Friday 19 March 2010

The Heart of the Home

"My opinion of a kitchen?" said Susan, in a tone, with a glance, and a wave of her fork that spoke unwritten volumes, as she translated the perfection of fried cakes from the frying kettle to a tin colander to dreain; "my opinion of a kitchen? Well, that would vary somewhat with the mansion that contained it. In any case, however, it would be the pleasantest room in the house, if I had the ordering of things."

The queen of our kitchen said this with a half smile and a half apology, as she continued; "It makes a good deal of difference, you know, to the one who is to spend the best part of her time there."
~Our Susan's Opinion of a Kitchen, "The Home Cookbook," Canada's first community Cookbook

I have long felt that the kitchen is the heart of any home. I am not sure if that is because it is the one room that I have always spent most of my time in, or if it's because it truly has been the heart of all of my homes. I've been really lucky in that, for the most part, most of my homes have contained a kitchen which was large enough to hold at least a small table and some chairs. The kitchen has always been where I have felt the most comfortable and at peace.

The kitchen here in the cottage is where we spend most, if not all, of our time. It is rather large and serves not only as a kitchen/diner, but also somewhat of a lounge . . . in that we have comfy seating and a television down here, not to mention our computer. There is a circular staircase in the corner that our Jess was never able to manoeuvre, and so we decided early on in our life here at Oak Cottage, that we would simply live in the kitchen with her, so she didn't have to spend her time alone. We never minded, really . . .

When I was growing up, the kitchen in many homes was the place where most people entertained their guests, and . . . if you watch shows like The Waltons or Little House, it's very plain to see that a great deal of entertaining went on in their kitchens as well.

It is the perfect place to sit someone down and give them a cup of refreshment along with a cake or a few cookies. And . . . if you came from where I come from, there is no way on God's green earth that you are going to go "A-callin" at someone's home without having been offered at least some form of refreshment during your visit!

Oh . . . . I could never bear to work in a kitchen without a window to look out of while I was puttering away . . . . I am happy to say that I have always been blessed with a window in each kitchen I have worked in.

My window here at the cottage has to be the most beautiful of all . . . looking out over the Orchards that border the back garden . . . a beautiful scene that perfectly catalogues the changing seasons of the year as they pass. Right outside the window is a beautiful rosebush which, during the growing season, is just covered with beautiful big pink roses . . . that blow against the panes and scratch the glass in windstorms . . . I call it my dream window.

A nice table that is pleasing to the eye, but also welcoming and enticing to the visitor, is also another necessity in a kitchen. I want people to come on in, take off their coats, sit down and make themselves at home. After I have gotten them a drink and offered them a cookie or slice of cake, I will sit down with them. My kitchen table is where I have shared many an important conversation and much love with others. It is the place that battles have been fought, problems have been solved, laughter has been supplied, tears have been shed, and hearts have been shared . . . across my solid, vinyl covered, oak kitchen table. It has ever been so in each of my homes. I'm not sure why, but it seems that if the kitchen has always been the heart of my homes, then the kitchen table has always been it's nucleus, the place where the heart beat starts . . .

Our kitchen is slowly losing it's heart this week . . . We packed all the dishes away yesterday except for what we will need just for ourselves over the next week or so. All the pictures are down and packed away . . . and our faithful companion is no longer here . . . soon, our heart will be beating strongly in another kitchen, several hundred miles from here . . .

"My opinion of a kitchsn, 'as is a kitchen,' is one room enough about for the many little things and comforts that give it a home-like look; a 'living room,' as we used to call our kitchen in the old home. And then Susan's glance wandered, with a pleased softened look to the sunny window, with it's geranium pots and hanging basket, near which the most cheerful of canaries in his cage made all the air melodious with song."

I have to agree with Susan . . . a kitchen is indeed a 'living' room.

"No matter where I serve my guests . . . it seems they like my kitchen best."

This is a tasty salad that is not only pleasing to the eye, but very refreshing as well. Just perfect for sharing at the kitchen table with someone you love . . .

*Fresh Fig Salad*
Serves 2

You can easily multiply this salad to serve more people. It's fruity and refreshing and a wonderful change from ordinary green salads. It's quick to put together and you can have it done in no time at all. With a bit of crusty bread and butter on the side, it makes a fabulous light lunch!

4 fresh figs, medium to large
2 ounces feta cheese, crumbled
2 ounces of walnut halves, toasted and roughly chopped

For the Dressing:
2 TBS walnut oil
1 tsp white Balsamic vinegar
1/2 tsp Dijon mustard
sea salt and freshly ground black pepper to taste

Put the vinegar, oil and mustard along with a good pinch of salt and the black pepper into a small bowl. Whisk it together well. Set aside until you have the rest of the salad ready.

Wipe the figs gently with a damp cloth. Trim off the stem end and discard. Cut the figs into quarters. Arrange them on individual plates in an attractive way. Scatter half of the feta cheese and walnuts over each.

Give the dressing another quick whisk and then drizzle it evenly over each salad, dividing it equally. Serve immediately.

Note - To toaste the walnuts, heat a heavy skillet over high heat and toss the walnuts into the pan. Toast and stir for 2 to 3 minutes. Remove from the heat and set aside.

There are some mighty delicious Cabbage Rolls sitting over in The English Kitchen today.


  1. wherever your gentle and tender hospitality dwells...your kitchen's heart will beat once more :)

    a sweet post for all of us who love our homes :)

  2. Marie the kitchen is aplace that nurtures soul and body. It must be difficult as you pack up your home. This afternoon I went to a chef's supply store to buy some more clothing for my son and how I would have loved to buy you something special for your new kitchen.

    Thinking of you so very much. Love and prayers,


  3. Hello dear,
    We just got home from the temple. It is late but I had to stop by the cottage and tell you good morning. I was not feeling well last night and today but the Lord blessed me that I was able to get up out of bed and do my temple assignments without problems today. I am thankful.
    I was not up to getting to the computer earlier so I took time tonight to read your last 3 posts. I love everything you write. We see eye to eye and feel the same heart to heart. I know that it must be hard to pack up your pretty little kitchen...but on the other hand...I bet that you can hardly wait to get settled away from Oak cottage. You are leaving dear friends and sweet memories. You are leaving your dear Jess... but you are also leaving many things that were not pleasant. You will enjoy getting back with your old friends and make new ones in Chester as well. Hopefully you will find a job where your emplorer will value you and treat you with respect.
    My prayers are with you. Hugs, Lura

  4. Packing and leaving your cottage is going to be hard for you but a new home awaits and a new way of life for you. I'm praying all will be well in the days ahead.

  5. Beautifully written, Marie. Kitchens are truly where the heart is. I feel a great peace in mine and love sharing the table with good friends and family!
    xoxo, Rachel

  6. Dear Marie...what a sweet, poignant post today... The kitchen provides so much--comfort for the body and soul. And how blessed hubby & I were to be able to come and see you, Todd and dear Jess in your lovely, snug kitchen--we will never forget that! I hope we will be able to come see you in your new kitchen in Chester on day--love to think! :o) I know it is with a somewhat heavy heart as you pack--you have been there at the Cottage some many years now...much to remember. May these days not be too heavy on your heart though as you look ahead to life in Chester. Wishing you both a lovely weekend! I am feeling a little better--at last!--and hope to catch you for a chat this weekend--can't wait! LOVE YOU HEAPS!! OXOXOX ((BIG HUGS)) Oh, we got married here in Norway, btw! :o)

  7. The positive side to your move Marie is that Spring will be beginning a 'New Year'. Spirits lift in the spring , and whose could not, when we are surounded by all her beautiful signs. No more darkness or winter thoughts.
    A positive and wonderful new beginning is wished for you and Todd as you make your new home in Chester.
    You will take the heart of the kitchen with you. Because... you are its heart.
    God bless you both.
    Much love
    Jeanie xxxx

  8. Always I think will be hard let your cottage dear Marie, is natural, your kitchen where you made a lot of delicious recipes, but Im sure how you are where you go home IS WITH YOU, in your heart and where you go, Todd and you will make a lovely new home. Blessings you always, Love ya!!

    Sorry if my words sometimes are not exactly but you know english is my second lenguaje and sometimes is difficult to me! huggss gloria

  9. Im really with you my dearest Marie and Todd!! huggs and kisses, gloria

  10. Dearest Marie - I can't believe what has happened in my blogging absence over these past two weeks. Firstly, and I hope not to further upset you, but my heartfelt sympathies on the loss of your beautiful companion Jess. I have just been catching up with your posts and was so upset to read about her, what a shame. You are welcome to share my naughty cat Poppy via the blogosphere. Wishing you lots of luck and good wishes for your move back North, we to rent accommodation so I understand it is unsettling but I'm sure you will feel at home very soon AND Chester is not too far from me in Chorley - I will send you some cupcakes xxx

  11. I agree Marie!!! So this is where the magic is in your kitchen where all that yummy food is cooked. Your so talented. I loved this post. Hugs,Mica

  12. I would have loved to buy you something special for your new kitchen.
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  13. the kitchen is the best room in the world!!

    p.s. sorry for my commenting absence. we were away for spring break and i took a blogcation:) hope all is well!

  14. I am lucky that my kitchen, dining room, and living room are one big open space. Everyone else in the family is, too. The kitchen is always where the action is!

    I'm sad for your move, but excited to see your new digs!

  15. I loved this post.Im so in love with my home cooking decorating and just enjoying it.

    Im a new follower to your lovely blog, Im glad I found you on someones Doll page.I forget though whp that person was LOL.I love your dolls to so cute.

    Have a great weekend.By the way im greek and we make stuffed grapeleaves (dolmathes) which are awesome as well.Oh and the feta to good.;)


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