Friday, 6 April 2012

Friday thoughts . . .



This is a scrapbook page thingie that I did yesterday afternoon. The picture is an old one of my mother and her older sister Thelma. Thelma passed away several years ago now. My mother is the one on the right. This was during the depression. I think my mother may have been 4 or 5 years old in this photo. I am pretty sure that the dresses would have been sewn from either flour sacks or cut down from a larger garment. Relatives in America often sent my mother's family parcels of used clothing that my grandmother would remake into clothes for her girls. I coloured bits of the photograph, like they used to do in the olden days. I think it needs something else, but I'm not sure what that something else is!

I was going to frame this and send it to my mother for her 80th birthday in July, but I'm not sure yet.



My mother was one of three girls in her family. (In this picture she is about 18 or 19)They said my grandmother could never carry a boy to full term, and indeed everytime she was pregnant and miscarried it was a boy. My mother also had another sister Freda who was younger than her. She passed away several years ago as well. She was only just 65.

They had a hard life when they were growing up. It as the depression and my grandfather only ever got seasonal work. He would work sometimes for the railroad and sometimes as a house painter. Work was very seasonal if you could get it at all.

My mother was born at home in her Grandparent's house on their farm up on the South Mountain in a place called Inglesville. I am not sure how long they lived there, but my mother talks about her father pulling them down the mountain on a sled in the wintertime to take them to school, and about him walking back down again with the sled to pick them up when school finished to bring them back home again, so she was still living with her grandparents when she started school. Looking at it now, and knowing how very far the old family farm is from the town where the school is, I know how very difficult and long a walk that would have been for my grandfather in the winter. It's quite a ways! People worked very hard in those days. I think we are quite spoiled now!

My Great-Grandfather had quite a large farm, with cows, sheep, orchards and a large vegetable garden. They had plenty to eat and were not starving, which was a blessing. My mother has a lot of happy memories of growing up on the farm and her grandparents. My grandfather did not live to be very old though, and once he passed away, the farm went to some relatives and my mother's family went to live down in the valley in a town called Lawrencetown. My Great Grandmother also lived with them.



This is an old family picture taken just before my mother brought me overseas to join my father in Germany where he was posted. I am the baby of course and it's my late Aunt Freda who is holding me. I think she was around 14 in this picture, then there is my mother and finally my Great Grandmother. This would have been in 1956. I love looking at old photographs, don't you?



This is one of the only pictures I have of my Grandmother. She is the woman, holding her head down in the back of this photograph and that is my Aunt Freda to her right, leaning her head on my Grandmother's shoulder and the little boy nestled into the front of her dress is my cousin/uncle Ronnie. Ronnie was from the children's aid and had been brought to my Gran when he was only an infant. My Gran and their family were the only family he ever knew. They say that when he came to live with them, although he was over a year old, he was unable to sit up and you could stand the little sweater he was wearing up all on it's own, it was so filthy. My Grandmother raised him as her own son and we all love him as one of our own family. He is family. When my Grandmother passed away he went to live with my Aunt Freda and her husband. My Grandmother was a very shy woman, who hated to have her photograph taken, so there are not very many photos of her at all. I remind myself of that everytime I balk at having my own photograph taken. Someday my progeny will be happy for my photographs, even if right now I am not!



This is a very old photograph of my Grandfather with his sisters and one brother. He is the little boy on the right sitting down and his one brother, Arnold, is the baby on his sister's lap. The girls names are Meda, Melva, Vera and Blanche. I don't know which is which, but only Melva, who is the little girl sitting down in the front in the white dress. She is the only one of all of them that I remember, next to my Grandfather of course. When I knew her she lived in America. She had moved down there during the depression I believe and married a man from there. I can remember visiting her with my parents in the 1960's and marveling at their home and lovely New England accents. Our Amanda looks like the sister standing up at the far left in the back. I think it's so amazing how family looks get passed on down through the generations. Quite, quite fascinating.



This is my Great Great Grandmother, Ida McNayr Smith. She was my Great Grandmother's mother. I don't know an awful lot about her, except that when I look at her photograph I see the eyes of a lot of my cousins.



There is a really strong family resemblance in the eyes. I do remember my mother telling me at one time that she lived with some relatives when she was very old and that they were not very nice to her. That they kept her locked in her room, but I am not entirely sure about that, so I will have to ask her again.



This is a photograph of old Aunt Janet and Uncle Darius. Darius was my Great Grandfather Best's brother I believe and they lived in a house up on the North Mountain overlooking the Bay of Fundy. My Aunt Freda told me that Aunt Janet always kept her money pinned inside her apron. I don't know anything else about them.

My Aunt Freda was the family historian and a lot of the old photographs etc. disappeared after she passed away. We used to talk about geneology a lot together when she was alive. I loved to hear the stories about the old days and people. I wish I had written them all down now, because I am getting old now and my memory is not like it used to be either!

Anyways, I started off this morning showing you the scrapbook page I did of my mom and her sister and look where that took me! I'm sure you're quite, quite bored of all this by now!




It is Good Friday today. I hope we will all give pause and think about all that the Saviour did for us on this day. I am ever greatful for all He did for us, does for us and will do for us in the future. I will leave you today with this thought . . .

“Brothers and sisters, one of the great consolations of this Easter season is that because Jesus walked such a long, lonely path utterly alone, we do not have to do so. His solitary journey brought great company for our little version of that path—the merciful care of our Father in Heaven, the unfailing companionship of this Beloved Son, the consummate gift of the Holy Ghost, angels in heaven family members on both sides of the veil, prophets and apostles, teachers, leaders, friends. All of these and more have been given as companions for our mortal journey because of the Atonement of Jesus Christ and the Restoration of His gospel. Trumpeted from the summit of Calvary is the truth that we will never be left alone nor unaided, even sometimes we may feel that we are. Truly the Redeemer of us all said: “I will not leave you comfortless: [My Father and] I will come to you [and abide with you].”
― Jeffrey R. Holland


Thursday, 5 April 2012

Where is the hope and the joy . . .




Behold, God will not cast away a perfect man, neither will he help the evil doers:Till he fill thy mouth with laughing, and thy lips with rejoicing.
~Job 8:20-21

I don't think I know one person who has not had some kind of bad stuff enter their lives, I know I sure have. Nobody is saying that we have to break out into giggles every time something bad comes along . . . but I do think we need to remember that, during those times of weeping and mourning, the promise that our Heavenly Father will . . . fill our mouths with laughter and our lips with shouts of joy, is a promise which we can depend upon.

"Hope . . . is like the beam of sunlight rising up and above the horizon of our present circumstances. It pierces the darkness with a brilliant dawn. It encourages and inspires us to place our trust in the loving care of an eternal Heavenly Father, who has prepared a way for those who seek for eternal truth in a world of relativism, confusion, and of fear." ~Dieter F Uchtdorf



This promise of joy and of hope . . . can, and should be our strength during hard times. The more we practice having an attitude of joy-yet-to-come, and of hope, the more powerful it is, and the greater the possibility of it becoming our walk through the fires and difficulties that would consume our happiness during this lifetime.

During my own trials, I have learned that I must reach into my innermost being to retrieve the words of my Heavenly Father, which I have held in my heart . . . just for . . . such a time. This helps me to remember all that He has done for me in the past . . . and all that He has promised to do for me in the future. The scriptures are full of just such hope and just such promises.



"Hope is not knowledge, but rather the abiding trust that the Lord will fulfill His promise to us. It is confidence that if we live according to God's laws and the words of His prophets now, we will receive desired blessings in the future. It is believing and expecting that our prayers will be answered. It is manifest in confidence, optimism, enthusiasm, and patient perseverance.
In the language of the gospel, this hope is sure, unwavering, and active. The prophets of old speak of a 'firm hope' (Alma 34:41) and a 'lively hope' (1 Peter 1:3). It is a hope glorifying God through good works. With hope comes joy and happiness. With hope, we can 'have patience, and bear . . . [our] afflictions' (Alma 34:41)." ~ Dieter F Uchtdorf

Keeping "His" word in my heart helps me to keep track of all that He has lifted me up over, all that He has carried me through, and all that He might yet be taking me, even in the midst of troubles and sorrow. It is the lifejacket which helps to keep me afloat in the ever rising tide of hopelessness and despair that we see all around us in these modern times. It is my faith in all of these things that ever sustains me.

It's like the difference between wallowing in the mud . . . or learning how to jump in the puddles and dance in the raian.

Just my thoughts this morning . . .



This is what I got up to yesterday whilst the men were downstairs ripping up the old kitchen floor and making a mess. (It's about halfway done now) I took myself off up to my "studio" (ie, the spare room/library/craft room/studio/spot to store everything that hasn't got a place) and got lost in my thoughts and paints. Mitzie kept me company, although to be sure she wasn't all that happy up there and would much rather have been downstairs with the "guys!" I have long held a fascination for fairies and red and white toadstools. It was really only a matter of time before both of them made their way into my artwork. What do you think?

I am really hoping that the floor is finished today. I have my fingers crossed. I have people coming for Easter Lunch on Sunday and I don't want everything to be in a mess! So far it's looking very good. I will be sure to take some pictures when it is done. There hasn't been any cooking going on so to speak, but I always have recipes waiting in a queue for just such a time so . . .



In The English Kitchen today you will find a lovely Coconut and Basil Curried Chicken.


Tuesday, 3 April 2012

The Simple Woman's Day book . . .




FOR TODAY, April 3rd, 2012...

Outside My Window...

It is cool, wet, and the sky is just beginning to lighten up. They say winter is returning for the rest of the week, with snow expected in Scotland for Easter, if not already. On the news last night it looked like it was already snowing in the higher areas of Scotland. I do hope our plum tree doesn't lose all of it's blooms.

I am thinking...
About all the lovely talks we got to listen to this past weekend at one of the Bi-Annual Conferences of our church. There was a definite theme running through them all . . . repentance, forgiveness (both for ourselves and for others), healing our relationships and families . . . I felt a sense of urgency, that time is running out quickly and that we must act now . . . before it is too late.

I am thankful for...
My membership in such a church as the one I belong to. I have attended many churches through the years of my life, and have always enjoyed going to church and fellowshipping with other believers . . . and there was nothing wrong with the others, but the church I go to now has many precious things that I have never experienced in any other church I have gone to. I am not sure that I can even explain it adequately in words. The Spiritual Nourishment that we get is beyond compare. The love and attention of our leaders. Their examples . . . their service to us. This truly IS the Saviour's church, and I am so very grateful to have found my way there and to now be on the path that is the right path for me.

As I listened to the various talks, I realized that I have been clinging on to things from the past that I need to let go of . . . that I need to truly forgive those that I bear grudges against, those who I feel have hurt me, and who continue to hurt me . . . not just say that I forgive them, but to truly forgive them, deep in my heart, with all of my heart and not just my words. If I truly forgive them, then I must be able to more past the scars and arrows of the past. I need to forgive myself. I need to find some way to heal the rift in my family, and if that means laying aside my pride and humbling myself to do so, then that is what I need to do.

From the kitchen...
There is rhubarb pie . . .

I am wearing...
A blue nightie, some jimjam bottoms, my robe and slippers. Yep . . . it's cold again.

I am creating...




Here is what I did yesterday afternoon. It is a little fairy sitting on the back of a robin sitting on the branch of a tree in springtime bloom. The words say this:

"What we love, determines what we seek. What we seek, determines what we think and do. What we think and do determines what we become." -Dieter F Uchtdorf

This is a quote from President Uchtdorf that I truly love. It is a reminder to me that I must keep a lofty perspective of things in this life of mine. That I should lay up my treasures in heaven and not put my faith and love into the things of this earth that I will not be able to carry with me from this life into the next. That those things which are truly important are my faith in the Saviour, my love of family and friends . . . my love of my fellow man, kindness and service to others. These are the things which are of intrinsic value, nothing else really matters in the scheme of things eternally.

I am going...
I have my reading lesson this morning and then this afternoon we are going to be travelling in to town to do some Missionary work. Tomorrow begins the work of replacing our kitchen floor with new ceramic tile. It will be a two day job, even though the kitchen is not very big. It will be a bit inconvenient for a couple of days, and a bit of a mess for a couple of days, but the end result will be worth all the hard work.

I am reading...



The Hunger Games, by Suzanne Collins

Sixteen-year-old Katniss Everdeen regards it as a death sentence when she is forced to represent her district in the annual Hunger Games, a fight to the death on live TV. But Katniss has been close to death before—and survival, for her, is second nature. The Hunger Games is a searing novel set in a future with unsettling parallels to our present. Welcome to the deadliest reality TV show ever...

Set in a future country that was once known as America, a set of cruel and sadistic games take place, as a punishment to the districts for an earlier rebellion. Twelve boys and twelve girls from the differing districts must battle in a futuristic arena - a battle to the death - in which only one can survive. When Katniss Everdeen steps up to take her younger sister's place in the games, she holds little hope that she'll survive, with the weight of the world on her shoulders - can she withstand the veritable death sentence before her?

This book was recommended to me by a friend and I have to say that even though I have only just begun to read it, I am totally smitten by it. There are a further two novels in this trilogy set, and I think it's safe to say I will probably read them all!!

STILL enjoying this! I am on the last few pages and will be soon finished. I already have another book waiting in the wings, but shhhh . . . I won't tell you about it just yet!

I am hoping...
I can get all the things sorted out today that I need to sort out before the work on the floor begins tomorrow. The refrigerator will have to be moved out into the lounge temporarily and the washer and dishwasher will need to be put outside for a couple of days. Someone was telling me a few weeks ago that they had put their stove out by the door while they were doing something in the kitchen and when they went to get it to put it back in it was gone!!!

I am hearing...
Nothing new really. Mitzie is snoring away on the sofa. The keys are tapping. The birds are singing. The odd car drives by. The clock is ticking. A pretty normal morning I would say.

Around the house...

Source: google.com via Marie on Pinterest



I just love this idea of having a dining booth in the house. How cosy and comfortable that looks. What do you think??? Of course you would need to have just the right space to put something like this, and we don't . . . but a gal can dream can she not??? I think it's just wonderful!

One of my favourite things . . .
I love clocks.



Big clocks, small clocks, old clocks, new clocks. I love them all. There is something about the sound of a clock ticking that brings me comfort. I love Westminster chimes. I just LOVE clocks!

If I could change one thing it would be...
Love changes everything. I would put more love into the world.

I am looking forward to ...
Getting the kitchen floor finished and the job over with.

One of my favourite things ...
Is sharing my thoughts with you each morning. I wish that more of you would comment, but I hope that you get something out of the thoughts and words that I share. That is more important to me than any number of comments. I share because I want to help and hopefully inspire. That's all that really matters. In doing so I feel like I have made a difference, and what are we here for, on this beautiful planet, if not to make a difference . . .

A few plans for the rest of the week...
There will be a bit of work, a bit of play and everything in between. Life is good.

Here is picture thought I am sharing...





“There are only two ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."
~Albert Einstein (1879-1955)

I truly believe that life is better if you seek out the good in every day, in every moment. Just the be here at all is a miracle and a gift with a worth beyond measure. Look for the light in every day. It's there . . . I promise you . . . it's there.

As a closing thought I would like to leave you with this:


"The art of being wise is the art of knowing what to overlook."
~William James (1842 - 1962)

Think about it . . .

And there you have it . . . my day book for this week. Don't forget to hop on over to the Simple Woman to check out the other day book entries! (Or better yet, do a simple day book entry yourself! It's not that hard and I am betting you would enjoy it!




Cooking in The English Kitchen today, a good Old Fashioned Rhubarb Pie. From the Purity Cookbook.


Monday, 2 April 2012

Monday morning prattle . . .



I know we shouldn't have really done it . . . yesterday being Sunday and all . . . but one does have to take advantage of the sunshine over here in the UK while you can, and so we threw a load of whites into the washing maching so that we could hang them out to dry in the sun afterwards . . .

They hung outside for most of yesterday afternoon and we brought them in once the sun started to go down . . . oh . . . how very beautiful they smelled. So fresh and like the outdoors and sunshine. I just adore the smell of bedding that has been hung out on the line to dry. It was still slightly damp and so we hung it over the doorway in the lounge to finish drying while we watched some television and that beautiful outdoor perfume scented our entire evening. It was just gorgeous. One could scarce ever need any other type of air freshener than the smell of the great outdoors . . .



It is the same when Mitzie has spent an afternoon running about in the garden. We keep the grassed area separated from the patio part with a fence and a gate. When it is wet, the veg garden part can be quite muddy and we don't really want her to play in there, but when it's dry we open the gate and she has a wonderful time running up and down, her long ears flapping in the wind and gathering in all of that outdoor smell . . . it's lovely. When she comes back in I could just bury my face in her ears and neck and stay there forever . . . she smells so very nice . . . it's quite wonderful really . . .



I'm just a fool for April
I love each tender day,
More kind than March's mayhem,
Less bold than teasing May,
Sweet April's wild and lovely,
With eyes as bright as rain,
She's graceful as the bluebells
that bloom in every lane.
She startles in an instant,
Her smiles may turn to tears,
But when she laughs, a little glimpse
Of Summer's joy appears.
~Margaret Ingall

I forgot all about yesterday being April Fool's day! I think that must be the first time ever. I can remember as a child planning tricks and foolery in the days running up to the first of April every year. Our poor teachers at school . . . I am sure they really loved April Fool's day . . . NOT. Chalk stuffed into the chalkboard erasers, things turned around backwards, thumbtacks on seats . . . there was no end to the tricks we would try to play on them. I'm sure they quite expected them, and there was probably nothing we could have done that they hadn't already experienced through the years.



I remember reading a story about some children that exchanged the salt for sugar in their home one April Fool's . . . and always wanted to try that trick out . . . but I never dared to do it, the fear of the wrath of our mother being far greater than any joy that might have been achieved by doing so! My tricks at home tended to be long the milder strains of . . . look!! There's a horse in the garden . . . and then when everyone rushed to the window to look . . . a boisterous April Fool!!! It all seems so very innocent now.

I think the best and most memorable April Fool I ever played was on my eldest son when he was about 16. It was always such a chore getting him out of bed and ready for school in the mornings once he hit the teenage years. WE had created a space for him down in the basement, so he could have privacy and his very own place apart from all the younger children and that is also where he had his bedroom.



At that time there used to be a telephone number you could all on the telephone called Freddy the Wonderphone. You could call Freddy to find out the weather, the time, lottery numbers . . . we used to buy lottery tickets quite frequently back then. So I pretended to call Freddy the Wonderphone and check our lottery numbers . . . quite loudly and dramatically I might add. As I read them out my husband would say "Yes, we got that one.", until he had said yes to each one and then we all proceeded to whoop and jump up and down in excitement, exclaiming how we had won the lottery!

You never saw a teenager scramble up the stairs as quickly as he did that morning. Oh my, but his excitement was ginormous!!! His eyes were almost like saucers and he was shouting . . . We won the lottery! We won the lottery!! We just stood there and looked at him as he stood there at the top of the stairs, all out of breath and huffing and puffing . . . and then we shouted out April Fool!!! Cruel??? Maybe, but it did get him out of bed . . . and he did get to feel like a millionaire for at least a few minutes! So not quite as bad as one would suppose . . . it must be pretty nice to feel like a million bucks!



It looks a bit like rain today. I hope it's only showers. My knees feel ok and I thought to go into town and buy some hotcross buns at the M&S. They have the best ones and when we were visiting our friend Doreen the other day she remarked on how much she had enjoyed the ones we had gotten her a few weeks ago. She had gotten some from a local shop last week and they weren't very good at all in comparison . . . they never are. M&S don't stint on the fruit, and they're really fluffy and moist . . . I think that's the secret to a good hotcross bun. The shops try to tempt us in with all sorts of flavours . . . cranberry hot cross buns, apple and sultana hot cross buns, etc. Give me a wonderfully old-fashioned luxury fruited one any day of the week. You just can't mess with what's always been good!!!




"If Spring came but once every century, instead of once a year, or burst forth with the sound of an earthquake and not in silence, what wonder and expectation there would be in all hearts to behold the miraculous change."

May your Monday be filled with some of the miracles and joys of Spring, and may this week in the run up to the celebration of that most glorious gift of all . . . the atonement of the Saviour . . . be filled with simple blessings, which are the best blessings of all . . .



Cooking in The English Kitchen today, delicious Roasted Chicken Breasts with Stir Fried Fennel Sprouts.

Sunday, 1 April 2012

It's like magic . . .



Well . . . here I am again. it's early Sunday morning, almost 7 am now, and I've been up for an hour already. I've been puttering . . . saying my prayers, pondering on the spiritual food of yesterday's conference that we were able to watch last night . . . reading e-mails. All is right in my world.

The sun is peeking over the horizon and as I look out the front window of the lounge where I sit, I can see a bit of blue sky, tinged with gold and some cloud appearing over the roofline of the terraced houses across the street from our own. The forsythia bush in the garden directily across is brilliantly gold and makes me smile. I can hear birds chirping and Mitzie is having her bath as she sits on the sofa. It won't be long now before she starts to mither me for her breakfast.

We had a bit of trouble getting the computer to load our conference down yesterday afternoon. It kept buffering and then freezing, and so we finally watched it on Todd's ipad, which worked just fine. At one point the Mormon Tabernacle choir was singing and I said to him . . . "You have the Mormon Tabernacle Choir on your lap." He said . . . "I know, isn't modern technology wonderful?"



I always try to take notes when I am listening to the conference talks, hoping that I will be able to go through them afterwards and glean a bit of treasure from them. They will all be available to read online in a few days time, and actually our May Ensign (A church magazine we subscribe to) will also have all of them in it, in all of their glorious entirety . . . and we will be able to nourish our spirits with them again and again as we glance through them. They are always such a blessing to us in so very many ways.

As President Monson opened the morning session yesterday he greeted us with his usual cheer and talked about how conference was a time to be strengthened, encouraged, instructed, inspired, to build our faith, to learn and to seek answers to our questions, assuring us that our Heavenly Father was mindful of each of us and our needs.



All in all, I found all of the talks uplifting and inspiring. I can't wait to hear the rest of them.

I thought it would be fun this morning to share some snippets of family life with you taken from the week which has just passed, so here goes!



This is my youngest son Bruce, posing with some of the Toronto Raptor's cheerleaders. He is right in his element here I am sure. What young man would not want to be flanked by a bevvy of beautiful women! His time on course is winding down now and he'll soon have his first military posting. It must be a very exciting time for him. I wonder where he will be sent. Hopefully not
Afghanistan.



One of the pictures of our Eileen and her fiancee Tim upon their return from the Special Olympic Winter Nationals in Alberta. They are a sweet couple and I just know they will be very happy together. They bring joy into each other's lives and that is all anyone can ask for isn't it?



Little Maryn who appears to be seriously enjoying a snack of some kind. It is hard to believe that she is one year old already. I don't know when I will ever have the opportunity to meet her in person. I would love to see her wearing one of the dresses I sent her for her Birthday or a picture of her mom reading her the story book that I sent. It was The Little Grey Rabbit stories by Allison Utley. When our Amanda was a little girl those were her favourite stories. I used to read them to her almost every night and I thought it would be lovely for her to be able to read them to her own little girl . . .



A beautiful shot of our Amanda (in the blue shirt) playing Ultimate Frisbee this week. I love that she is athletic. I wish I were more so! Alas . . . I am a big couch potato.



Could anything be any sweeter than the sight of two grandsons enjoying movies in 3D? I think not! This is Jonathan (older one) and Joshua (our little redhead) and of course their mom Kayla in behind them. My son Doug and his wife do so very much with their boys. They are always taking them to the zoo, or some other fun place. I know they are building some lovely childhood memories for them.



He's got his backpack on, he's not happy and he's leaving!! That's our little Luke throwing a strop, apparently after being told to eat his supper. He was having none of it, strapped his backpack on and was hitting the road! My son said that in this picture he was getting even more annoyed because my son was taking his picture! I love it!



My latest piece of work. I used a variety of techniques here . . . a bit of water colour in the background, with salt . . . which gives a mottled appearance to the sky. Then I used copic markers on the rest of it. Her wings are decoupaged using vellum and the leaves and night moths are rubber stamped. I really love the way it turned out. What do you think?



And that's pretty much it . . . life is pretty amazing. It's a treasure composed of here's and now's, ups and downs, and all the little things, which all weave themselves into the everyday fabric of who and what we are, and who we are becoming.

It's like magic.



In The English Kitchen today, delicious Raspberry Linzer Slices.

“You could ask yourself, 'How did God Bless me today?' If you do that long enough and with faith, you will find yourself remembering blessings. And sometimes you will have gifts brought to your mind which you failed to notice during the day, but which you will then know were a touch of God's hand in your life.”
― Henry B. Eyring