas than Christmas Day. I love the buildup. It's easy to get yourself involved in the pre-Christmas hysteria of buy, buy, buy.  It seems from "Black Friday" onwards we are bombarded from all angles by people wanting to sell us something.

 I like to approach it all in a much gentler way. Slow and steady . . . savoring all of the sights, smells and feelings of this very special time of year.  Advent, days in which to ponder the true meaning of the Christmas season without all of the commerciality that seems to put everyone into a frenzy.

For me it is about celebrating the birth of the Savior and that is uppermost in my mind, but it is also about spending time with family, sharing some delicious food and memories with each other, perhaps a meaningful gift or two, but nothing too elaborate.  Doing something to remember and help those who are not as fortunate as we are. 

I like to donate to the Salvation Army each year. They do so much good for people that the serve. But there are countless charities that you can give to.  Both within our own small communities and further abroad.

I like a slow Christmas that lasts the whole month through with the spirit of love, remembrance and giving . . . time and service to others, in small and meaningful ways. Nothing need be elaborate. People just want to be remembered. A phone call. A card. A meal. Simple acts of service.


Not my usual post this morning. I have a doctor's appointment to get ready for and a tire that needs pumping up. I think I have a portable pump in my car that I shall use, or I will leave for my appointment early and stop at the service station and use the air pump there. Or I will call a Taxi.  I did not sleep well last night for worrying about it.  About getting there with my tire the way it is, about where I was going to park when I got there so I don't have to walk too far with my knees the way they are. I was seriously awake at 3 a.m. fretting a bit over it all and had a hard time to fall back asleep.  There was naught I could do about it then, but still the thoughts harassed me.

What will be will be. The easiest thing would perhaps be to just call a taxi.

In any case, I will leave you now with a thought for the day, and be back tomorrow with a regular post.

A thought to carry with you . . . 

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Ecclefechan Tarts



In The English Kitchen today  . . .  Ecclefechan Tarts. A Scottish festive treat. Very yummy!


Have a beautiful day whatever comes your way. Stay safe, warm, dry and be happy.  Don't forget!


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Saturday, 29 November 2025

All Things Nice . . .

 

I love to step inside the door
And get that first whiff of a store
Of spice and perfumes rich and rare,
That seems to hang upon the air
Like incense from a sacred bowl
Soothing a poor sin-burdened soul.

The scent of lavender that fills
The store like early daffodils;
Pine scented soap in little bars,
Complexion cream in dainty jars,
As fragrant as a spring bouquet
Fresher than Violets in May.

From a tall shelf you get a whiff
Of sun-dried grasses on a cliff,
Above a sea where salt and brine
Are all mixed up with sun warmed pine;
And from a satin trimmed sachet
The perfume of a summer day.

The pungent odor of ground spice
Bergamot . . . ginger . . . camphor ice,
Lavender . . . lilac . . . sandalwood,
Perfumes from gardens . . . field and wood,
Rushing to meet me at the door
When I go to the corner store.
~Edna Jacques, Drug Store Smells
The Golden Road, 1953


Oh, I could so identify with these words. I remember the way going into those old shops felt and smelled back in the day. The way the old wooden floorboards creaked beneath your footsteps. When we came back from living in Germany in 1960, my father was posted to Gimli, Manitoba and there was an old-fashioned drugstore right on the corner of a street right down by the lakefront/pier. Walking into that store was like walking into Alladin's cave. It was loaded with treasures. I loved to go in there with my saved-up pennies and just peruse all that was on offer. I once bought a big plastic piggy bank that looked like a North American Indian, complete with feather. Another time it was a fountain pen and a bottle of ink.  Still yet another time, a wooden pencil case with a slatted roll out top that was painted in a pretty picture.

The drug store in my grandmother's town, Merry's Drugstore in Lawrencetown, NS was another treat, with much the same treasures, except at Christmas when they opened all of the upper floor as a Toy Land. Oh, what a treat it was to go up the stairs and look at all the toys that we had only ever seen in catalogues or on our grainy pictured black and white television. Plus, they had a soda fountain where you could sit on a stool and enjoy a cold drink or an ice cream.

There is a nice drug store in our town here. It may not have old wooden floors that creak, but it is an Aladin's cave of gifts and other things, besides the normal things you would expect to find in such a place like medicines and creams. You can get a lovely pair of slippers, or a pretty shawl, earrings, cards, lawn decorations, etc. It is a lovely place to pick up a card and a gift for a special occasion. They also have an area where you can get a loaf of bread, a chiller cabinet and freezer cabinet and all sorts. It doesn't quite have the same heart that these old shops had back in the day, but it is still a fine place to go. I doubt many children save up their pennies to go there nowadays, however, as the dollar store is right across the street and is a much more affordable place to pick up a trinket or two.



 



 What a friendly looking room this is. So warm and inviting. I can just imagine sitting in one of those chairs with a good book to read and my feet propped up on that footstool.  That mirror on the wall is beautiful as well . . .  with little birds sitting on the intertwined branches. How very lovely. I had a sofa once upon a time with the same printed fabric as that footstool. It was in our good living room in the house we built in New Brunswick, along with two plum colored wing chairs. Oh, how I loved that room. I had crisscrossed ruffled sheers on the window just like June Cleavers

Everything about that house brought me joy. I think of all the years of my life in bringing up my children, those few years were my happiest. My husband was not there; he was away in Bosnia serving with the U.N. There were just the children and me. My best friend lived across the street from me. We did craft sales together and school lunches three times a week. All my babies were still living at home. Like a mother hen I had them safely gathered in beneath my wings.

It was a happy, contented time. Probably the most stable of all the years I was married to that man. I could have stayed like that forever.  But, alas, it didn't last. Change is always inevitable. That is the nature of these beautiful lives we are living.





We had snow during the night and it is laying on the ground. Very chilly out there this morning, it is. The temperature is -1*C/31*F.  My weather ap says it feels much colder. -13*C/8.6*F  so very chilly indeed.  They have forecast snow or snowy showers for most of next week. I don't know that any of it will stick. It is a bit too early to be dreaming of a White Christmas.

But that would be lovely. I have not had one of those in many, many years.



 


It is hard to believe that we are already at the end of November with December sitting on our doorsteps. Only two more days, counting today. By December people here in the valley have really begun to dig in for the winter. Wood is stacked high in the sheds, while cabbages and potatoes are trapped in the cold cellars.  Squash and apples too. Pantry shelves are lined with jewel-like jars of preserves, fruits and veggies. 

In the old days people would have banked their homes with evergreen branches to insulate against the coming cold. Modern times don't need such protection, except maybe in the really old homes.  Our heating systems are so much better than they were back in the day.

In farmyards the breath of the cows rises like smoke in the morning air. I said to Cindy in the car the other day, at this time of year I am happy I am not a cow or a bird. I have someplace warm and dry in which to nestle and I am a lucky one. Not all are so blessed.

There is a peculiar sense of satisfaction to country living in the winter months, that sense of being snuggled down against the weather must be an old feeling we inherit from our forefathers. Let the snow fall and the wind howl. We are safe and secure. There is a deep joy to be found in the conflict with nature's worst hours, probably because we feel the glory of surviving no matter how hard the winds blow or how high the snow piles up, or when a long drought sets in and water is as precious as a diamond drop.

It is good to think about the simple bravery of plain ordinary folk and their ability to rise above the worst that life and nature throw at us. 


 

All through the town and village, fairy lights appear at this time of year. They festoon the bushes and line the roof tops, and drape upon bare branches like pearls. Night comes early now . . .  it is getting dark by late afternoon, and the warmth of the sight of such pearls cheers the heart like nothing else.  

Fairy lights, candlelight, the warm glow of the hearth with logs crackling and snapping as we bask in the warmth of the flickering flames. It's all so soul enriching.  There is a channel on the television which is just a fireplace. I am sure you know it. I have it on often during December. It is odd how just the sight of it warms the bones.  Add to that the sound of the snap, crackle and pop of the logs . . . the mind is so suggestable. It doesn't have to be real to be enjoyed. Just the promised whisper of the reality is often enough to light up the soul.


 

Dad has settled back in very well at home. He had his eye appointment yesterday and Cindy was taking him to the Big Scoop for his breakfast this morning. He is back to the old routine. I am sure he is feeling better now than he has done for ages. The blood infusion has done him the world of good. He had probably been bleeding internally for a while, with nobody really knowing.  It is no wonder he had been feeling so poorly and tired and lacking in energy for much of anything. It was amazing how much better he was almost immediately afterwards. So perked up and energized. It warms my heart to see him feeling so much healthier. He was quite ready to die and said to us several times he thought he was on his last legs. I am so grateful for his recovery.  Thank you so much for all of your prayers on his behalf. Prayer is the greatest gift you can give another.


 

I think I will get myself a few more bird feeders to hang out the front for the cats to enjoy watching. I had allowed myself to be talked into getting rid of all of mine because the old lady down the end of the road said they attracted rats and I did see a rat out there one morning. But it seems a shame to make the birds suffer and do without because of a few rats.  So long as the feeders are up high and away from the house, I cannot see the harm.

Sometimes I will put on cat television for them so that they can watch squirrels, etc. coming to feeders and hear the tut tutting of the birds and other creatures. They are interested in it for a short, but then I think they seem to sense that it is not real and they abandon it.

They do not seem to play like they did when they were younger. Their toys don't really amuse them anymore. I sometimes worry that they might be bored, but it doesn't matter what I bring in for them to play with, their interest soon has waned. Perhaps it is just their age.


And with that I will leave you with a thought to carry with you over the weekend . . .

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everything to be perfect
before you decide to
enjoy your life.
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"Cup of Tea" Teacake


In the kitchen today, "Cup of Tea" Teacake. Tender, lightly spiced and sprinkled with a kiss of brown sugar on top! This is the perfect weekend cake!


I hope you have a lovely weekend. Stay safe, be warm, be blessed. Whatever you get up to I hope that it brings you joy.  Don't forget!


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Friday, 28 November 2025

Dear Neighbor . . .

 

 FRIDAY, November 28th, 2025
Estate Lane, Nova Scotia
1*C/34*F mostly cloudy

Dear Neighbor,

I am working on my big desktop computer this morning so it is taking me a bit longer. I seem to have gotten a virus on my laptop and I don't know how to get rid of it so I am afraid to use it. I am grateful that I have this desktop as a backup. I do have a virus program on the computer, but for some reason it won't kick in and the virus itself is telling me with popups to renew my McAfee, which I know I already have, which has not done it's job. Its very frustrating. It was easier to just shut it down and move to using the desktop. Pity because I liked the portability of my laptop. Then this computer was telling my virus has expired, and I knew that I had just renewed the other one a month or so ago, but it wouldn't let me sign in for that, so I just purchased a new program because it was less frustrating than trying to get the one I already have to work.  Plus I cannot get my printer to work on this. 

First world problems. 

 



Dad got home from the hospital yesterday in the early afternoon. He was a bit disappointed that his cat did not make as much of him as he thought she should, but he was happy to be home nonetheless. We are also happy to have  him home.

Today is a busy day for them, as Cindy has checkups booked for her two younger cats this morning and then Dad has an eye appointment this afternoon.

I may try to drive my car today. I need to have the wheels torqued and I also have one tire which is losing air so I need to have that checked as well. I am not sure if they will have time to check the tire at the garage or not, but they can certainly torque the wheels.

I just hope it starts after not having been started in over a week. Fingers crossed.  I also need to go to the store. I have not been for any real grocery shop for more than a few weeks now. I've mostly been living off what I have in the cupboards, etc. Not a lot of fresh veg. I did  pick up some broccoli and cauliflower one day to make that casserole that I have posted in the kitchen and I have some of those veggies left, but that's all.


 


I have never been a really confident driver. I will be the first one to admit it.  For years and years I had men doing all the driving. When my ex husband would go away with the army, he always took our car with him, and of course in the U.K. I only drove a few times. That was a nightmare for me, even though I took driving lessons. The roads were just too busy and of course everything was totally backwards, and it just made me too nervous.  I think nervous drivers are a hazard on the road.

I have my way of doing things when I do drive. I will drive a mile out of my way to avoid busy traffic. When I get to the corner of bridge street and main here in town, rather than turn left into the traffic and have to cross the road, I will turn right and then go left onto the street the post office is on and drive around in a circle that brings me out the other side of Tim Hortons so that I can turn right onto the road and not have to cross to the other side. Not that that made any sense I am sure. But it is the way I do things.  That corner is just always so busy and then people drive up next to you that are turning right and you can't see what is coming and if you have an impatient driver behind you, they get annoyed with you for not going, etc. It just gets me all flustered, and I would rather avoid feeling that way if I can.



 

I have enjoyed seeing everyone's Thanksgiving photos on Facebook of their families enjoying their meals. Everything looked so tasty. I used to love cooking a big meal like that for my family when they were growing up. The last real family Thanksgiving I had was in 1998 before my husband made me leave the family home. (Don't ask, mental abuse is a hard thing to describe, explain or understand.) Anyways that was the last time I had all of my chicks in the nest and cooked a big turkey dinner. Oh, for sure I have cooked turkey dinner's since then for missionaries, etc. But somehow that is not quite the same as cooking one for your family and enjoying all of the family togetherness that comes with it. 

I think I would have to do it in stages now anyways. I get so tired having to cook more than one big thing. My knees and back get too sore. One of the joys of aging. I can do much better if I can pace myself over a few days.






I did a bit of pencil sketching yesterday. I only did the one in the middle up top yesterday, the others were ones I had previously done. I used to love working with pencils when I was younger. I find my eyesight doesn't want to cooperate much these days. I will be glad to have my eye appointment next month and see what's up with that. I think I am needing a cataract operation more sooner than later, but we will see.


 

I watched another really nice film on Netflix last night. Letters to Juliet.  It takes place in Verona Italy and it was just wonderful. A bit of a romance, less than two hours in length so just right. No swearing, violence or nudity. No sex.  Lots of beautiful scenery. It made me wish that I was younger and up to going on travels. So pretty. If you haven't seen it and are looking for a good film to watch, that is just plain nice,  then this just might be up your alley.


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I started writing out some Christmas Cards yesterday. I had a birthday card to do for my youngest daughter. I know she doesn't contact me and hasn't in years, but she has never told me not to contact her yet and until she does I will continue. I got that done and then a few cards. I have a few more to do. I don't send out as many as I used to in the old days. These days I only send out very few in comparison. But the ones I do send are special, and sent with love.  

I tell myself each year that I am going to include a letter, but each year I run out of time to do so. I don't really have all that much to put in a letter really. Most of the people I know already know what's going on in my life, so there wouldn't be much new to write about.

Arrg . . .  I am having some computer problems so will have to cut this short. Sorry about that.  Hopefully I will be able to get them sorted and be back online soon.
for now, be safe. be happy and don't forget! 

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Thursday, 27 November 2025

My Favorite Things . . .

 



Raindrops on roses and whiskers on kittens . . . these are some of the things in life that I enjoy, and which make me happy, inspire me, or put a smile on my face. Maybe some of them are yours too.  Let's share!   


 

Pretty bags.  I loved it when I first went to the U.K. and noticed that most shops, even the small ones had really pretty bags.  Even the sweet shops. Little striped paper bags, etc.


 


Deer being deer  . . .  in their natural habitat.


 


Christmas trees in pots. That way you can replant them into your garden after Christmas.


 


Hand spun yarns  . . . 


 


The Coastal Towns of Norway.  So pretty. 


 


Writing desks. So much character. Always wanted one.


 

Old wooden chairs  . . . 


 

Jack Frost  . . . 


 


Fresh bread with butter and jam. But I could never cut it that straight.


 

Hope. How could we ever cope without it.


 

Manual typewriters. Its what I learned on.


 


Vintage dolls . . . 


 

Bone handled knives . . . 


 

Tweed-like yarns . . . 


 

Eyelet lace  . . . 

 

Turned wooden beds . . . 


 

Quilts . . . 


 

Roses . . . 


 

The classics . . . 


 

Crochet Shelf edging . . . 


And those are my favorite things for this week. I hope some of them are also some of yours!


A thought to carry with you . . . 


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to have someplace to go
where we can be quiet.
~Louisa May Alcott
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Easy Cranberry Orange Mold



Another vintage recipe in the kitchen today. Easy Cranberry Orange Mold. From the 1950's. Its simple to make and quite delicious. Only 3 simple ingredients.

Happy Thanksgiving to all of my American Readers and friends! I hope it is filled with lots of good food and family. May you be blessed!

We are hoping that dad can come home from the hospital today. He was doing so much better yesterday and has a lot of his energy back since the blood transfusion!

I had my ECG. No news on that yet.

In any case, I hope you all have a beautiful day. Be safe!  Don't forget! 

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