One of the pleasures of Winter is being tucked away, nice and warm, an observer from a comfortable place, snug as a bug in a rug. Oh how blessed I am to have a place to call my own where I am safe and comfortable. Warm and cozy. Hot drinks at my fingertips. Nice music to listen to, books to read, cats to fuss over, blankets on my lap. How did I get so blessed when so many are not. I take none of it for granted. There, but for the grace of God go I.
Cindy and I have been peddling together each morning. She calls me up on the phone and then she rides her bike and I get on my cubi and we spent fifteen minutes peddling together. We chat as we peddle and the time goes quickly. It is better than doing nothing. How grateful I am for a sister who is not afraid to push me and who cares about me enough to want to help me become more active and to participate in the process. I am so grateful for my sister. I truly am. Out of all the things my parents gave me in my life, she is the one that means the most and is the most important to me. I love her so much, but you all know that. I would do anything for her. I wish I could wave a magic wand over her life and cure all her ills and hurts. But alas, I cannot. I can only love her and be there for her, as she is for me. I know I fall short sometimes. But I try.
I have found someone to take the sofa. My cousin's daughter and her husband want it, so that is good. Much better than having it end up in the landfill. I will pop into Home Hardware today and arrange a delivery time for the new one and then I can tell my cousin when they can pick up the old one. Nutmeg and Cinnamon will wonder what is going on I am sure. It will be nice to have something more comfortable to sit on, lay on, relax on. The old one has served me well and I am glad that it will have a new home where I know it will be appreciated.
I've been watching a program on Netflix called You Are What You Eat.
"In a scientific experiment, identical twins adopt different diets and lifestyles for 8 weeks to see how food impacts the body."
When I was a child I would have loved to have had a Wendy House. I loved playing house. We had an orange Tee Pee with the silhouette of an Indian Chief printed on it. It had no floor and it smelled funny, but it was a cool place to read on hot summer days. Instead I preferred stringing up a skipping rope across the front porch and hanging a blanket over top of it to make myself a little house. We did not have a lot in the way of toys but our imaginations served us well. That is not a bad thing. To have an imagination and be able to use it.
In kindergarten we had a play area at the back of the classroom. There was a spot that had a make-believe kitchen with a stove, etc. That was my favorite place to play with the little dishes and pots and pans.
At home, we had a blackboard that we got for Christmas one year. Once the chalk ran out, that blackboard was everything but a blackboard for us. It was a slide, the roof on a pretend house, a fort, etc. A blackboard without chalk can no longer be a blackboard.
My best friend had a huge wooden doll house. The whole back of it was a swinging door that opened up and gained you entrance to the glorious insides. I used to love to go to her place and play inside it. Playing house again. Oh how I would have loved to have one of those. I still miss my doll house that I had in the U.K. Perhaps one day I will replace it. Somehow it is not as much fun to play house and have to clean and keep a real house as it is to keep a doll house, or to have a play house.
As an adult, chores are just that, chores . . . and cease to be play. That's sad really. How much more fun it would be if we could play at doing our chores.
I was thinking this morning about how much I miss my sparrows. The ones which lived in the hedges which ran along the length and breadth of my back garden in the U.K. There was nothing spectacular about them. They were very plain to look at, but they always brought me lots of joy. I loved to see their little heads popping out of the hedge to greet the morning sunshine, to hear them chattering away. It always made me happy.
All I seem to attract with bird feeders in my yard now is rats, and I don't want them, so I don't feed the birds, except for the humming birds in the summer months, and those do bring me lots of joy. We did not have those in the U.K. so I suppose that is a small compensation for not being able to feed the other birds here, or to have sparrows in my hedgerow. It is the same joy, just different.
And with that I will leave you with a thought for the day . . .
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gather roses in the Winter.
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In The English Kitchen today . . . School Dinner Jam & Coconut Sponge. The small batch. A delicious buttery moist cake topped with jam and coconut. Fabulously tasty!
I hope that you have a beautiful weekend. Whatever you get up to, I hope you stay safe, warm and happy. Be blessed. Don't forget!
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And I do too!
So much better to exercise with someone to pass the time. We had lots of snow last night and now it is pouring of rain, such unusual January weather My arthritis does not like the dampness. A stay home day for sure, like most winter days. Have a wonderful weekend.
ReplyDeleteThoughts of the next life make some parts of this life especially, a bit more easy to endure. For sure. I believe this life is our test. The even simple ways we are loved by some are a blessing. Most of us do not get 100% in that dept, I think, Marie. Though it is sad not to have found a truly loving mate...happens to so many.
ReplyDeleteElizabeth xo
You are each lucky to have each other:)
ReplyDeleteHi Marie, nice post today. We were never lucky enough to have Jam and Coconut Sponge in the school cafeteria in high school. I do remember the delicious Dutch Apple Pie. When it was on the menu each of us took turns buying 1/2 dozen pieces for our little group because it went so fast. It was the best Dutch Apple Pie I ever tasted. Would love to have the recipe. Enjoy your weekend. I think you're doing a presentation at church tomorrow? Good luck. You'll do fine. Love and hugs, Elaine
ReplyDeleteI always enjoy stopping by here. So many positive vibes come from your post. Love is taught to us from a very young age...it's as if as infants, we know love. Love is Beautiful. Hope you have a Blessed Sunday.. stay warm
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