Wednesday, 25 June 2025

Wednesday Witterings . . .

 

 It's quiet out there this morning. Not a lot of noise except for when a car goes past. It's quite warm and muggy so I expect the birds are feeling it as well. When it is 21*C/70*F and it's not even 7 a.m. yet, you just know it's going to be a stinker of a day. They got my heat pump fixed just in time. 

There is another heat warning out for today.  

I have a bird bath on the railing of my front deck and birds were coming to visit it yesterday to drink and to splash. It was very hot and humid yesterday as well. 

I think the local high school graduation is tomorrow night and as I recall, those were always hot and miserable with hundreds of parents stuck in the hot gymnasium of the school with no air con. It was always a relief to get outside afterwards.


 
(sunset through the front window last night)


For some reason our garbage was not picked up yesterday. It is still sitting at the ends of our lawns. I am not sure why. It should have been. We will see if they pick it up today.  

Not nice weather to have to be doing work like this outdoors. I count my blessings that I don't have to work like that.

Garbagemen always make me think of this young woman named Etta that my mother hired to help take care of us when she first went back to work. There had been another one named Brenda first, but she did not last and then came Etta.  Etta shared my bedroom with me. 

She was man crazy. On garbage day she used to hang out my bedroom window flirting with the garbage men as they moved along the back of our houses (we lived in a row of townhouse type of homes) emptying the bins.

I thought she was nuts.  She wasn't nuts.  She just liked men.  But to an 11-year-old, that does not compute. 

She didn't last long either. My father had a habit of flirting with anyone in a skirt, especially if they were young.  The next lady mom got was a woman named Mrs. Robar.  She was old, very overweight and had no teeth. Our dad did not flirt with her.

She didn't last long either, however.  Mom caught her having coffee with the next-door neighbor and she didn't like that. Mom was not a coffee-morning kind of a person and wasn't paying her "housekeeper/nanny" to have coffee with the neighbors.

After that mom gave up and decided that I could do the job. That was the end of my childhood. I then had to be "responsible."


 


The local berries are coming in now.  You can also go to the You-pick and pick your own. My berry picking days are over. I can't crouch like that anymore. I am reduced to buying them already picked at the farm stands.  The last ones I saw were $7.99 a container, so I will wait until they come down a bit. 

I do so love fresh strawberries.  

Mom and dad used to take us picking with them when we were kids.  I am sure we probably ate just as many as we picked.  Mom would make jam with them.  She liked to make the freezer jam.  It was always enjoyed by us in the Winter months, spooned over vanilla ice cream or on our toast. So delicious. She also used to put it between cake layers when she baked a cake, which wasn't very often, but still . . .  so good.

I used to make jam for my own family every year as well, beginning with strawberry. We, too, enjoyed it over our ice cream and on our toast and in the middle of our cakes.

I think to this day, of all the jams in the world, strawberry is my favorite, even if I am not really supposed to be and shouldn't be eating it.


 


Summer holidays always used to mean swimming lessons when I was a child. Our mother had never learned to swim. (I think our father could.) She did take lessons once but did not like getting her face wet in the water. It was important to her however that we learned to swim and so we did.  The lessons were always taken at the local outdoor pools, early in the morning before the sun had had a chance to warm up the water. I can remember it being positively frigid. Your body did acclimate to it eventually, but that first jump in was always teeth chattering.

Swimming for pleasure was not free. You had to either buy a summer pass or pay each time you went. A summer pass was the cheaper route to go. We were issued badges to sew onto our swimsuits as proof that we had a pass. Little cloth medallions with the year on them. 

Most of us younger kids spent all of our afternoons at the outdoor pools alternately baking and then cooling off. The pools would be loaded. There were so many kids that sometimes the lifeguards broke us up into groups to go in swimming. First boys and then girls.  You would be given so many minutes and then the whistle would blow, and you would have to get out so the next lot could go in.

The lifeguard was king.

When we girls got bit older, we spent our afternoons ogling the lifeguards. They were always Seniors and quite fit. And they knew it!

We would all be nut-brown come end of July.



The Lupins are all but done now. Gone to seed. They don't last long. The peonies are all in bloom now.  Glenna has some early yellow lilies that are blooming. My lilies are nowhere near blooming yet, but they have shot right up.

The new people next door have put in a nice-looking garden at the front, complete with lots of ornaments, etc. The man who used to live there always had a nice garden full of perennials. He was always working at it, out there digging and weeding every day. 

There are some really talented gardeners on the street. Jane down at the end has a very English garden, but then again, she is English. Molly down at the other end has a really pretty garden as well. 

I have always found it fascinating how we all like to put our own stamp on the places we live and that is usually done by the garden or lack thereof.

I didn't get any hanging baskets this year. I have my wee geranium that Dan takes care of for me in the Winter.  Chippy keeps digging it out. Little monkey.  

I can hear him out there chipping at the moment. He's a cheeky little chappie.


 

Did you date when you were younger before you got married?  I didn't.  There really wasn't anywhere for you to go on dates here where I lived.  There was the movie theatre on the base, the tavern if you were old enough to drink and they would have dances most weekends at the rec center, but there was really nowhere to go for "dates." We mostly just all hung out together as a group.  

I only ever had three "boyfriends" and I married each of them.  There wasn't really any dating in between or playing the field that I can recall. Occasionally you would let someone walk you home from the Rec Center or a dance, but that was it.

I started watching Ginny and Georgia the other week and was horrified.  Is that how young people act today? It made me fearful for my granddaughter. I don't remember us being as wild as all that back in the day. I mentioned it to my oldest son, and he said that they used to have drinking parties every weekend when he was a teenager.  I must have been very naive.

I do remember telling him one time that if he couldn't abide by the house rules he could leave. I was very shocked when an hour or so later he came up the stairs from his room in the basement with all of his camping gear and left.  I don't think I slept a wink most of the night. I did get a phone call about 3 in the morning from the Military Police saying they had a very contrite lad there who wanted to come home. They had found him camping near the dump and bears had been sighted. I was so relieved, one, that he was okay, and two, that he wanted to come home.

That's when I learned that you never say anything you don't mean, especially in anger. 


 

I am not sure what I will get up to today. My friend Tatiana showed me a delicious looking recipe for lemon ice cream the other day that I am keen to try out. I have my course work to do as well. I got a bit behind with that with all of my appointments that I had last week.  I do have my regular work to do as well and I hope to get in a bit of play. I don't know why my days seem to disappear as quickly as they do.  Time seems to evaporate these days. Is it the same way with everyone? I know it seems to take me twice as long to get anything done these days, and I seem to get easily distracted.  Maybe it is the same for everyone? I don't know.  But I do know the day will pass and before I know it, I will be staring at my bed again.

I best get on with what I want and need to do.

A thought to carry with you . . .


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is the voice of the garden.
~Elizabeth Lawrence
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Cheese and Onion Muffin Bread


In the kitchen today, Cheese and Onion Muffin Bread, a quick bread to love. This is so delicious. Like muffins but baked as a whole round bread.  Just cut into wedges to serve. Delicious served warm with lashing of butter for spreading!


I hope that you have the most wonderful Wednesday, filled with lots of wonderful things.  Things which bring you joy and peace. Whatever you get up to, don't forget!


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Tuesday, 24 June 2025

A Day Book . . .

 



FOR TODAY, Jun 24th, 2025


OUTSIDE MY WINDOW ...



Its setting up to be a fine day. It is already quite warm. I have the front door open to let in some of the cooler early morning air.  As you can see (hard because he blends into the carpet) Nutmeg is guarding the door just in case anything tries to come in that doesn't belong.  He's so funny. Love him to bits.

There is a heat warning in effect for today. It is supposed to get very warm and be very humid. We will be grateful for our heat pumps/air con later today I am sure!


I AM THINKING ...


 

I have a prayer list that grows longer with each day that passes. I like praying for people. First of all, I like being in communication with my Heavenly Father and secondly, I think that actively praying for someone is an act of love for the person or situation.  I will pray for those things as long as I need to. I pray for the people I care about, and I pray for my enemies because that is what we are told to do. Paying for your enemies is an act of healing. It is hard to hold hard or hurt feelings against someone you are praying for. 


I AM ALSO THINKING ...

 

I find this to be true. I have always been obsessed with the natural world. Even as a young child I have been delighted with the things of nature, plants, birds, insects, weather, seasons, etc. Music.  Books. Home. Family. Faith. These loves of mine have never changed. I am the same now as I ever was in those respects, albeit with a more mature perspective.


IN THE KITCHEN ...

Chicken Chow Mein

Chicken Chow Mein.  A quick and easy stir fry. Perfect for those nights when you just cannot be asked to cook. It's too hot. You're too tired, etc. Its a pretty basic recipe that puts to good use just what you have in an easy and simple manner.  It's a delicious option, I promise.


ON MY "TO COOK" LIST ...

 

Thin and Crispy Almond Cookies. From Much Butter (click link above). These look amazingly addictive.


THIS I KNOW TO BE TRUE ...




He is always there.  I know this to be true. He answers prayers, maybe not always in the way we wanted them answered, but always to our benefit. I have seen far too much evidence of His presence in my life to think or believe otherwise.


SOMETHING THAT IS NICE ...


 

Good vanilla ice cream. I never find it boring.


SOMETHING ELSE THAT IS NICE ...


 

Plants in pretty tea cups  . . .  so sweet.


I WOULD LIKE TO CREATE ...

 

Scrappy cats  . . . 


 

Little pop up water color books  . . . 


 

A knitted bunny . . . 


 

A tiny watercolor cottage  . . . 


 

A room in a box  . . . 


SOMETHING I ENJOY ...

 


The clucking and cooing of hens. It is a very comforting sound to me.


SOMETHING ELSE I ENJOY ...

 


Pretty pillowcases  . . .  these are gorgeous.


OH MY GOODNESS ...


 

Sew sweet  . . .  every pun intended.


JOYMAKERS ...



I looked over and this was Cinnamon laying all stretched out on the carpet last evening.  Look at the toe fluff. I could not resist taking a photo of her. So cute.

I am so grateful that she has recovered well after her incident with the ribbon.


SOMETHING TO READ ...



LATE MIGRATIONS, by Margaret Renkl


From New York Times contributing opinion writer Margaret Renkl comes an unusual, captivating portrait of a family—and of the cycles of joy and grief that inscribe human lives within the natural world. Growing up in Alabama, Renkl was a devoted reader, an explorer of riverbeds and red-dirt roads, and a fiercely loved daughter. Here, in brief essays, she traces a tender and honest portrait of her complicated parents—her exuberant, creative mother; her steady, supportive father—and of the bittersweet moments that accompany a child’s transition to caregiver. 

 And here, braided into the overall narrative, Renkl offers observations on the world surrounding her suburban Nashville home. Ringing with rapture and heartache, these essays convey the dignity of bluebirds and rat snakes, monarch butterflies and native bees. As these two threads haunt and harmonize with each other, Renkl suggests that there is astonishment to be found in common things: in what seems ordinary, in what we all share. For in both worlds—the natural one and our own—“the shadow side of love is always loss, and grief is only love’s own twin.” 

 Gorgeously illustrated by the author’s brother, Billy Renkl, Late Migrations is an assured and memorable debut.

I have fallen in love with her writings.


THINGS THAT CATCH MY FANCY ...


 

Red squirrels . . . 


 

Red skies and clouds  . . . 


 

French architecture  . . . 


 

Comfortable seating  . . . 


 

Bicycle rides in the countryside, way back when  . . . 


I AM GRATEFUL FOR ...


 


The wisdom of Anne . . . 


SOMETHING TO WATCH ...



Somebody Feed Phil
The latest series, number 8 is now on Netflix. I've already visited Amsterdam, the Basque Country of Spain, Boston, Tbilsi (the birthplace of wine.)  I love this show.  It combines two of my loves, food and travel.

A THOUGHT TO CARRY WITH YOU ...

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when you can't help it.
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And that is my daybook for this week!  Thanks always for being here!


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Have a beautiful day!  Don't forget!  

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Monday, 23 June 2025

Small and Wonderful Things . . .

 



"The world is fairly studded and strewn with pennies cast broadside from a generous hand. But who gets excited by a mere penny? It is dire poverty indeed when a man is so malnourished and fatigued that he won't stoop to pick up a penny. But if you cultivate a healthy poverty and simplicity, so that finding a penny will literally make your day, then, since the world is in fact planted with pennies, you have with your poverty bought a lifetime of days. It is that simple. What you see is what you get." ~Anne Dillard 


 A few of the small and wonderful things which bring untold joy into my life. It's the small things in life which truly mean the most. Simple abundance . . . it's the best. 





I surround myself with good people.  People with similar values and who are kind and caring towards others. People who value me and I value them. They are my tribe. That makes all the difference in the world.





My little home. I thank the Lord for it every morning and night. A place to call my own that keeps me sheltered and warm. In a day where many do not have a place to call their home, this is a special blessing that I do not take for granted.


 


Perspective.  These types of things are the best things in life to have possession of. Simple joys and pleasures. Things that money cannot buy.







Again, perspective. 



 

When I catch myself berating myself or having negative thoughts about myself, I remind myself that I, too, am a child of God and deserving of the care and love that I so freely give to others.






The power to resist the adversary, who is the father of all lies. 



 

Grateful to have gotten to the point in life where I no longer care about what other people think or say about me.  Well, most of the time anyways!



 

This is my superpower. I pick myself up and I just keep moving forward. Standing still is not an option.



 


I am grateful for my ordinary moments. Life is made from these.



 


Rough patches are blocks to build upon . . . 



Faith, Family, Friends, Home, Love . . . I am blessed with a life of abundance. The small and wonderful things of life are really everything!


A thought to carry with you . . .


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is never unresponsive,
is constantly awakening to new wonder.
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Quick and Easy Chicken Tacos



In The English Kitchen today . . . Quick and Easy Chicken Tacos. A most delicious repurposing of leftover cooked chicken.


Not a lot on today. I need to go to the store at some point.  I need to get my garbage ready to put out tomorrow. Just a bit of this and a bit of that. Have a fabulous day today. I hope your day is full of small and wonderful things.  Don't forget!

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Saturday, 21 June 2025

All Things Nice . . .


I like to lie in a still darkened room
And think of all the clean things that I know,
Sand filtered water in a country well,
The white unearthly purity of snow.

A new plowed field of steaming virgin sod,
A white beach when the tide is going out,
The crumpled newness of unfolding leaves,
A small pig with his tiny wrinkled snout.

New coppers shining as the purest gold,
A scoured step . . the clean scales of a fish,
The white deck of a ship . . a gleaming sail,
The pearly lustre of a china dish.

The smell of mint and apple trees in bloom,
A field of lupins . . new hay in the mow,
The brass tipped horns of oxen in the sun
New sheaves . . the shiny moleboard of a plow.

The sheen of pewter . . old plates on a rail,
Small white washed stones in little tidy rings,
The world is never lonely to me now,
I have the company of lovely things.
~Edna Jacques, Clean Things
Beside Still Waters, 1939



I do like things like this. To lie in the dark and think of things that bless me and my life. I doubt that much would be of worth to anyone else, but to me they are the world. It is no small thing to lay in the quiet and count your blessings, no matter how humble they may be. Each is a gift, of that I am certain. Something given over to our stewardship . . . just for a time. Do we value what we hold? I like to think that I am a person who does.

And now for something completely different.





Look at this pattern of light. I noticed it on my wall yesterday at some point. Probably mid-morning. I could not figure out what was causing it. I thought it was very unusual and quite pretty.  I have never seen anything quite like it. What do you see in it. I see a trumpet bloom, an angel's horn, a goblet, a mushroom cloud, the roots of a tree, a storm falling from a cloud with lightning strikes at the bottom spreading over the ground. I think it is quite beautiful and unusual, no matter what was the cause or the source.  A gift that might have gone un-noticed were I any other type of person than who I am.





I know I have spoken of this book to you before. If you have not already gotten it for yourself, I ask myself why. This is one of the most beautiful books that I have ever purchased. I am moving through it slowly, through the year, week by week, and it delights with every page and word. It makes me ponder and think. It helps me to slow down and be. It speaks to my nature loving heart.

"On YouTube there's a video of a man pointing at a big rock. When he stops to upend the heavy stone, his companion's camera reveals an underground hollow where a broadhead skink is guarding her eggs. She is curled around them protectively.  She does not stir when her secret is revealed. She will stay there until those eggs hatch.

The man shows us the skink and her eggs and then slowly sets the rock back down. He is taking care, but every time I watch this video, I am worried for the far-more-capable mother skink. After the man puts the rock back in place, I want him to tell us that the skink is safe, that he has not crushed her in teaching us what a fine mother she is. I want proof that the skink is safe.

But proof would require him to heave the rock up again, and more than I want to be assured that the skink is whole, her eggs unharmed, I want the man on YouTube to go away."
~Margaret Renkl, Praise Song for the Skink Who Has Gone to Ground
The Comfort of Crows


I find myself wanting to look up this man on YouTube and at the same time not wanting to. There is a huge part of me, after reading this, that hopes and prays that the skink was safe, but there is a larger part of me that is dismayed at the disrespect shown to one of God's creatures who is doing all that she can to protect her young as nature intended for her to do. At the disturbance . . . I, too, want him to go away.


See what I mean?  A book that makes you think and feel. A book of substance and worth. if you are a nature lover and you don't have it already, you really need to get it for yourself. This book is a gift.

But then again, all the words which spring from the minds and pens of those who write are gifts to the world given into our care.



 


For most of my life, with the exception of the years I spent living in Alberta, I have never been much more than an hour's away from an ocean or the shore of a lake. Although I am not a very good traveler upon the waters I do love to sit at the water's edge, and to enjoy the fresh clean air that they bring, with a smell that exists no place else on earth, my toes dug into warm sand while the cool breeze from off the waters wafts around my cheeks and forehead, ruffling my hair and delighting my soul.

This is a special privilege to be able to partake of these things and I am guilty of taking it for granted more often than not.  There is a commonality that exists surrounding many of these places and yet at the same time they are quite different.  A lake is not an ocean is not a bay. And yet they are all wet and cooling and alive with pleasures and treasures you cannot find anywhere else. 

In Manitoba, it was Lake Winnipeg, in Ontario I lived in Meaford on the banks of the Nottawasaga Bay,  also near Barrie on Lake Simco, here in the Valley next to the Bay of Fundy, with the Atlantic ocean to the South for most of my growing up years, in England near The English Channel at one point and the Irish Sea at the other.

Yes, always within the close proximity to a great waterway . . . with the exception of my few years spent in Alberta. 

I love to sit and watch the waves; to see the sparkling glint of sunshine rippling across the water like a million little jewels, fresh air tinged with the slight tang of ozone and sea life. 

I have never been a great sailor. I get seasick, but there is a part of me what wishes that I could sail out over the waters without feeling ill.  To skim across the water's surface beneath the shadow of the sails . . . 

Glenna was telling me on Sunday that there is a place here in Nova Scotia on the South Shore where you can pick up Sand Dollars by the handful.  Sand Dollar Beach in Rose Bay near Lunenburg. I have never seen a Sand Dollar in real life, but I would love to. Alas, my beach walking days are over . . . 




Too much?  Perhaps. It does look a bit sterile, but I love the red and white. Red and white or blue and white, both color combinations sing the song of my heart.  I would be happy with either or.

I don't really have an awful lot to muse on this morning. I don't know why. I guess some days are just like that. I marvel most days that I have anything to write about at all, but somehow, I manage. And for some reason you keep returning.  I appreciate that. 

It is a somewhat solitary life, living here on my own with just my two furry friends and my faith. But I don't get lonely. Not ever.  I have my sister of course, and dad and Dan, and I have you. That has made all the difference in the world. My friend Jacquie complains often of being lonely. I think her life is very narrow perhaps. My life is full of purpose and well, life!  There are not enough hours in my day to do, see, read, experience, all that I would wish to. That is a great blessing that I do not take for granted.

And you are all a vital part of my daily excitement. Sad perhaps to some, but not to me.

A thought to carry with you . . . 

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Easy Swedish Spice Cake



In The English Kitchen today  . . . Easy Swedish Spice Cake.  Simply delicious. You need to bake this. It's amazing.  Even three days later.

I hope that you have a fantastic weekend!  Stay safe, be blessed, love and be loved, and don't forget!

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