April 10th, 2026
Estate Lane
Middleton, Nova Scotia
1*C/33*F mostly clear
Dear Neighbor,
What a week this has been. I have spent the last two days in hospitals for the most part. I was unable to post anything to you yesterday because of that, and here is why . . .
Eileen has been having her monthly for the past week and a half. She had not had one in a very long time, probably a year or so. Seeing as she is 48, I did not feel that was out of the ordinary. She did have those iron infusions last month, so we thought perhaps they had jogged it on.
On Wednesday all of a sudden she started hemorrhaging profusely. It took me some convincing, but finally she agreed to let me take her to emergency. (Only after her CSS worker called the Doctors office and he said that she needed to be taken there immediately I might add. She has always been very reluctant to take advice or instruction from anyone who she sees is not in authority.)
Cindy came over to help me get her in the car and to the hospital. It was clear that we were not going to be able to park and walk in, so this meant she could drop us at the door and then go off and park the car. Thankfully they took us in right away. The flow was like water, literally like someone had a tap on.
I was so proud of my brave girl however. Thankfully it was a female Doctor, which made it easier and less humiliating. She even endured an internal exam, which was amazing to me as she has never had one. She has never had any time of intimate contact. Thankfully everything looked alright, her vitals were all normal, etc. They gave her some medication to slow everything down, and a prescription to take home for the same, but did tell us to come back yesterday to have her hemoglobin checked.
I did contact her father (using Eileen's phone) while we were there because I felt he should know what was going on. If something was happening to my children if they were in his care I would appreciate him letting me know, so I felt it was only right. He came right over to the hospital, accompanied by his wife (of course.) She kind of took over, but I expected nothing less. That's just the way she is. She was a nurse many years ago after all. In any case they did not stay long, but did take her prescription to the drugstore and pick up some essentials that we would need when Eileen got back to my place, paid for them and arranged to have them delivered. We were very grateful for that.
I was able to get Eileen home and make her comfortable and everything has slowed down considerably, so things are improving. She wants to go to her Bible Study today and then her People's First meeting after that, so that is good. Yesterday they were unable to check her hemoglobin properly at the hospital for some reason so it needed being sent to Kentville. The Doctor said to just go home and they would call if anything needed addressing. If we didn't hear from her, then all was okay. We did not hear, so that was good.
Admittedly, it is a very weird situation, this communication problem between her father and myself. Since the day he started dating his wife, he has not been allowed to communicate with me. This is rather odd seeing as we share five children, but it is what it is. When they came to the hospital they had just come from taking care of her grandchildren further down the valley for a couple of days, and she made sure that she made a point of mentioning that she was taking care of my grandson Liam (who I have never seen or met) on Friday. I don't like to think that she did it on purpose, but it was a bit inconsiderate I thought, especially as she knows the situation there with my son and his family. Perhaps it just slipped out without here thinking. I will give her the benefit of the doubt.
It is a difficult situation though. We don't have to be besties. I don't want to be besties, but we should be able to contact each other where the kids are concerned, but after 27 years of this, it is hardly likely to change now.
Anyways, all is well with Eileen. She has more blood tests scheduled for later this month and a Doctors appointment as well.
While I was at the hospital with Eileen, my urologists office called to set up a phone consultation with him about my recent ultrasound. That happened yesterday afternoon, and everything about my kidneys was a.o.k! Great news on that front. He does want to keep an eye on them however, so I will be having another ultrasound in September. I am grateful for that, especially since my brother has had kidney cancer. (He is doing great by the way! yay!)
So there you have it. All of our health woes taken care of for the present, and as they should be.
I have all of my tax stuff gathered and organized and ready to go. What an undertaking that has been. I do collect all of my receipts for everything throughout the year. Each year I buy a new file folder and everything goes into that, incomings and outgoings, every month by month. I need to do better. I tell myself that all the time, but . . . I don't and every year I find myself in the same position. Life is just so busy that I don't seem to have the time to do this. I had great plans for 2026 and being better organized, but here we are into April and nothing has changed. I am still doing things the same.
No time to switch now as I do have that talk to write before I have to give it on the 26th of the month.
I don't know what happens to my days. It seems I am no sooner beginning them than I am ending them, and all of the time in between the beginning and ending has evaporated into thin air. There are so many things I want to get done and need to get done. In all truth I find that if it doesn't get done by mid to late afternoon, it's not going to get done. Not on that day anyways.
This was the view on the easy boy chair last night after supper. Cinnamon was laid right out and sleeping like a log. You could tell she was dreaming because there was a bit of twitching going on. Eileen wondered what she might be dreaming about. I said probably about catching something like a bug or a mouse.
Eileen is really looking forward to getting herself a cat when she gets into her own place. She had her own cat years ago. We had a Bluepoint Siamese cat named Brandy who went missing and Eileen was devastated by her loss. Moreso than any of the other children. A lady at our church had a cat she needed to rehome and so gave her to Eileen. Her name was Misty. She was the most beautiful black and white cat with long, long hair. Her tail looked like an ostrich plume. Eileen was responsible for every bit of her care and she did a great job of it.
I think it will be great for her to have her own cat in her new place. For company and to give her some responsibility. I have no doubt that the cat will be well cared for and much beloved. The only part which concerns me is the financial responsibility. But we won't think about that now.
You have to have a dream in order for a dream to come true.
Eileen and I were watching Gary Eats late yesterday afternoon and he was at Ottos French Restaurant in London. He ordered a few things, but one of the things he ordered was the Burger Deluxe, which cost 350 pounds. (That's $650 cad.) It wasn't even in a bun. It was this tall, tall burger on some sort of a bread base.
From their menu description it was:
Four Prime Cuts of Meat, Seared Foie Gras, truffle.
Half Native lobster, 30g Oscietra Caviar, Pommes Soufflées, Hollandaise.
I cannot imagine paying that much for a burger. I don't care how many cuts of meat are in it. He and his dinner guest did say it tasted really good. But . . . $650 good? I don't know about that. I have some coupons for Wendy's and I can get a Baconator Burger for $6.99 and I am sure I would enjoy that one a lot more.
I don't know about you, but it seems a bit disgraceful to me that people are spending that kind of money on a burger when there are starving people in the world. No offence meant towards Gary. Its how he makes his living. And we did choose to watch it. Right through to the end.
Good news on the bird front. Yesterday afternoon we saw both gold finches and chickadees at the feeders. That was encouraging. The cats really enjoyed watching them also.
Another month and we will be putting out the hummingbird feeder. I did clock them here in mid-may last year.
I really want to hire someone to come and dig up the whole garden out front, remove everything and then gravel it over. Then I just want to put out a few large plant pots with annuals in them and perhaps a standing bird bath, if I can afford it. Its just finding someone who will do that for me. I do have to buy summer tires later this month, so affordability also comes into it.
Priorities.
There are lots of green shoots coming up that I noticed yesterday. The bleeding heart is showing signs of life and the lilies. If those things are going to come out, I think they should come out very soon.
And yay the grass is looking green now. I see buds on all the trees and Glenna's forsythia is getting ready to burst into bloom. Spring is springing.
And with that I best end this missive. Eileen is up and will be wanting her breakfast and I have to get her to her church by 9 a.m. for her bible study.
A thought to carry with you . . .
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I did not have time to cook anything worth sharing yesterday but I did correlate a post with Five
Delicious Rhubarb Cakes for Spring. These are five real favorites! I would have a really difficult time picking one over the others. They all have their finer qualities!
I hope that you have a lovely Friday, filled with light and with love. Whatever you get up to, don't forget!
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And I do too!