Saturday, 21 March 2026

Saturday Nice . . .

 

A little hat gay as a robin's egg,
A pair of pumps with tiny stilted heels,
A clump of violets on a purple dress,
A little whisper in the air that feels
As if a breath of spring were blowing there,
From a plowed fiend beyond the town somewhere.

A restless longing in the hearts of men
To leave their dingy jobs and travel far,
Roaming the earth beyond the cities' fret
Where mountain peaks are lovely as a star,
Where vast unpeopled valleys lie unclaimed
And mighty rivers flow, unknown, unnamed.

New suits in plaids and checks and sober brown,
A window full of gaily patterned prints,
A tufted bedspread draped across a chair,
Gay curtains made of gaudy floral chintz,
A bunch of kids hunched in an alleyway
playing a game of marbles half the day.

A blue jay piping in the purple dusk
Beyond the quiet borders of the town,
A farmer pacing off a little field,
The smoke from supper fires drifting down,
And in the hearts of common folk and king
The great up-rushing currents of the spring.
~Edna Jacques, Spring
Back-Door Neighbors, 1946

I chose this poem this morning based on the title and it being officially Spring. even though the weather is not even remotely spring-like for many people at the moment. It won't be long before it will be. Winter's last hurrah is busy tormenting us all at the moment, alas. What makes it bearable is knowing that it cannot last, and we will soon be enjoying all of the joys and pleasures of spring.

Yesterday when I went to my sister's for our wee trip with dad, I could smell woodsmoke very clearly in the air, the smoke from supper fires?  I don't know.  All I can say for sure is that it is a smell I truly enjoy.



 


I can remember always wearing a hat to church when I was small. There is a photo somewhere of my standing outside my grandparent's house in Lawrencetown here in Nova Scotia, all decked out in my Easter finery. With a little navy cloth coat, a pretty white and navy polka dot dress, and small white straw hat, holding my little white bible in my hands. I would have been on my way to Sunday school I guess. I am not sure.  I do remember having a few hats for church. I remember one being like a head band and it was tight and hurt my head.

One year when my girls were small I bought them matching dresses for Easter, albeit in different colors, to wear to church that came with little straw hats to match. They were so cute. I am sure photographs exist somewhere. I was not allowed to have any photos when that marriage broke up. Long story, not worth telling.

People don't really wear hats any more, unless they are extremely wealthy and going to a wedding or to Ascot. Or unless it is a ball cap.  There are plenty of those about. 

Back in the day there was a dress code for flying on an airplane. Things are much more relaxed now.



 


Eileen was a but upset after her CSS visit yesterday. First of all she was forced to sit at a table at Tim Hortons across from Tim's and his girlfriend. The place was busy and that was the only empty seat. Personally, I think someone in the group should have switched places with her rather than make her endure that.  Secondly she was forced to watch them kissing in the parking lot as they were all leaving, again she and Tim in the same car.  I just don't "get" it.  Just because these people are learning disabled, that doesn't mean that they don't have feelings or that their feelings don't matter. I do not really believe that enough care is being taken, but I don't know who to talk to it about.

I am giving her lots of support here at home, but I think that there is a duty of care which should be taken by those who are "helping" them out in the CSS program. Ant that duty of care should involve not putting her into awkward situations with Tim and his lady friend. I know they are a small group of people, and that there are situations where they will be thrown together, but must they always be in such close proximity??  I really don't understand it, and it doesn't seem very right to me.








I found this page on FB yesterday for Maine Coon kittens here in the Valley. I am not sure how much they cost but it is probably a pretty penny. They are all so cute. But then again, any kitten is cute. My cousin told me that my cat's father had Maine Coon in him and sometimes I can see it.  

I love my cats. They have such unique personalities, and are as different as chalk and cheese. Yesterday around suppertime, Nutmeg was pestering Cinnamon so I chased him away from her.  So next thing I know I could hear him in the bathroom. When I went to investigate, he was in the process of emptying the garbage. So I chased him out of there and cleaned it up. He went from there to the bookcase by my front door and proceeded to pull all of the books out and off the bottom shelf.

I finally relented and gave them their supper, even though it wasn't quite the regular time. It was clear to me that he was going to continue to do things like that to get my attention.


 


This was him just a little while later, snuggling up to me on the sofa.  He knows what he wants and he knows how to get it. 

Eileen was working on her bead craft next to him. She is doing some little Christmas sticker things. 




I just found the photo I was talking about earlier. I would be 4 1/2 in this picture. My hair had all been cut off as my mother was going into hospital to have our Brother earlier that month and she didn't want my grandmother (who was ill with cancer) to have to deal with my curls. I think I was taken to the barber that lived a few doors down.


 



At this time of year . . . early Spring, anything can and does happen weather-wise.   Cherry trees bloom . . . and snow falls.  I often empathize with Thoreau, living his solitary life in a hut by Walden Pond . . . impatient with the busy-ness of life which creates days that are ending no sooner than they are beginning.

"I went to the woods because I wished to live deliberately, to front only the essential facts of life, and see if I could not learn what it had to teach, and not, when I came to die, discover that I had not lived."

I think we often rush about too much, keeping to schedules and busying up our days.   I prefer whimsically haphazard days . . . much like this blog is meant to be.   Like life, I never know for sure really what I am going to write about each morning when I sit down at the computer.   My words kind of unfold from the tips of my fingertips and that is how my days go . . . they kind of unfold before me, and . . . except for appointments which must be kept . . . the magic and the mystery of the unfolding of each day is like a gift I give myself.


 Life is far too short to live it in a box or any prescribed way . . . I am  here to listen to the music, and to dance and to sing . . . to find poetry in simplicity . . . to enjoy the small things, little gifts and tiny moments . . . for in reality . . . life is not about the big things at all, but in the small and simple little things that become the fabric of each and every day.  They are that which count the most of all . . .


I am going to end this now.  I am really tired this morning and I think I am going to crawl into my chair and have a quick nap before Eileen wakes up and my day begins in earnest.  I don't seem to be able to gather my thoughts coherently this morning. I am just too tired I guess. I apologize for not being my usual self.


A thought to carry with you . . . 


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*An owl is the wisest of all birds
because the more it sees
the less it talks.
~Unknown


Five Spring Cakes worth Baking


In The English Kitchen today, Five Spring Cakes worth Baking. All delicious. All favorites. All very spring-like.


I hope you have a beautiful weekend. Whatever you get up to I hope it brings you peace and joy. Don't forget!


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Friday, 20 March 2026

Dear Neighbor . . .

 

 March 20th, 2026
Estate Lane
Middleton, Nova Scotia
-2*C/28*F
mostly cloudy


Dear Neighbor,

Hello on this, the first official day of Spring!  That is something to cheer about, even if it really doesn't feel really springy at the moment. The buds are appearing on the trees and the snow has all melted away (here at least) and the small tender promise of green shoots are bravely poking their heads out of the hard cold ground. The sun, when it shines, already has the promise of the warmth to come in it. This is a change that I, who never deals well with change, can happily welcome!  Spring brings with it the hope of warmer days and the greening of the land. Never have I heard a body say "Darn, it's spring," not ever!


 


I spent most of my formative years living on a small air force base two hours north of Winnipeg, Manitoba. Winters there were harsh and bitterly cold, but Spring was magnificent. The snow seemingly melted overnight, leaving in its wake vast puddles of water that lay upon the ground waiting to be absorbed into an earth not quite ready to accept it, still being held in the grip of a winter that always seemed to take it's own slow time to depart. There was naught to do but to wade our way through these puddles to get to school. In boots that slipped on over our shoes, slowly and carefully sloshing and sliding through the water . . .  hoping that none of it would make its way over the tops of those boots, soaking our feet.  "Getting a soaker" was the terminology used, and nobody really wanted one.

I remember Easter holidays from school.  We would be playing outdoor games on grass that was dotted with stubborn little piles of snow, yet undeterred from remaining, the brown grass beneath our feet slowly drying while green shoots started to poke through.  The air was crisp but held  a growing warmth that we had not felt in months. We all felt the urge to throw off our jackets and revel in it, and sometimes we did.  Everything felt fresh and filled with promise.


 



The marble bags would come out and those little glass balls would be polished in anticipation of the games to come. I liked the pee wees, but there were only ever a few of them in a bag.  If we were lucky the Easter Bunny would bring us a new skipping rope and a bottle of bubbles.

Windows thrown open to blow away the cobwebs.  Winter blankets aired on the line. The air was just loaded with the promise of brighter things to come. It was a wonderful feeling.

It still is.



 

I have gotten in all of my ant bait. The trick is knowing just when to put it out. I think it is still a bit early, but it won't be long before it is needed I am sure. I had so many plans for this week, to clear out cupboards, etc. but I only got the one done and I still haven't begun sorting everything for my income tax. I have it all stuffed in a file folder and every year I say I am going to start in January being a bit better at recording things rather than just saving the receipts and then I don't.

It is much more fun to look at a pretty wreath made from saucers, flowers and ribbons. Yes, I am the great procrastinator. I don't think anyone is better at it than I am. I tell myself that I do my best work under pressure, but that's just an excuse, however much truth it might hold.

Procrastination should be my middle name.



 



Every season is a fresh start,
a mini new year 
to reset our homes with rhythms
of prayer, gratitude and story.


As the days, months and years pass since my return to Canada I find I am more and more able to look upon the things of those 20 years spent in the U.K.  with gratitude. At first it hurt to think of any of them with any measure of grace, but I find that now I can think of things and they don't automatically pain my heart.  

There was a stone path that led down the hill from the Manor to the village when we lived there, and in the springtime it was lined with the yellow blooms of primrose. I had heard of primrose before, mostly in that song about Primrose Lane, but this was a real Primrose Lane and it was beautiful.  The village green would be awash with budding crocus, purple and white  . . . fat little bumble bees visiting each one, their wings humming gently,  leg bags awash and swollen with the dust of gathered pollen.

It is the small things and memories such as this that are beginning to bring joy to my heart once again.  There is still a bit of melancholy attached, there probably always will be, but they are not as painful as they once were. 



 


Something stopped me short this week. I was reading David Butler's IG and he said that he had posed a question to his son this week. "What if today I offered to give you a million dollars, with one condition.  That you die tomorrow. Would you take it?" His son's response was immediate. "No." He then posed the question again, each time raising the amount of money offered. The answer was always the same. "No." with no hesitation.

I asked myself the same questions. I asked Eileen.  The answers were always the same. No.

Lesson learned. If we would not give up any of our tomorrows for any sum of money, then that must mean that of all of our tomorrows with their potential for happiness,  and hope, new adventures, and experiences, both good and bad . . . are priceless. Are worth more than any amount of money we could be given.

Then why do we live beneath the wealth of our promises?  We are not waiting for a valuable life to happen. We already have one.  Food for thought. Perhaps.




Its time to shake off what no longer serves us. New growth needs space. 

And on a side note, the cats have been enjoying the dry leaves of the last autumn bustle around the yard, blowing past the deck and dancing in the air. Even I take note now and then, thinking perhaps it is a bird visiting the feeder, which has seen no birds at all except the one lone junco.

I am not sure what I have done wrong. No birds have been attracted to it. I need to be more patient I guess.


 

I needed to go and pick up some prescriptions later in the day yesterday and Eileen went with me as she wanted some tylenol and ibupropen for her ears which have been hurting her. (I told her she needs to go to outpatients and get an antibiotic, but she says she is not sitting there for hours and hours.)

Eileen used to work at the drugstore in town. She worked there for many years as a cleaner. Everyone we met in there was so happy to see her and greeted her warmly. It did my heart good to see how valued she was by the people she used to work with. It is the same everywhere we go.  Everyone seems happy to see her. Perhaps that is because she is genuinely happy to see them. She is polite and smiling and gracious. To everyone. Life may have dealt her a harsh hand of cards from the beginning, but she rises above it all, like the cream in a bottle of milk.

I love my daughter so much and am really enjoying her being here with me. I will be sad when it ends, but it has to happen. This was only ever going to be temporary. I will not be here forever and she needs to be settled and happy in her new circumstances.

I am going this afternoon with Cindy to take Dad and Maryann for their weekly outing. Eileen has a visit with her CSS workers, so that will be today taken care of.

A thought to carry with you  . . . 

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*Nature's first green is gold,
her hardest hue to hold.
Her early leaf's a flower,
But only so an hour.
~Robert Frost



Loaded Pierogi Casserole



In The English Kitchen today, Loaded Pierogi Casserole.  Cindy has made one of these a week or so ago and it sounded so delicious that Eileen and I wanted to try it as well.  Yesterday was the day and it was fabulous!  Quick, easy and very tasty!  Eileen is going to have the leftovers for breakfast today, or so she said last night!

I hope you have a beautiful first day of Spring. Be happy. Be safe. Be blessed. Don't forget!

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Thursday, 19 March 2026

My Favorite Things . . .

 


Raindrops on roses and whiskers on kittens . . . these are some of the things in life that I enjoy, and which make me happy, inspire me, or put a smile on my face. Maybe some of them are yours too.  Let's share!


 

I love everything to do with tea. Tea pots, tea cups, cozies, etc.


 

Pretty bookmarks and British robins  . . . 


 

A vintage bread box  . . . 


 

A balcony and shutters  . . . 


 

Well dressed nails  . . . 


 

Creams, whites and a warm kettle  . . . 


 

The beauty of simple things  . . . 


 


Blue and white  . . . 

 

Pale pink and cream  . . . 


 


Fresh herbs  . . .  I miss my herb garden in the U.K. . . . but I am grateful that I had one. That was fun.


 

A spring bouquet  . . . 


 

Kittens  . . . 


 

Pretty garden sheds  . . . 


 

A beautiful boudoir chair and leaning mirror . . . 


 

Doughnuts with sprinkles  . . .


 

Forsythia branches and corners of contentment . . . 


 

Snickerdoodles  . . . 


 

Very European  . . . 


 


Also very European  . . . 


 


Sleepy cats  . . . 


 

Windmills  . . . and frosty meadows  . . . 


 

Coffee art  . . . 


 

Berry tarts  . . .  I can almost taste them.


And those are my favorite things for this week. I guess I just like pretty things.


A thought to carry with you  . . . 


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*I don't have to chase extraordinary moments to
fine happiness -- it's right in front of me if I'm
paying attention and practicing gratitude.
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Melt in Your Mouth Chicken


In The English Kitchen today  . . .  Melt in Your Mouth Chicken.  And it really does melt in the mouth.  Tender, juicy and delicious. Quick and easy to make as well. What more could you ask for???

I hope you have a beautiful day. Perhaps today I will get started on my taxes. Hope springs eternal!  Whatever you get up to, be blessed and don't forget!

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Wednesday, 18 March 2026

Wednesday Witterings . . .

 

 

We had a beautifully mild day here yesterday. It was 17*C/62*F when I got up in the morning and stayed that way all day. The rain even stopped for most of the day, now here this morning it is -6*C which is 21*F, so quite a drastic change in temperatures in 24 hours.  But that is March for you. Summer one day, Winter the next.

They have a new maintenance person for these places that I live in. He stopped by yesterday morning to clean my heat pump, put a new battery in my smoke detector and he also replaced the light in my refrigerator.  He says that he has developed a maintenance plan for all of the rentals owned by our landlord and that each year these things, plus others, will be done as a routine. I was quite impressed.



 
Nutmeg


I put Cinnamon and Nutmeg in my bedroom with the door closed for the whole time the maintenance guy was here. That way he could get on with his business without worry about any cats getting in the way and I didn't have to worry about them getting out of the house while he took his stuff in and out the door.  After he was finished and had left I let them out.

He must have walked by the front of my house because all of a sudden Nutmeg bolted and I caught him in the bathroom on top of the washing machine getting ready to jump in behind. (again)  I managed to stop him, bring him out of the bathroom and then I shut the door.  He was absolutely terrified and I don't understand it.

Nobody has ever been mean to that cat. Not ever.  I don't understand why he is so afraid of new people, men in particular.

 
 
(Cinnamon)


Cinnamon is very laid back in comparison.  She likes to hang around when other people are here and watches them the whole time. She will even let them pet her.  Unless it is my sister. Both cats try to disappear when she comes, well some of the time anyways.  She is their nail clipper so they try to evade her because of that. But usually if the nail clippers don't come out, they are fine. Nutmeg will even play with her.

It just seems so odd that they are so totally different, being that they are from the same litter and have had the same upbringing. I guess they are a bit like people in that way, with their own unique personality traits and behaviors. These two are as different as chalk and cheese.


 

Eileen had her therapy appointment yesterday.  She was taking therapy for anxiety and had stopped going, but when all of this stuff with Tim kicked up they started it up again. Her therapist told her to delete Tim and his GF from her Facebook page.  I had told her I thought it was a good idea, but she will take advice a bit better from other people, so once the therapist said to do it, she was keen to get it done. She wasn't sure how to do that, so I did it for her and actually blocked them. You can delete people but that won't stop you from looking at their pages depending on the settings. You actually have to block them if you want to not see anything from or about them.

It really wasn't very healthy for her to be able to see what they were up to and it was upsetting to her to see him posting pictures of him with his gf. So now that won't be a problem any longer.

Now all they have to do is get their money separated. I know they have separate bank accounts now in a different bank, but there is only $20 in hers. The bulk of her money and all of their savings is still in the old shared account. Hopefully that will be sorted soon.



 


I had hoped to get a bunch of stuff done yesterday, but the maintenance guy coming kind of derailed me, so I really didn't get anything done. I need to make myself a list and then check things off as it goes along.  I still need to get my things ready to go to the tax man, and I have that talk to write for the end of April. I don't want to leave either one to the last minute.

You know, I don't remember ever filling out any tax forms the whole time I lived in the U.K. Unless you were self-employed the Government did it all automatically. That still wouldn't work for me however, as I am self-employed.  

I will get to it soon. Maybe if I did one month every day, then it would get done. 

Today I have to go over and make sure dad gets his lunch okay as Cindy and Dan are going to be away for most of the day.  Not a problem.  (yes, any excuse to procrastinate, lol)




 


Have you ever seen anything so cute as this? Makes me wish I had a little girl to play hair with. I am a cherry girl through and through. I love cherries on anything and I just think this is adorable.  

Speaking of hair I badly need to go and get my hair cut. I have been procrastinating that as well. It has gotten way too long and almost shapeless. Not as neat and tidy as it was. Eileen wants to get her hair cut as well.  Maybe I should make appointments for the two of us. I am not sure how that would work money-wise. I cannot afford to pay for us both. She will need to ask one of her CSS workers how she can pay for it if I do make an appointment.

She is meeting her dad at Tim Horton's today for a visit with him.  That will be good for her. I don't think they have seen each other in a while.


 

We've been watching the series Everwood and are just about finished the third series. The other night as one of the Episodes was finishing I thought to myself, why is there never a really happy ending. I want a happy ending. I want Ephrem and Amy to ride off into the sunset together and live happily every after. I want Bright and Hannah to get together and be happy. The same with Doctor Brown and Nina. And Doctor Abbot and his wife. I just want everyone to be happy and content.  

But it never seems to happen.  Their lives are fraught with one tragic incident after another. Things just start to go good and wham. Something stirs the pot.

I know they are just television characters, but my heart longs for happy endings. For everyone. Perhaps happy endings don't make for good ratings?

I started to watch that new series, The Madison, on Prime. I have only watched the first episode and could not help thinking about what  beautiful location it was set in, rural Idaho. Next to a river. So beautiful.  It made me think of heaven and wonder at how very beautiful heaven must be. They say it will be more beautiful than anything we have seen here on earth. I am not sure my heart will be able to take such beauty. I cannot imagine.

I watched another one of those travel vlogs on YouTube the other day and in this one the guy and his dad were taking a luxury cruise down the Amazon river. Very interesting, although I do not think I would be willing to part with the cash they paid to do so. I would rather watch it on the telly from the comfort of my chair. No bugs there.

And speaking of bugs, I got all my ant bait in and will soon be setting it out.

And with that I will end this for today.

A thought to carry with you  . . . 

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*Be the reason someone smiles,
be the reason someone feels loved
& believes in the goodness in people.
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Steaky Chips with Peppercorn Sauce



In The Kitchen today, Steaky Chips with Peppercorn Sauce.  I saw this in one of my cookbooks the other day and thought it sounded pretty delicious. I had bought a small package of steak strips, and so I made it for Eileen and myself for supper one night and it was fabulous.  Very simple to make and very delicious!  All you need is a salad on the side.


I hope you have a beautiful day. A day filled with light and with love. Along the way, don't forget!

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