Friday, 18 April 2025

Dear Neighbor . . .


 

FRIDAY, April 18th, 2025
3 Estate Lane, Nova Scotia
2*C35*F feels like -8*C
supposed to get considerably warmer as the day goes on
Also supposed to be a sunny day today


Dear Neighbor,

I took that photograph last night while I was sitting on the sofa crocheting. I thought my glass birds looked nice. I love them.  They bring me joy.  That other piece of stained glass, the clear etched one was a gift a while back from my next-door neighbor. And, as you can see, I hung up my hummingbird feeder yesterday. I expect the earliest ones to be back any day now, so I am prepared for their return. There is not a lot blooming at the moment, that's for sure.

I popped to the grocery store later in the afternoon yesterday as I realized I had no onions, and I needed some for tomorrow. The store was really busy, but then it won't be open today so expect people were getting in some last bits for the weekend.  I had to park quite far from the store itself as there were no blue badge spots left. Thats okay. I managed alright. My left knee has been giving me quite a lot of gyp lately. It seems to flare up every now and then.  It's been doing so since just before I went to Scotland back in the spring of 2017. That's quite a while now. I thought it was because I had tripped over a box and pulled a muscle at first, but clearly it was not.  Because.  Here I am. And it still hurts all these years later.



 


I've been participating in the Pray 40 sessions on my Hallow App in the run up to Easter. This past week they have been sharing videos of Jonathan Rumie (who plays Jesus in the Chosen) and Jeff Havens in the Holy Land, following Christ's last week.  It has been very touching and fascinating to be able to pray my way through Jerusalem and follow the Savior's last steps. Yesterday and today, we have been following the Savior down the Via de la Rosa on His way to the cross. It's been a wonderful way to draw closer to the Savior over these past weeks.  

I am a person who feels pretty close to Him anyways, as you know.  I am a Latter Day Saint and belong to the church of Jesus Christ. The Savior is a HUGE part of my life. I try to walk in His footsteps daily.  Some days I do better than others. It is the way I choose to live my life, evenly yoked with Him. It has made a huge difference to me.  No, that doesn't mean I don't have struggles or challenges, but it does mean that I handle them in a different way . . .  for me  . . .  a better way.  I know this way of life is not for everyone. It works very well for me.

I find beauty in many of the world's religions. There is truth to be found in all of them. Anything which draws you into deeper communion with your Heavenly Father is a good thing in my opinion.


 

I was talking to the son of my next-door neighbor on the right yesterday. I was hanging up my feeder and he was in the driveway right there.  I asked him how his father was doing, and he said that he has a place at Mountain Lee Lodge now and will be moving there and hopefully will be moved to a facility much closer in the future. They have been emptying out his house over the past few weeks. It is a long slow process as I believe that this gentleman and his wife had lived there since they first built these places. She passed away last year. 

It makes me think about my place and how much work I want my children to have to do when I am gone.  I don't want it to have to take them weeks to process.  I want it to be quick and painless, which means I have a lot of work to do myself.  I am an accumulator. That is not like a hoarder, I promise you, but I do have a desire to pare down.

There is a Japanese writer Fumio Sasaki who wrote a book entitled Goodbye Things: The New Japanese Minimalism.  He pares down his possessions to such an extent that he can pack up everything he owns in less than half an hour. That is a bit extreme I think.

I have been reading about the Gentle Art of Swedish Death Cleaning.  Its about a permanent form of organization that is supposed to make your everyday life run more smoothly. The intent is not that we should remove things that make our life more pleasant and comfortable, but if you cannot keep track of your things that is an indication that you have too much. I hate when I go to tackle a bit project that I have to search for things that I need to do it. A clear indication that a paring down is needed, or at least some form of organization needs putting in place.  The fact that I talk about it a lot is another indication that something needs doing. 😬



 


The accountant is supposed to pick up the stuff to do my income tax this morning.  At least that will be out of my hair and taken care of.  I don't know why I dread tax time every year.  I suppose anyone who is self-employed finds it a bit of a pain to cope with.  It is what it is.  It will be good to get it done and have it over with.  Then I can breathe easier and just get on with my life.

The lady who moved into the place across the way from me has a very large dog. It looks like a bulldog of some sort. Most of the ladies here on this street have some type of dog.  Mostly just small dogs.  The lady on the end across the way has a black tuxedo cat and I have mine.  We are the only cat owners.

Speaking of cats, no news yet on little Mac. They are closed now for the weekend, so it will be next week before we hear anything. He is doing much better however and is eating, which is good.

We are all rooting for him.


 


Cindy and Dan are coming over today to help me in my garage. That will be nice.  I am so blessed to have people around me that don't mind helping me out with things. Were it not for them I really would be quite on my own around here.  I do worry about being a burden from time to time. I am not an old woman by any stretch, but my arthritis does make it difficult for me to do some things. It means I cannot bend down to do stuff. I can't get down on the floor and with my shoulder, which is still causing me trouble, I cannot reach very far either.

Who was it who called these the "Golden Years"?  LOL They still beat the alternative, so I am not complaining. It is a blessing to still be here.  There are many that I went to school with that are not.



 

Nice, but a bit "too" pared down in my opinion.


It's also a bit too modern, very Mad Men. I much prefer a style more like the 40's and 50's. For me, that ere, although somewhat austere in many ways, well the 40's anyways, is much more comforting and cozier. There is no cozy above. Not for me anyways.  I suppose I am wanting to decorate huggy granny style. Post WW2/Pre Sexual Revolution. June Cleaver/Aunt Bea-ish. They are my heroes.

Not that I would ever wear pumps and pearls to do my housework. That is also not me. I am not seeking perfection. 


 

I have discovered the most delicious looking Tumblr account. Food in the Morning.  There is nothing but photographs of delicious breakfasts. Loads of photos of hot breakfast sandwiches, eggs, bacon, pancakes, muffins, etc. I used to love to go out for breakfast.  It used to be much cheaper to eat out for Breakfast than Dinner. I think that is no longer the case these days.  


Some places do breakfast much better than others. Cindy and Dan went to the Big Stop in New Minas not so long ago and it was supposedly very good. Cindy had pancakes and they were so big and the stack so tall she couldn't even put a dent in them.  Dan had the big breakfast which was good by all counts.

My father goes to the Big Scoop for breakfast on Saturdays and the Green Elephant on Sundays. He is a man who loves to go out for breakfast on the weekends.

Myself, I think there is no lovelier smell than to be sitting outside on a warm sunny morning and to smell toast and bacon in the air.  That smells like Home Sweet Home to me.


 



In the U.K. I loved to go to the Cafe at the BHS on a Saturday and enjoy one of their breakfasts. You paid by the number of items you chose.  There were eggs (any style you wished), bacon, sausage, hashbrowns, baked beans, tomatoes, mushrooms, black pudding, fried bread, toast, etc.  Coffee or tea was extra. I think the very basic was a four-item breakfast and then you paid extra for every add on from there.  I used to get bacon, sausage, scrambled eggs, baked beans and fried bread. Fried bread is a real extravagance and not very healthy, but I have always felt that eating out is supposed to be a bit of a treat.

Of course the Full English, which is what a full breakfast over there is lovingly called, unless you live in one of the other countries such as Scotland or Wales, is a wonderful British tradition and something which you can enjoy at any B&B the whole country over.

I also love a good Continental breakfast.  Heck, I just love breakfast, and I love it even more if someone else is making it!  Even a cheeky McDonald's Egg McMuffin has its place!


 

When I was a child, I would have loved a chick or a baby bunny for Easter.  Thank goodness my mother never indulged us in those fantasies. Chocolate chicks and bunnies were all we received. Much easier to care for.   When I was at the store yesterday, I looked for some chocolate Easter bunnies, but they did not have any left at the store I was in. I thought it would be nice to have one at each place on my Easter Dinner Table.  Alas, that is not to be. I think this will be the first year in a very long time that I have not had a Lindt Easter Bunny to enjoy. There is something about that little red collar and bell.  And the chocolate of course. The best in my opinion.  I have never been one that enjoys the Cadbury's Egg with all of that super sickly-sweet runny filling, but a Lindt bunny?  Well, I could happily gobble that right down, even though I know I shouldn't.

There are certain things that are traditions at Easter. Like Ham and chocolate bunnies, and I am a traditionalist at heart.

I remember one year when I was a child, we got foil wrapped hollow Easter bunnies. They were so pretty. I had a bookcase headboard on my bed that had doors you could close. I was determined that I was going to save my bunny as long as possible.  I put the bunny into the closed partition of the headboard on my bed.   What followed was a pleasant Easter Sunday with Sunday School and Church. Our cousins came up to visit in the afternoon. I am not sure if they stayed to dinner or not.  All day I put off touching my Easter Bunny, but I was thinking about it, tucked up all safe and sound in its hiding place Later in the day I thought I just might enjoy a nibble on its feet, but just a nibble.  I went to get it out of its secret spot and lo and behold, all that was left was the foil wrapper. Someone else had helped themselves.

Ever since then I feel an obligation to devour my Easter Bunny as it comes and not save it for later.  If I don't eat it, someone else will, and we can't have that!




This was Cinnamon making herself quite at home laying in front of the television the other evening.  As you can see she was quite comfortable and snozzing away. Of course, she was in front of the channel changer light thingie (whatever it is called) so I could not change the channel. I did not have the heart to move her or chase her down, she was having such a sweet nap.

She has been really affectionate lately and very demanding also.  Coming to me and asking me for things, like pipe cleaner play time, brushing time, treat time, etc. Usually, it is just the big bumbler that is asking, but she is becoming quite vocal and demanding in expressing her wants as well.

I had the ribbon wand out yesterday and was playing with Nutmeg. He just loves it. I was not doing much with it but walking back and forth through the house dragging and waving it behind me, but he was galloping after it and jumping up. somersaulting in the air to catch it. It was quite fun to watch him being so happy with it. 

Oh, I do so enjoy their company. There are times when I wish that I had a dog, but I am also a realist in many ways and realistically speaking I could not properly care for a dog. 

And with that I best leave you with a thought for the day as the tax man will probably be here soon.

A thought to carry with you  . . . 


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Amish Refrigerator Pickles



In the kitchen today.   Amish Refrigerator Pickles.  A small batch. Something lovely and fresh and crunchy for your holiday table. Only 24 hours to perfection!  Simple ingredients done well.



I hope that you have a beautiful day on this Good Friday. I hope your day is blessed and filled with people you love and pockets of pure joy. Whatever you get up to, don't forget!


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Thursday, 17 April 2025

My Favorite Things . . .

 



These are some of the things in life that I enjoy, and which make me happy, inspire me, or put a smile on my face. Maybe some of them are yours too.  Let's share! 


 

Flower sprigged pillow cases  . . . 


 

Sea Shells  . . . 


 

Meal prep . . . 


 

The color pink . . . 


 


Hope  . . .  shining . . . yellow . . . bright.


 

This  . . . 


 


A front porch swing  . . . 


 


Poetry  . . . 


 

Pink rosebuds  . . . 


 

Blue and white  . . . 


 

More blue and white  . . . 


 

A sweet shop . . .  there was a lovely one in Chester . . . 


 


Poppies  . . . 


 

Wash on the line  . . . 


 


Rocks painted with spring  . . . 


 

Teatime  . . . 


 

Sunny days  . . . 


 

Ferns  . . . 


 

Smiles  . . .  they are contagious.


 


Cottage gardens  . . . beautifully wild.


And those are my favorite things for this week. Maybe some of them were some of yours!


A thought to carry with you . . . 


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 *.˛.Part of the problem
with the world today is
no one snaps green beans
with grandma.
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Herb & Garlic Roasted Chicken Legs


In the kitchen today  . . .  Herb & Garlic Roasted Chicken Legs.  Simply delicious.


I hope you have a lovely day today.  Cindy and I went shopping yesterday morning and the shops were so busy. It seemed like everyone was out and about. If you need to go anywhere today stay safe, be blessed, don't forget!


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And I do too!    

   

Wednesday, 16 April 2025

Wednesday Witterings . . .

 

 I didn't get a lot done yesterday. Not in the physical sense anyways. I had big plans, but somehow, I got distracted by other things. That happens to me frequently. I have always gotten distracted by other things. I am a frequent flyer on the airline of distracted. I can start off doing one thing and end up doing ten things and in the end am lucky to get even one of them done.

We live in a world filled with distractions. I do not have a hard time ignoring worldly distractions, but here in my wee house I am very easily distracted. Could it be my age?  I don't know. Maybe I have always been this way. That would explain a lot, lol. 


 

Suddenly the world seems green and glorious.
Suddenly everything seems possible.
Spring is stirring.


Bringing nature indoors is a wonderful spring activity. There is something about bringing home those first spring flowers that is really special.  Cutting off a few branches from some bushes which flower and bringing them indoors so that you can force them into being is like a breath of fresh air. Just cut a cross into the base of each branch to help with water intake and then pop them into a big old jar filled with water. Freshen the water each day and recut the stems to keep your blooming branches healthy. Such a pretty thing to do.  

I was watching Olesya and House on YouTube yesterday and she was setting her table for Easter.  She had gone outside and clipped a few blooms from the garden, hyacinth, white and grape.  She had white napkins that she had folded like open triangles with the opening at the top and tied them shut with some string.  Then she inserted a few stems into each napkin so that just the blooms were showing. I am probably not explaining it correctly, but it was very pretty and yet so simple. You can see it here, starting at 14:35. So pretty. She also makes this really delicious looking Easter bread and the prettiest Easter eggs are dyed using Onion skins. I find her channel so fascinating and inspiring.


 


It has been many years since I have dyed Easter Eggs.  With no children about there just is not the need. In the old days I used to buy the egg dying kits and the children and I would do them together. Always such a fun activity.  I wish I had known then about the natural ways to dye eggs using things like onion skins, spinach leaves or red beetroot or cabbage. Alas we did not have the internet back then to introduce us to such delights. It was word of mouth, family tradition or happenchance that taught us these things, and I had nobody to teach them to me.


I was never used to the idea of having boiled Easter eggs.  As children our eggs were always raw.  Our mother colored them with crayons and then on Easter morning she would prick both ends with her darning needle.  We would have the pleasure of blowing them out into a bowl. Oh, how that made our cheeks ache.  We would then have scrambled eggs for breakfast. Mom would string the emptied colored eggs onto some yarn into a sort of necklace and we would wear them all day, trying to get through the day without them breaking. A very difficult thing to do.  They always ended up breaking. 

Mom's big thing was for us to each have a solid chocolate bunny. She hadn't had anything like that when she was a child, and a solid chocolate bunny was really special to her.  I liked the ones which also had rice crispies mixed in with the chocolate.  I still like chocolate and rice crispies mixed together. 

Did you get those candy eggs which had all sorts of colors as shells, and a white sugary filling when you were a child? I remember them being very sweet and coming in colors like yellow and lilac, pink and blue, green, etc. The orange ones were my favorite because they kind of tasted like oranges.

I did not like chocolate eggs filled with marshmallow.

With all of that Easter candy it's a wonder we were not pinging off the walls.  We probably were, lol. Poor mom.




 


I got the freezer cleaned out in my kitchen refrigerator yesterday.  It was full of rock-solid bags of frozen vegetables and fruits. Some freezer burnt way out of date meat, etc. I felt very guilty when I was clearing it out. I filled the freezer up with good intentions. I picked up a bargain here and a bargain there, but how much of a bargain is it really if I only end up throwing it away a couple of years down the road. I wonder if most people who live on their own have the same problem. 

Today I have plans to clean out the bottom part of the refrigerator and purge it with half eaten bottles of pickles and jams, out of date salad dressings.

I can remember coming home to visit mom and checking the dates of everything on her refrigerator door before eating it and finding things which were out of date by years.  She would get most insulted if I didn't want to eat my salad with dressing that had been in there since my last visit four or five years prior.  I have eaten brown Parmesan cheese because I did not want to hurt her feelings, and it did not kill me. Nor did it taste very good.

I am becoming that person with a refrigerator full of expired bargains. I do not want to be her.  And so I will purge.

I need to only buy one of anything when I buy it and then use it up before I get anything else. I also only need to buy what I can reasonably use up in one week, not be thinking too far down the road. And where I live, when it comes to fresh fruit and vegetables, one should only buy what can be used within a day or two.  They have no staying power at all.

I believe we are at the end of the food chain and get only the dregs that nobody else wanted. I can't wait until the farm markets begin to fill with good local fresh fruits and vegetables again.





This was the state of affairs here at several points during the day yesterday. Two sleeping moggies.  They sleep a lot but every so often they have bursts of energy and go flying through the rooms. Love them both so much.  I would love to have them sleep on my bed each night, but I am afeared that Nutmeg would be pestering me at 5 o'clock every morning to get up and feed him. He starts meowing outside my door around that time. Most of the time I don't hear him but every so often I do, and he does it with regularity. He loves his food that one.

And hers too, if he could get away with it.


 



Ohh, this resonated this morning. We live in such a toxic world and it is so easy to take on board the negativity that surrounds us.  I was reading this thread on FB where a woman was saying that her Filipino daughter had been abused by a customer at KFC for being different.  Racist abuse. You see things like that happening more and more often.  I never saw this Valley I live in as being that way and I don't think it really was, at least not as far down as where I live. It just somehow seemed nicer here.  Small town, etc. Last week there were four FOUR robberies in this town by knifepoint.  A store employee was punched in the last one.  The RCMP did end up arresting the perpetrator, but still. This is the type of thing that never happened in my small town. Last autumn all of the people with sheds in their back gardens across the way had them broken into and their Winter tires stolen. (I don't have a shed and so store mine in my garage.) Its nuts.  In the spring last year someone went through town destroying all of the flower displays, etc. in the middle of the night and they slashed the tires of all of the cars in the car lots.

This is a small Andy Griffith kind of a town. Things like this and racist abuse never used to happen here. It makes me sad to think about it. I think to myself if it is that bad here, how much worse it must be in the city. 

All I can do is keep my own wee space in it safe and free from toxicity and shut the world out when I shut my door.  Maybe that is a bit like living in LaLa land, but I could let myself become really afraid living on my own as I do, if I didn't.



I am looking forward to my brother coming for his visit towards the end of May. He will be here the last week of May. I know he will have lots of other things to do and mostly he is here to see our Father. My dad ordered himself a new computer yesterday which should be here by then and my brother is going to help him set it up.  Hopefully Cindy will have found out what her Wi-Fi password is by then. When I was there a week or so ago, we could not find the card that had it written on it. It had disappeared from its usual place.  

I love my family so much. My sister, brother and father. There is really just the four of us now.  There is a beautiful bond that is held by being a part of a family.  These are people who share a history with you that nobody else does. They "get" you because they have been there and, whilst many of your experiences may differ in a multitude of ways, there is a thread of commonality which runs through many other experiences.

I am looking forward to the time we will share together while my brother is down. All of us, together.

 



I am doing this more and more often. Asking myself this question. Before I buy anything, before I invest myself in anything, etc. I am at an age in life where every day is a bonus. I don't want to clutter my days with things that do not bring me joy or that do not inspire. I am rethinking a lot of things . . . it is a long hard process as I am a collector. and I have a very difficult time saying no to people . . . 

I am working on it.

And with that I best leave you with a thought for the day.  I have a bazillion things that I want to get to today and I know with my adhd brain I will only be able to touch on a fraction of it.

A thought to carry with you . . . 


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Have you ever been asked to bring a meal to someone who has been ill and is recovering, or who has just had a baby, etc.  In the kitchen today I am giving my ideas of things you can cook for such situations, with soups, breads, mains and desserts. The Meal Train.


I hope you have a beautiful day. Whatever you get up to stay safe and be blessed.  Don't forget!

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And I do too!