Saturday, 9 May 2026

Just to say . . .

 

 

I seem to find myself causing a lot of confusion for myself and others lately. I do apologize for all of the  kerfunkle of going private here on the blog. It seemed like a good idea at the time. I was well intended. I had not thought that there were so many of you that would want to continue reading and so, when I went to do it, Blogger simply would not accept the numbers. It meant that I wouldn't be able to allow everyone who had requested an invite to join and how could I pick and choose. I just couldn't.

So I made the only choice I could and that was to leave it open.  But then that caused another problem.  I did a blog post addressing everything, but for some reason only half of the post published.  By the time I realized that, it was too late to change it as I was going out with Dad and Cindy, and so I decided to email everyone, but again another problem surfaced . . . 

Apparently in emailing everyone in a group email, it inadvertently meant that anyone responding responded to everyone in the group, much to the annoyance of some.  I deeply apologize for that inconvenience. There were simply too many people to email each one individually. I did the best that I could.

Anyways, I ended up annoying a lot of people and here I am today trying to scrabble the pieces back together. I cannot blame any of you for wanting to ditch me now, lol  That darned Murphy's law. It will get you every time.

What can I say. I am 70 years old, facing a huge challenge and I am not the sharpest tack in the box at the best of times.


So, thank you for your patience,  let us try again. 


 

As you all know my daughter experienced quite a serious hemorrhage in April. It was horrendous but we dealt with it.  She had a CT scan on Monday last and a Doctors appointment to follow up on Wednesday. The news was not good.

She has endometrial cancer, or cancer of the uterus. They did say it could be pre-cancer, but they have also been telling her she is pre-diabetic for the last five or so years as well, yet she is still on diabetic meds.  I think, because of her developmental disability they tell her what they think she can cope with intellectually, and it is much easier for her to think she is "pre" something than it is for her to think she actually "has" something.

In any case, the Doctor has fast-tracked her to the specialist in Kentville hospital and things will go from there.  He also told her if she hadn't heard anything from them within two weeks to get in touch. Yes, that is how quickly things move around here when it comes to medical anything. A snails pace. We are just lucky to have family Doctors at this point. She will need a hysterectomy  at the very least. 

We are trying to be optimistic and hopeful that it has not spread anywhere else. She is still bleeding, although I am not sure how much. Its a delicate issue to confront and discuss and she tends to tell you what she thinks you want to hear and what she wants to believe.


 

Needless to say this is not anything that anyone wants to hear or to experience, but it is what it is. We are grateful to have already experienced tender mercies of the Lord. She attends a Bible study on Friday mornings and when she went to do her work for it on Thursday, this scripture was the first one that popped up.

"This makes you very happy, even though now for a short time different kinds of troubles may make you sad. These troubles come to prove that your faith is pure. This purity of faith is worth more than gold, which can be proved to be pure by fire but will ruin. It is your faith that will bring you praise and glory and honor when Jesus Christ is revealed." 1 Peter 1:6-9

She was greatly encouraged by reading that.  She said to me that she felt like God was speaking to her and telling her that this is just a test and that everything will work out.

She has certainly been going through the fire, first with her marriage and now this. She told me, "Mom, I am not afraid to die because I know where I am going. I am a little bit nervous, yes, but not afraid."

Why do our brains automatically go to the worst case scenario. I wish that they did not. I was quick to encourage her that "that" was not going to happen and that we were going to be doing our utmost to fight this latest battle, no matter what. That we will be "LIVING" every day that we are given to the fullest.





I did end up having to have my ex here the other day. 😖 Something I had never thought would happen. He had wanted to meet her at Tim Hortons to talk, but I said that what needed to be discussed was not a Tim Hortons kind of conversation, but was best dealt with in person. So he came over and she was able to tell him what was going on. I have always wanted us to communicate better with him when it comes to anything pertaining to the kids, after all WE are their parents, divorced or not. I am hoping we can work together on this. Our daughter deserves nothing less from each of us. We can and will get through this!

We would be most grateful for your prayers, happy thoughts and your support through this latest challenge. If you are a temple goer, then please, can you put her name on your temple prayer roll. If you would like to send her a note or a card of encouragement that would be wonderful and very welcome. I will drop the mailing address in the comments section below.

I have always called her the encourager. I was just telling her last month that this was one of her gifts.  She is an encourager and an encouragement to many. To know her is to love her.  Every time we run into someone who knows her they always say to me what a sweetheart she is and how she is always smiling and so positive.  This is true. Even in the worst of circumstances. 

I love my daughter so very much. As parents, none of us want our babies to suffer in any way. If I could take it all away, or take it upon myself, I would in a heartbeat. Life is just so hard sometimes.

If you have made it this far, thank you so much for reading. Thank you for caring.

I hope you have a beautiful weekend.  That whatever you get up to, it brings you joy. We are cooking a few meals this morning to take to my friend Jackie. She has just gotten home from hospital with a fractured back from a fall and we are going to visit her and bring her something tasty to eat so she doesn't have to cook for herself. Serving others is a great way to keep our minds occupied.  


Don't forget!


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Friday, 8 May 2026

My apologies!

 

 




Once again I find myself in the position of having to apologize. I had a post completely written explaining everything, but for some reason only the first paragraph posted. I don't know what the reason behind that was.  I didn't have time to redo it as I had to take dad out with Cindy and now I am home it is too late. Sorry for all the blips and confusion. Just know for now my blog is staying public as there was far too many names for blogger to accept it and I did not want to leave anyone out. I will post tomorrow and dot all the i's and cross all the t's.

Take care, and don't forget!


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PS - My apologies also to anyone who is receiving responses from the group email that I sent out. I am so sorry for that but it was impossible for me to email people individually as there were so many. 

Wednesday, 6 May 2026

Wednesday Witterings . . .

 

 

Good morning everyone. Its warm and breezy here this morning.  Its already +16*C/61(F and it is only 7 a.m. Yesterday was a beautiful day. warm, sunny and yes breezy as well.  The kind of day that makes you want to get out into the garden and do something, but in your heart you know this is just a teaser . . . anything you put out now, you will be running to cover from frost in a few days or weeks time. There is an old saying, "Don't cast a clout until May is out."  Best to leave any serious gardening until the end of the month.


Hummingbirds have been sighted locally, just up the road in Nictaux.  They are here! I haven't seen one yet but others have and have posted photos on Facebook. I wonder at the tenacity and endurance of these little creatures. They truly amaze me. I am so looking forward to watching their antics over the coming months.


 

I have my inside front door open this morning and I can hear the wind chimes from my neighbor's house across the way making that melodic sound that they make. I was thinking of getting some chimes, but really I don't need to when I can listen to theirs.  The bird song is also beautiful this morning.

I have had a lot of gold finches, chickadees and even some sparrows coming to my feeder. Yesterday I also had some red winged black birds. Its all happening here and I am happy to see it.

Unfortunately fire season has also started. There was a few yesterday. One just up in Nictaux, and one in Pictou county.  They say a lot of these fires that come up are "ghost fires."  Fires leftover from the previous year that have been burning underground through the root system.  That is a scary thought.

Thankfully the one in Nictaux was extinguised. We so do not want a repeat of last year. Rainy days are ahead according to my weather app on the PC and I say bring it on!


 

The bird bath has been cleaned and put out front on the railing. Just waiting for them to pop by for a dip or a drink. It all looks so neat and tidy out there after all the hard work Dan put in for me a couple of weeks back. Just in waiting for plant pots or whatever. The bleeding heart was taken out and transplanted at Cindy's and it is doing very well. That makes me happy.


I have been looking at these decorative flat stones that you put in gardens.  My thought is that perhaps I may get a couple to place between the plant pots. They have decorative pictures on them of butterflies, etc.


 

I am sure we have all seen those hideous food reels. The ones where someone aggressively slaps things into a casserole dish or down on a counter top and then proceeds to put together one of the most disgusting looking creations composed of things which should never be seen together. Not in a million years.  I saw one yesterday of someone layering slices of de-crusted cheap white bread, slices of cheese,  with tomato sauce and some concoction of sliced boiled hot dogs and other gross looking sauce things.  In a world where people are literally starving to death, people are wasting food simply for the sake of views on TikTok. I think its really appalling.

And don't get me started on the "fashions" exhibited at the Met Gala. I have not watched them or it, but have seen glimpses of the craziness. Narcissists all vying for the attention of the world by wearing the most expensive and outlandish fashion creations ever known to mankind. 

When will all this stop.  I find it all quite wicked to be honest. It will only stop when we stop paying attention to them. And that's the truth.


 

My back is still sore, but I have seen a vast improvement since it all started. I can manage the pain quite well. I just have to make sure that I don't sit anywhere, and not at the computer for sure, for any length of time.  I need to get up and walk about frequently. Yesterday it was my left upper arm that was hurting more than anything else. Right in the muscle. That has still not gotten any better since my fall last September. I am not sure anything can be done about it. I am learning to live with it.

Eileen had her CT Scan on Monday and was relieved to get that over with. I think she had a Doctor's appointment today as well as an appointment with the sleep therapist. Hopefully all of her issues will be sorted soon and there is nothing untoward going on. She said she is feeling tired again just like she did before the Iron infusions, and she has not stopped bleeding entirely either. Please keep her in your happy thoughts.

I did get her a couple of new Diamond Art projects that I ordered for her on Amazon. A large picture of a farm house with a flower garden and then a set of coasters. They arrived yesterday so she was happily beginning them last night. It makes me happy to see her happy.


 

My grandson Jonathan turns twenty today. It's hard to believe. Both he and Gabriel are 20 now. It doesn't seem long since they were babies. The time has just flown by. I am so grateful that I have had these past five years with plenty of opportunities to spend with most of them. 

I am not a traveler. I find travel very difficult. Especially now that I have mobility problems. I am happiest at home. I would rather pay for their petrol and a motel for them to stay in and have them come to me. That may sound selfish I know, but it is what it is. That last trip I took from the U.K. back to Canada during Covid did it for me. The stress of it all, etc. I just can't bear it. I think that the most I ever want to handle again as far as travel goes is a day trip here and a day trip there and I am not even sure about that.  I quite enjoy my armchair travels.


 

My brother's father-in-law passed away early yesterday morning at the age of 94.  He had not been well for a few years. My sister-in-law took such devoted care of her father, spending most of her days with him and attending to his needs, taking him out on days out from the home he was living in, attending activities in the home with him, seeing to his medical and personal needs, etc. She was a very devoted daughter. I am sure her hands will feel at a bit of a loss for some time to come.  

He was a very fascinating man and led a very interesting life. You can read more about him here. Her parents are now reunited with each other. Sad for those left behind, but I am sure a blessed reunion is being celebrated in the hereafter. 

I only had the privilege of meeting Christine's dad a few times. He always impressed me as being a kind, caring and very patient person. He will be missed. My deepest condolences to Christine and the family.


 

Girl at the May Day Parade, 1968
This photo made me smile.  I am sure she was a lovely little girl. It is so easy 
to capture a short nanosecond in time and make it look like something it really wasn't. She 
probably had a wonderful day with her balloons and the parade.


I don't have a lot else to share this morning. I feel like I want to bake bread today, of some sort. Eileen has two appointments and then we will no doubt be going to the Big Scoop for dinner with Dad, Cindy and Hazel. Eileen is really looking forward to that.  It is just nice to get together as family.

A thought to carry with you  . . . 

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*Dirt roads 
and honest hearts
make the best memories.

Hopefully I will get to some comments today. The problem is I can't comment on my iPad or my phone and it is hard for me to sit at the computer for any length of time. 


Easy Mango Chicken


In The English Kitchen today . . .  Mary Berry's Super Easy Mango Chicken. This was simple and delicious. I small batched the recipe from her book entitled Mary's Foolproof Dinners.  Splendid. Simply splendid.


I hope you have a beautiful day. No matter what you get up to, don't forget!


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Tuesday, 5 May 2026

A Day Book

 



FOR TODAY, May 5th, 2026


OUTSIDE MY WINDOW ...


 


Just a random photo from my front window picture folder. I love the way the sun is shining through the front of the house at sunset. The trees across the way are not fully out yet, but they have that flush that tells you something wonderful if happening. Glenna's daffodils are dancing. Her forsythia bush is dancing as well. Beautiful.


I AM THINKING ...

I watched Alan Osmond's funeral on YouTube yesterday. It was really lovely. He was more than an entertainer. He was a very well loved and respected man, and a wonderful Disciple of Christ.





I AM ALSO THINKING ...

About how what doesn't kill you actually DOES make you stronger.


I AM GRATEFUL FOR ...



The gift of prayer. I don't know where I would be without it.


I AM ALSO GRATEFUL FOR ...



The gift of faith. It's what has kept me going all these years.  Faith  . . .  don't leave home without it.


IN THE KITCHEN ...

Tacos



Five Tasty Tacos for Cinco de Mayo.  My favorites are the Crispy Two Potato ones.  But I also love the Crispy Chicken ones. Oh, and the Thai ones . . . heck, I just LOVE tacos!


ON MY "TO COOK" LIST ...



Copycat A & W Whistle Dogs from Noshing with the Nolands. What can I say. I hold my hand up. I love hot dogs.


THIS I BELIEVE ...

 



We need to learn to be better at forgiving ourselves.


SOMETHING THAT IS NICE ...



This is my favorite saying  . . . 


SOMETHING ELSE THAT IS NICE ...




I am a lover of simplicity and ordinary things  . . . 


I AM WANTING TO CREATE ...


 


Pretty crochet bookmarks  . . . 



 


Embroidered jar caps  . . . 


 

A beautiful table runner  . . . 


 


Hats for cats  . . . 


 


Vintage caps  . . . 


SOMETHING I ENJOY ...




This particular flavor. I don't dare bring them into the house.


SOMETHING ELSE I ENJOY ...

 

My sister could make these. They would be so cute.


I AM READING ...




THE FROZEN RIVER, by Ariel Lawhon


A gripping historical mystery inspired by the life and diary of Martha Ballard, a renowned 18th-century midwife who defied the legal system and wrote herself into American history. 

 Maine, 1789: When the Kennebec River freezes, entombing a man in the ice, Martha Ballard is summoned to examine the body and determine cause of death. As a midwife and healer, she is privy to much of what goes on behind closed doors in Hallowell. Her diary is a record of every birth and death, crime and debacle that unfolds in the close-knit community. 

Months earlier, Martha documented the details of an alleged rape committed by two of the town's most respected gentlemen-one of whom has now been found dead in the ice. But when a local physician undermines her conclusion, declaring the death to be an accident, Martha is forced to investigate the shocking murder on her own. 

 Over the course of one winter, as the trial nears, and whispers and prejudices mount, Martha doggedly pursues the truth. Her diary soon lands at the center of the scandal, implicating those she loves, and compelling Martha to decide where her own loyalties lie. 

 Clever, layered, and subversive, Ariel Lawhon's newest offering introduces an unsung heroine who refused to accept anything less than justice at a time when women were considered best seen and not heard.

The Frozen River is a thrilling, tense, and tender story about a remarkable woman who left an unparalleled legacy yet remains nearly forgotten to this day.

Reading this on my kindle 


THINGS THAT CATCH MY FANCY ...


 

Bumble Bees  . . . 


 


A pretty night dress  . . . 


 


Sinks with skirts  . . . 


 

Porcelain Brush Holders  . . . 


 


A pretty reading room  . . . 

MAKES ME SMILE ...


 


Cute cannisters  . . . 

SOMETHING TO WATCH ...




After The Flood, Series 2  Britbox


A THOUGHT TO CARRY WITH YOU ...

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And that is my daybook for this week!  Thanks always for being here!


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Monday, 4 May 2026

Small and Wonderful Things . . .

 



"The world is fairly studded and strewn with pennies cast broadside from a generous hand. But who gets excited by a mere penny? It is dire poverty indeed when a man is so malnourished and fatigued that he won't stoop to pick up a penny. But if you cultivate a healthy poverty and simplicity, so that finding a penny will literally make your day, then, since the world is in fact planted with pennies, you have with your poverty bought a lifetime of days. It is that simple. What you see is what you get." ~Anne Dillard 


 A few of the small and wonderful things which bring untold joy into my life. It's the small things in life which truly mean the most. Simple abundance . . . it's the best.



 


The blessing of being able to watch church online.  I am afraid that I have done far more of that this year than I would have liked to do, but I am grateful that it is an option that is available for me. I may not be able to partake of the Sacrament when I do, but at least I get the blessing of hearing the talks and testimonies and of being able to mark out my sabbath day in a special way.





Sunday dinner at Cindy's. This week she cooked us Indian Food with a Vegetable Keralan Curry, Chicken Biriyani and Naan breads. It was some tasty. Eileen was thrilled as well.  She loves Indian food just as much as the rest of us do.  Well, Dad perhaps isn't fond, or says he isn't, but he just thought it was chicken and rice and he ate it. Thank you Cindy for another delicious meal!

I can go to Cindy's because I can get up and walk around without really disturbing anyone. I would not be able to do that at church.


 

The greening of the land.  The leaves are showing on the trees now and everything is taking on that green flush of Spring. Glenna's forsythia is bursting into yellow flame. All of the daffodils are blooming, along with the hyacinth, etc. The leaves are coming out on Cindy's lilacs.  I have lots of gold finches at my feeder.  Spring is springing.





Although this was the scene down in Yarmouth this weekend. A nor-easter blew through at the weekend. Thankfully all we got here in the valley was rain however. None of that white stuff. They say snow in May is supposed to be good for the skin and hair.  Happy with the skin and hair I already have thank you very much! Snow, snow, stay away from here. lol


 

I was so relieved to be told that I was getting a refund on the taxes I had paid for my last year's income rather than having to pay more. What a special blessing that was. I felt so lucky. I popped behind me to the farm market and bought a scratch card along with the bananas and ice cream Eileen and I were going to enjoy Saturday night with our Waltons. I won $20 on the scratch card also. I know gambling  . . . 

Anyways it was and is a huge relief. 

We were unable to watch the Waltons. I need to buy a DVD player.  The X-box that my son left for me won't work. It's been two years and hasn't worked properly ever, so I think I best just get a DVD player. I have DVD's for the Waltons, Little House and a few others, that are just sitting gathering dust.



 

I am still in pain with my lower back on the right hand side, but only when I try to stand up from sitting. So I stand up frequently and walk back and forth. Try not to sit for any more then ten minutes at a time. I thought it might be my kidney but then I remembered that I had an ultrasound of my kidney's not that long ago and was given a green-light there. It is probably a pinched nerve or something. It is okay when I am sitting. When I am standing. When I am laying down. It only hurts when I make the movement to stand up, and that is not as severe as it was.

I am not sure what the Doctor can do for that. I will probably just ride t through and hope that it improves.

Faith, family, friends, home. Life is good.

And with that I am going to leave you with a thought for the day. I am going to go lay down with a book for about half an hour. I have been up and down like a yoyo again. But hopefully this won't be forever!

A thought to carry with you.

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*In my friend
I find my second self.
~Isabel Norton


Honeyed Tomato Soup



In The English Kitchen today  . . .  Honeyed Tomato Soup with Cheddar & Onion Marmalade Panini. Delicious. I love tomato soups of any kind.


I hope that you have a lovely day today. May the sun shine down on you and may your day be filled with a multitude of small and wonderful things. Don't forget.

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PS - I haven't gotten to respond to comments yet, but I hope to today.