Saturday, 30 November 2024

All Things Nice . . .

 

 


The hills of home are little hills,
But oh I love them so;
The purple tinted sweet of them
Against the evening's glow,
The way a tall tree bows its head
Like an old man when prayers are said.

The stony pastures climbing up
Against the mountain's base,
Whose dear familiar lines are known
Like a beloved face;
An old rain fence whose corners hold
Wild asters bright as guinea gold.

For elm and ash and stunted oak
Grow on these hills of mine,
Butternut trees and hickory
And clumps of knotty pine;
Wild apples in an old ravine,
A white birch like a virgin queen.

Oh silent hills I lift my eyes
To drink deep of your strength,
The comfort of enduring things,
Peace for the journey's length,
From petty cares and daily ills,
I lift mine eyes unto the hills.

Finding in them a sweet release,
A zone of comfort, joy, and peace.

~Edna Jacques, The Hills of Home
The Hills of Home, 1952


This is the very first poem in the book of the same name by Edna. When I opened it this morning it caught my eye right away. (I do so love her poetry.) I live in a small valley, nestled between two mountains, which most people would not really see as being mountains, but they are.  They are called the North Mountain and the South Mountain. Mom always called this valley we live in God's country, and I believe she was right. We are largely untouched by much of the adverse weather that seems to skirt around us, protected as we are by those two mountains, hugged safely and nestled in between their arms. 

They are beautiful to me, no matter the time of year.  In the spring they are covered in a flush of tender green which deepens in the summer months and then turns to golden, ambers and reds in the autumn months. I have laughed with joy as I tobogganed down its silver slopes in the winter months and have always just felt secure in knowing that they are sitting there, like ancient sentinels . . . protecting this little valley of ours from harm.

Oh, what a great blessing it is to be able to call myself a Valley Girl, like the many generations of women who have come before me. The mothers, wives and daughters of great Mi'gmaq nation, French and English settlers, British Loyalists, etc. I have a history here and a blood line which goes way back to the beginning of time, when ancient feet trod softly upon needle carpeted paths cut through once dense forests, alongside the glittering waters of the Annapolis river winding its way between these two hills of home. My home  . . . 


 


In my search for all that is inspiring, uplifting and good, I discovered a site that delivers Good News.  The Good News Network. Online since 1997, the GNN has been delivering good news to its readers as an antidote to the negativity spewed by the mainstream media. Because of its staying power, long history and public trust it is Google's #1 source for good news, confirming what I already knew and believed, that good news itself is not in short supply. 

“If news is not really news unless it is bad news,
 it may be difficult to claim we are an informed nation.” 
~Norman Cousins, Journalist and Editor


You can also sign up to receive a jolt of good news in your email every morning as well. 




 

We do not have any in our province, but these Giving Machines are located throughout the world in many locations.  You too can share your light at a Giving Machine. You can give clean water, goats, meals, toys, and more to those in need through a unique giving experience. Your donations go directly to global and local charities to help change lives around the world. 

You can also participate in this global outreach online, which I am doing. You can read more about it and donate if you wish to here.

It is an LDS charity, but that is good news because you know that donating through them 100% of what you give goes to where you want it to go.

I also like to give to the Salvation Army every year, along with the Red Cross for the same reasons. You do not have to give much. Every little bit helps.


 



There is a hymn we sing at church that I love called Because I Have Been Given Much.


Because I have been given much, 
I too must give; 
Because of thy great bounty, 
Lord, each day I live 
I shall divide my gifts from thee 
With ev'ry brother that I see 
Who has the need of help from me. 


 Because I have been sheltered, 
fed by thy good care, 
I cannot see another's lack 
and I not share 
My glowing fire, my loaf of bread, 
My roof's safe shelter overhead, 
That he too may be comforted. 

 Because I have been blessed 
by thy great love, dear Lord, 
I'll share thy love again, 
according to thy word. 
I shall give love to those in need; 
I'll show that love by word and deed: 
Thus shall my thanks be thanks indeed.



We are coming in now to a season of giving. There is no greater way of giving thanks for the abundance we have been blessed with than to share a portion of that abundance with others who are in need.  It doesn't have to be money or tangible goods either. It can simply be your time. Your love.  And it doesn't just need to be at this time of year.  How wonderful it would be if the spirit of generosity resided with us the whole year through. Our world would truly be transformed.


 


How wonderful it has been this week seeing all of the Thanksgiving meals and traditions shared online and on the television by our neighbors to the South of us here in Canada.  I have always loved the American celebration of Thanksgiving in late November.  It seems to be the perfect way to usher in the entire Holiday season. 

One of my favorite Thanksgivings in the U.K. was when I was serving my Mission and Sister Johanson and I hosted all of our local Missionaries to a Thanksgiving dinner prepared by us in the Johanson's missionary apartment.  What a lovely year that was. It was so much fun to be able to celebrate the holiday with people who actually felt the same way about it as I did. 

Interesting too were the different foods and customs embraced by people who were from different part of America for this holiday. I had, of course, been used to a very "Southern" way of embracing it from having worked at the Manor.  Those people were from Alabama and there was a definite Southern twist to everything. Things like Cornbread dressing and Sweet Potato Pie.  Sweet Potato Casserole with Marshmallows on top.

I had no idea that Macaroni and Cheese was a very popular Thanksgiving dish either, or corn casserole.  And Wassail a very Utahn thing I supposed. In any case it was a Thanksgiving celebration that has stood out in my mind for a very long time and a very happy memory that I have cherished.


 

I dragged Cindy out yesterday and we went to Walmart.  I picked up some unbreakable baubles to put on my tree in two colors, red and gold and I got some sparkly garland and some red beaded garland. None of it was very expensive, but it will certainly look a lot better than the paper ornaments which have graced my tree these past couple of years. Because of the cats I don't really want to put anything breakable on it.  They were very interested in the ornaments I did buy and have given them all a good sniffing over.

I also picked up a Christmas gift for my wee grandson who lives in the next town over.  It is a set of emergency vehicles, each with working parts, sirens, etc.  A helicopter, police vehicle, firetruck, ambulance, etc. with human figures as well. It is hard to know exactly what to get him as I do not know him at all or what his interests are or what he already has. I do my best. I will leave it on their front porch again like I did last year.  A part of me wonders what would happen if I were to knock on their door, and another part of me is too afraid to find out.  So, I will just send an e-mail to my DIL to tell her I am leaving it when the time comes. I cannot message my son as he has blocked me.

On the positive side my niece, my ex's brother's daughter has messaged me to tell me when she is going to be down visiting in December and expressed a wish to get together again. I love that that part of the family is still my family regardless of what may or may not have happened. It warms my heart.

We will have a feast of some kind no doubt and a lovely visit together.





My sister shared this photo with me earlier this week. It is their kitten Sully sleeping on top of the kitchen cabinets.  He is such a funny little character.  They are all little characters.  I am so happy that our father's cat settled in well with the other cats.  I thought that she would eventually. Her life has expanded so much since moving in there. She has a lot more space to run around in and more windows to look out of. More wildlife to observe and someone to chase around and to be chased around by. It's all good.


My father came out to the top of the stairs to say hello to me when I was picking up my sister yesterday. He seems to be very happy there.  That makes me happy as well.  And when he goes to the Tim Hortons in town there are always people who greet him with enthusiasm.  When he was living the next town over he sat on his own most mornings when he went to the mall for his coffee and breakfast.  Here he of course has breakfast at home with my sister, but when he goes for his afternoon tea, my daughter and her husband are often there and their friends and they always give him a hearty welcome. Run to get his tea and donut for him if my sister hasn't already done so, etc.  He feels welcome.  That is a very good thing.


I think his life has greatly expanded as well.  Everyone should feel loved and welcome when they are in their last years of life.  It's a good thing as Martha would say.

And with that I will leave you with a thought for the day  . . . 

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 *.˛We can only be said to be alive
in those moments when our hearts
are conscious of our treasures.
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Pineapple Upside Down Cake




In The English Kitchen today, Pineapple Upside Down Cake.  Simple and delicious. How do you enjoy yours? I like a dollop of whipped cream on top of mine, or ice cream.


I hope you have a beautiful weekend. May it be filled with love, joy, peace and abundance, all things nice.  Don't forget!


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Friday, 29 November 2024

Dear Neighbor . . .

 
(source)

 

ESTATE LANE, NS
Just above zero, mostly cloudy but dry


My dear online neighbor, how can we already be staring the end of November in the eyes. It is hard to believe that November ends tomorrow and then December begins, and we will be on the count-down to Christmas. There are not too many weeks left for us to prepare.  Are you ready?  I am not. This postal disruption has put me into a funk. I cannot seem to organize myself but why is that I wonder??  I should just prepare things anyways, and if the strike ends, it ends, and if it doesn't it doesn't. Tell me I am not alone in this disappointment.  They sure know how to pick their times, do they not?  But then again, that is the nature of strikes and disruption, to cause the most interference as possible in order to make the demands more urgent. I think I shall just continue on as if there is no strike and then once it ends, pop everything into the post as per normal.  Things will get where they need to go as and when they get there.


 



I did start to watch some old Christmas favorite films beginning with The Holiday. I had never heard of this film until my friend Val sent it over to me in the U.K. I fell in love with it the first time I saw it.  And now it has become an important part of my Christmas celebrations. Mostly because it reminds me of the love of a good friend, but also because it is a cute story, and I love the cottage in it, and it has a happy ending. Its just a cute little film. 

I have other favorites that I like to watch during the Christmas Season as well.   Home Alone.  A Christmas Story.  Muppets Christmas Carol. The Santa Claus. Miracle on 34th Street. Meet Me in Saint Louis.  White Christmas. Holiday Inn. To name just a few.

Always on Christmas Eve however, I like to watch It's a Wonderful Life. I also like to watch The Nativity. 


 



Lacking a real fireplace, I like to put the fireplace on the television during the day as I putter around the place. I like to listen to it crackle and snap. It gives off no real heat of course, but the mind is a powerful thing.  You almost feel warmer just at the suggestion of a fire.  If they only had the smell to accompany it.  These days when you go out of doors the air is filled with the smell of woodsmoke as people are using wood-burners to heat their homes.  It is a lovely smell in the cooling air.  I love it. I can just stand there and breathe it in and my heart feels like singing. It is a wondrous thing. 

It is funny how our sense of smell has the power to transport us away to other times and climes. Often, I will just be walking through the shops or wherever, and I will catch a whiff of something familiar.  I will immediately be reminded of something pleasant from the past. 


 


I often listen to talks or podcasts when I am puttering about the house. I was listening to one on YouTube by Patricia Holland (the late wife of Jeffrey R Holland) earlier this week, entitled "Fear Not." It was so good that I have listened to it several times. 

I firmly believe that what we choose to fill our minds with matters. If we fill our minds with negativity, this will have a profound impact on the joy we feel in life. If we fill our minds with positivity, then life just becomes better.  We feel happier and nothing seems to be so bad that we cannot overcome or at least cope with it.

And so that is what I do.  I surround myself with positive messages, messages of hope.  It could be nice music, or uplifting talks or podcasts. I am not a person that watches the news. Oh, I do take note, albeit very briefly about what is going on in the world, but I do not dwell on it, or I try not to, by rehashing it again and again throughout the day. 

Life would seem to be very dismal indeed if we were only to listen to the negativity spewed our way by our news channels.  I think someone should start a "Good News" channel, filled with voices and stories about all the good going on in the world. All of the positivity. Now that would be a wonderful thing.


 


I sat down to do some sewing yesterday afternoon and, for the life of me, could not remember how to get the bobbin into the base of the machine.  I had to fill a bobbin with a new color of thread, which I did without any problem, but when I tried to put it into the bobbin holder, it would not fit.  I figured out that I had bought the wrong sized bobbins.  But when I tried to put the right bobbin in, I could not get that in either.  I messaged my sister telling her I thought I must be getting really dumb in my old age.  She just happened to be on her way to pick up Dad at Tim Hortons so she said she would stop over and see what was going on after she picked him up.  

I ended up having a delightful little visit with both her and Dad and she sorted it out for me.  I don't know what I was doing wrong.  Obviously, the bobbins I bought were wrong, but the other ones I have are not and they do fit.  I did manage to get some of the sewing I had planned done in any case and got to enjoy her and Dad as well. That was a bonus in my day.

I often go for days without seeing anyone else.  That is okay. I do not mind my own company.  Short little visits like that, however, are like little bright lights.

What would I do without my sister?  I hazard not to guess.


 


I love the classics when it comes to books.  The stories told have simply withstood the test of time. I find I can read them over and over again and never tire of them. They are like old friends that I revisit from time to time.   I am seriously in love with the beautiful covers of these.  I mean to collect them once the postal strike is over. I know . . .  do I really need more books in my life?  Probably not, but that is not the question. Do I need more beauty in my life?  Absolutely. 

I do so love pretty things.  And I love books. The two together.  Joy.  Bliss.  And I do mean to read them.  I really do. There are far worse things to waste my money on. Something which delights both the soul and the eye, as well as the mind, well, that pleasure is unmatched.


 


They say that if you love your work then you never work a day in your life.  I think you could apply this to everything you do. Might even the mundane become a thing of beauty if you approached them with loving intention?  Perhaps this is one of the underlying secrets to having a real and truly joy filled life, by doing everything with loving intent. Even something so simple as washing the dishes.  

I have promised myself that I am going to try this newer way of thinking.  Of looking at even the most tiresome chore in a different light and approaching it with a much different attitude. I will keep you informed as to how this goes.



 


Tomorrow is our church branch's Christmas dinner. I could not convince anyone to go with me as a guest, and so I will probably not go myself. I was supposed to let them know by last Sunday if anyone was attending and I did not so I would feel quite badly just showing up.  My Ward in Chester posted a video the other day of the last Ladies Dinner that was had together as a group just the Christmas before Covid hit.  Every Nov/Dec we would get together as a group at a lovely restaurant in Wales and have a delicious dinner together.  There would be 30 or 40 of us.  And it was a really lovely time.  I loved seeing this video, seeing all of those familiar faces of people I love as they waved at the camera and said hello.  What a sweet remembrance of a wonderful time.  That was really the last time they did that in that restaurant, as it is now closed down, probably because of Covid. It was a really beautiful venue, and never more so than during the Christmas season.


I have gone to a ladies' lunch like that here once.  But it did not have the same comfortable feeling that the ones in Chester had.  I don't really know why that is to be honest.  I do not think, in general, that I have felt as comfortable in this branch here, and that could be for several reasons.  I know it is not because they are not warm and welcoming, because rather the opposite is true.  I think it is me. I think I have been holding back a part of myself, and I don't really know why that is.  It could be that there is a part of me that is afraid to put myself out there.  That doesn't feel safe in doing so. It makes no sense, I know. Hopefully in time that will change. I know, again, change begins with me.  So, if I want to feel more comfortable and a part of things, then I need to change something in the way that I approach the situation. 


 


I did order some Christmas decorations from Amazon for my week tree. Every year over the past couple of years I have decorated it minimally with some naff paper decorations that I cut out for free. I have not had the heart to do it any more than that. This year I thought that I would make an actual effort, and so I ordered some pretty colored balls.  I checked yesterday to see when I could expect them to be delivered only to be told that they would be arriving between the 18th of December and the 10th of January.  Color me disappointed.  I don't think that was made really clear when I first ordered them, or I would not have ordered them. I tried to cancel but it was too late. They had already been shipped.  They must be coming from Timbuktu.  

I guess it will be the naff paper decorations again this year.  I did get some Christmas scrap book paper, so perhaps I will cut it into strips and make paper garlands with it.

I watched Kirsten and Joerg decorating their home on YouTube the other day and thoroughly enjoyed it. They have a brand-new kitchen, and I really enjoyed seeing that as well. They are such a cute couple. A couple of Germans, transplanted in the U.K. I do enjoy their videos.


 



Our days have been so grey and dismal this November. I am ready for a bit of sunshine.  Does anyone else feel the same. October was so lovely and bright, with loads of color and blue skies.  Grey and dismal does not seem to suit me very well.  I need to light my days in other ways. I think staying busy is the key. And with that in mind I best close this letter to you off.  My day is rapidly getting away from me and I do have many things to get done!

A thought to carry with you  . . . 


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 *.˛.Willpower is useful
but Joy is essential.
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I put together a roundup of unusual Turkey Leftovers in the Kitchen today. For those of us who are facing a mountain of leftover turkey to use up in some way, and are wanting something a tiny bit out of the ordinary. 


I hope you have a beautiful day.  Whatever you get up to, don't forget!


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Thursday, 28 November 2024

My Favorite Things . . .

 



These are some of the things in life that I enjoy, and which make me happy, inspire me, or put a smile on my face. Maybe some of them are yours too.  Let's share! 



 


Doughnuts, however, I like them plain most of all, with Old Fashioned Sour Cream Doughnuts being the best.




This.  Joy.  Man is that he might have joy. (2Nephi2:25)


 

Yellow  . . . 


 

Viola  . . .  so pretty  . . . 


 

Simplicity  . . . 


 

Pretty packages  . . . 


 

Cupboards with plate rails  . . . 


 

Icy Puddles  . . . 


 

Tiny little houses  . . . 


 

Shoes with pretty bows . . . 


 

Toasty toes and warm socks  . . . 


 

Candlelight in windows  . . . 


 

Cardinals. You never used to see them here, but they are fairly common now  . . . 


 

This  . . . .


 

This also  . . . 


 

Blue and white bowls  . . . 


 

A garland of stars  . . . 


 

It is the most wonderful time of the year  . . . 


 

Cookies  . . . 


 

Pancakes  . . . 


 

Forgiveness . . .  it is a balm to the soul.


 

Pink rosebuds  . . . 


 

Cups with faces . . . 


 

Warm Cardigans  . . . 


 

Rainbow colors  . . . 


 

French Toast  . . . 


 

A good book to read  . . . 


And that is just the tip of the iceberg.  I love life. I love the joy of simple things and pleasures. 


Happy Thanksgiving to all of my American friends, family members and readers.


A thought to carry with you  . . . 


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that matters, as what's on the chairs.
~W.S. Gilbert
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Brown Sugar Pineapple Pork Chop



In The English Kitchen today  . . .  Brown Sugar Pineapple Pork Chop.  Simply delicious.


Its frosty out there this morning. There are puddles on the ground, so you know it was raining during the night.  We have had a lot of rain this month. If it had been snow, we would be snowed under, lol.  Thankfully it was not.  I hope that you all have a beautiful day.   Be happy. Whatever you get up to, don't forget!


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