Wednesday 3 July 2024

Wednesday Witterings . . .

 

 

Here in the Maritimes, June ripens into July so easily that it takes a really keen eye to notice the difference. We get beautiful warm sunny days, ripe with sunshine and the sound of fledgling birds leaving the nests, and yet, the nights are not yet so hot and humid as to hamper comfortable sleep.  There is a breathless dazzle in the yard and garden, with slow and dreamy afternoons.

And if the day gets too hot to be bearable, you are never very far away from the delights of the seaside. From where we live, less than half an hour by car.


 


These are not the busy seaside's of the larger urban centers with loads of trappings and idolatry, but simple spots to park the car,  and walk . . .  with stony shores filled with seaweed left by the tide going out, colorful  fishing shacks,  and the sound of gulls soaring overhead.  The air is noticeably cooler here and contains the noticeable tang of salt and  ocean.   It is euphoric.

I could sit and watch the water for hours. It is so peaceful there. You might catch a few fishermen sitting on the dock, poles in the water, or the odd person walking their dog along the shore . . . really the only sounds are the waves and the gulls. I love it there . . . if I had the money I would buy a small cottage and live there year round.


 

I stopped to talk to my next door neighbor Sheila yesterday. I had been taking my compost down to the compost bins.  She  was wondering if I had seen the news on the television and seemed shocked when I told her that I do not watch the news.  Even  now, I cannot tell you if anything has happened because I am that much in the dark about the affairs of the world.  It is not worth the breaking of my contented heart to chance a listen.  I figure if I need to know anything important, it will come to me, I do not need to be seeking it out.  Perhaps that makes me uninformed, but I am not bothered. Uninformed or not, I am content.  I have experienced enough drama in my life so as not to want to invite it in.

There is life outside of the news, and it is quite peaceable.  If the world is ending, I do not need to spoil my last few  moments of life here with things I can do nothing about. Why choose to have my heart broken anew every morning by things I have  no control over.  My only news is on a "need to know" basis and that is how I like to keep it.


 
 



In my previous married life we would always spend a few weeks on the Island visiting family in July.  The "girls" as we called them would be up from the states and staying at the cottage in Malpeque.  The old Aunts . . . sisters  . . .  had moved down to Boston after the war and gotten married, but always returned each summer to the Island where they would set themselves up and hold court at the cottage. 

Aunt Rita would also spend her days there keeping everyone happy and fed. You would often find her at the counter in the kitchen area putting together oat and cheese Bannocks while everyone else sat around the table playing cards, the air ringing with the sound of hands hammering down onto the table as someone shouts out "thirty for sixty!"

I am not a card player. I was always only ever an observer to these delights and going's-on. Sometimes I would take the children and we would go out and walk along the shore next to the cottage  picking the wild rhubarb that grew there.

It was not a fancy cottage  . . .  simple and put together before building codes might have hampered its being built  . . .  filled with old castoffs and comfy chairs. Cold and alone in the winter months, it came alive in July and August  . . . its rafters ringing with life and laughter.


 

I have always loved to picnic. When I was a child it would be a simple repast carried in a paper bag holding a peanut butter sandwich and a jar filled with Cool-aid.  Nothing tasted better on a hot day after a sweaty bike ride up the mountain.  Eaten in the grass overlooking the valley below.  Fits and giggles. Good times.

Picnic is a magic word. It conjures up the images of genteel ladies in flower sprigged bonnets sitting on gingham cloths spread out onto the grass as they  watch gentlemen in straw hats with sleeves rolled up tossing balls back and forth . . .  it is much, much more than merely eating out of doors.  A picnic is an exercise in serenity and simple pleasures.  

A peaceable calm and respite from the furor and allure of everyday busy-ness. Boiled eggs, wrapped in wax paper, robust sandwiches with the crusts cut off and filled with slices of ripe chilled tomato, sticks of crisp cucumber, and  chunks of salty cheese.  Pressed paper punnets filled with sweet fresh berries, lightly dusted with sugar and ready for eating. Glass bottles, beaded with sweat and filled with ice cold lemonade . . .  the hum of flies and bees, perhaps the smell of hotdogs and marshmallows being roasted over an open fire in the distance floating through the air.

Picnics and summer go together like peas and carrots  . . . 

Oh I have waxed on this morning . . . 


A thought to carry with you  . . . 



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On my ME desk calendar this morning  . . . 




In The English Kitchen this morning . . . Blueberry & Lemon Drop Scones.  Simple, quick, easy to make and delicious. A small batch of only four, sugar glaze crusted sweet scones.


I hope you have a wonderful Wednesday. I have to bake some biscuits this morning to take to a family whose mother is in hospital.  I also have some cookies to bring.  I will take them to my friend Jackie's and she will drop them off.  It is called a Relief Society food train I believe.  I could be wrong. An opportunity to help out in any case!  Whatever you get up to stay safe and be happy!  Don't forget!


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Tuesday 2 July 2024

A Day Book . . .

 



FOR TODAY, July 2nd, 20204




OUTSIDE MY WINDOW ...

Not this morning, but last night. I took a photo of the sun set. This is it unfiltered.  I had my curtains drawn and thought somebody was shining their car lights at my window and so I peeked. This is what I saw. So pretty.


 

I AM THINKING ...

Dan starts a new job this morning. I hope he does well and that he likes it. It is always nerve-wracking on the first day of any new job.  Praying all goes very well for him.


 

I AM ALSO THINKING ...

I hope that I am not turning into that little old lady that is always curtain twitching, looking out and being nosy about my neighborhood.  I think that last night it was just I thought someone was in my driveway and it was late at night and I was a bit nervous about that,  me being here all on my own. I do have an inordinate fear of someone breaking in while I am here, or looking in my windows at me, etc.  Perhaps that is normal for somebody who lives by themselves?


Fresh Corn Salad



IN THE KITCHEN ...

Fresh Corn Salad. Juicy corn kernels, crisp cucumbers, tangy cherry tomatoes, and a very simple dressing, this salad is a perfect blend of summer goodness.





ON MY "TO COOK" LIST ...

Bites with Brie, Easy Rosemary Focaccia Muffins.  These look really yummy.





A FRESH PERSPECTIVE ...

Not only do we need to look at others the way that God looks at them, but we need to be a bit kinder to ourselves and see ourselves as God sees us.  God loves all of his children, including ourselves.  Be gentle with yourself.


I WOULD LOVE TO CREATE ...


 

Quilted heart coasters. So pretty  . . . 

 


Quilted Stockings  . . .  I had some started for my grandchildren that got left in the U.K. I hope they went to good homes.

 


Reversable rickrack napkins  . . .  so pretty.


 

Old wool blankets, edged with bias-tape


 

Scalloped edging  . . .  very pretty  . . . 




OH MY GOODNESS ...

I had this book when I was a young child. I loved it! It was about a little dog who had a big dog move into the next door neighbors place.  I think my book was called The Playful Little Puppy, but it was the same book.




I AM READING ...

CROW LAKE, by Mary Lawson

Crow Lake is that rare find, a first novel so quietly assured, so emotionally pitch perfect, you know from the opening page that this is the real thing—a literary experience in which to lose yourself, by an author of immense talent. 

 Here is a gorgeous, slow-burning story set in the rural “badlands” of northern Ontario, where heartbreak and hardship are mirrored in the landscape. For the farming Pye family, life is a Greek tragedy where the sins of the fathers are visited on the sons, and terrible events occur–offstage. Centerstage are the Morrisons, whose tragedy looks more immediate if less brutal, but is, in reality, insidious and divisive. 

Orphaned young, Kate Morrison was her older brother Matt’s protegee, her fascination for pond life fed by his passionate interest in the natural world. Now a zoologist, she can identify organisms under a microscope but seems blind to the state of her own emotional life. And she thinks she’s outgrown her siblings–Luke, Matt, and Bo–who were once her entire world. 

 In this universal drama of family love and misunderstandings, of resentments harbored and driven underground, Lawson ratchets up the tension with heartbreaking humor and consummate control, continually overturning one’s expectations right to the very end. 


Tragic, funny, unforgettable, Crow Lake is a quiet tour de force that will catapult Mary Lawson to the forefront of fiction writers today.

I have only just started this, but so far so good.


THINGS I LOVE ... 


 



Shiny wood floors  . . . 



 



Lace curtains  . . . 


 



Airy rooms filled with light  . . . 



 


A well organized bath  . . . 




Red Gingham  . . . 


MAKES ME SMILE ...

 

Siblings  . . .  perhaps?


SOMETHING TO WATCH ...



The Bear on Disney+  
I am late to the party. I only just started watching series one.  I am enjoying it!


A THOUGHT TO CARRY WITH YOU ...


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 *.˛.°Less is more,
Less stress, more peace.
Less tech, more nature.
Less worry,  more joy.
Less fear, more gratitude.
Less judgement, more love.
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And that's my daybook for this week!



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  ⋰ ⋮ ⋱ blessings in life.*´¯`.¸¸.☆ 




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Have a beautiful day!  Don't forget!  

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Monday 1 July 2024

Small and Wonderful Things . . .

 



"The world is fairly studded and strewn with pennies cast broadside from a generous hand. But who gets excited by a mere penny? It is dire poverty indeed when a man is so malnourished and fatigued that he won't stoop to pick up a penny. But if you cultivate a healthy poverty and simplicity, so that finding a penny will literally make your day, then, since the world is in fact planted with pennies, you have with your poverty bought a lifetime of days. It is that simple. What you see is what you get." ~Anne Dillard 


 A few of the small and wonderful things which bring untold joy into my life. It's the small things in life which truly mean the most. Simple abundance . . . it's the best.





Happy Canada Day to all my friends, family and readers!  157 years old, it was on this day in 1867 that the various territories of Canada officially became a country, including Nova Scotia, New Brunswick and the province of Canada, although retaining our ties to the British Empire.

When I was a child, Canada day was known as Dominion Day and our flag was the Union Jack. It was not until 1982 that we gained full independence and gained our own constitution.

Today our country will be celebrated across the width and breadth of it for the beautiful nation that it is.

I, for one, am grateful to be Canadian and to have been brought up in this beautiful land of plenty.  I have never known true want, having been coddled my whole life with free health care, having been freely educated from kindergarten to Grade 12 and even my post secondary/trade education at a local community college was free.  War had not touched the soil of my country in my lifetime.

As a country we do have our problems, but our Government is working at tackling those. When compared to other places in the world, we are all relatively blessed.  I am grateful for that.

 

I am grateful for my little home.  For these four walls that help to keep me safe, dry and warm and fill my heart with contentedness.  It is more than I could have hoped for, truly.  My only wish is that it had more light in the kitchen, but other than that it is perfect for me.  Just the right size and I don't have to worry about mowing any grass or shoveling any snow.  I am truly blessed.




This little man who keeps me perfect company.  All he asks for is food in his belly, a comfortable place to sleep and a few scratches behind the ear.  He is a bit of a bumbler. I love my little Nutmeg.




Cinnamon is the same, the perfect companion.  She, too, makes very few demands on me.  I love my little Cinnamon as well. She is a little sweetheart, twice as fast as her brother, who is twice her size.  She is a great little hunter.  


They actually work together on this.  I have watched them and it is fascinating.


These two beautiful creatures are as different as chalk and cheese, and add such a beautiful light to my life.  I could ask for no better company.


 



My life is indeed filled with happy things. I am truly blessed.  I am so blessed to have family close by.  I did not know that I could be so content by myself.  I had always thought that I needed a man to share my life with.  That is how I was brought up.  To get my high school diploma and then get married.  Those were the expectations placed upon me.  I thought the husband was a necessary thing. I have learned over these past few years that the husband is not necessary and that my life can be totally complete, full and filled with joy without one in it. I find myself wondering why it is that I ever thought the opposite.

That is not to say that I wouldn't LIKE someone to share my life with, but that I don't NEED someone to share my life with. There is a huge difference.  My life is my own and my decisions are my own. I can eat what I want when I want. I can go to bed when I want to and hog all the covers. Watch whatever I want to on the television without any channel surfing at all.  All the choices and decisions in this sweet home of mine are down to me and  nobody else. I can have company when I choose to have company.  But I am content. Sink or swim, it is all down to me.

This is the first time in my life that I have been totally on my own like this. I quite like it! My life is filled with happy things!


 

Dad seems to have settled in very well to Cindy's and seems to be very content there.  Princess also.  She has settled well, which is a relief.  There have been no major incidents in the past week really.   Yesterday I managed to help Dad get his solitaire back on his computer, which he enjoys so much. He couldn't find it.  

We had a lovely supper together at Cindy's.  She made some shake and bake chicken drumsticks. I had not had those in a very long time. She also made this really delicious spinach rice which I absolutely have to make myself. It was fabulous. Fresh garden beans and then strawberries and whipped cream for dessert.

Family dinners are the best!


 

I did not go to church yesterday. That makes three weeks I have not gone for one reason or another. Yesterday it was raining quite heavily and they were holding church down in Annapolis which is a good hour away.  I am actually not sure where the chapel is. I couldn't face driving all that way, not knowing where I was going in heavy rain.  So I just stayed home and listened to good music, puttering about.

I watched the finale to The Chosen last evening and was in tears, knowing what is coming next.  Even if you are not a religious person I think you would enjoy this show.  It is so very well done.  Every single episode touches my heart.  They have approached the Gospels in such a beautiful way as to be relatable and understandable, without being preachy in the least.   I, quite simply, love it.


 

A common simple life without drama.  Slow days, slower nights.  Simple things.  Calm and uncomplicated.  Nothing extraordinarily exciting.  I like this   p a c e   of life.  It suits me to a "T." Small town life, without much embellishment.  A bit of sun. A bit of rain. Faith. Family. Home. Friends. 

To live a simple life in peace is no small thing, but it is a very wonderful thing.


 

Good books to read.  The classics. Something to keep you entertained and interested. Filling the mind and soul with good things, things that uplift and inspire.  We live in an often very nasty world.  Filling your life with as much good as you can is no small thing and is very fulfilling.

I do not watch the news. I know some people keep the news on all the time. I could not bear it.  I do keep informed but I do not dwell on things like that.  I know as much as I need to know.  I fill my mind and heart with things that make me feel content and not afraid, that match my faith.


 

I had a bit of a lie in this morning.  I didn't get up until after 7 a.m.  I have not done that in a very long time.  I have been very slow at getting things done this morning. It is a quiet morning for me, and I am enjoying it.  Slow to start, a slower pace.  Happy Canada Day.

The sun is shining over the rooftops across the way, with a bright blue sky and a few fluffy clouds.  All is right in my world at the moment and I will gladly take it.  Life is good.


A thought to carry with you . . . 

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 *The more you praise and celebrate your life,
the more there is in life to celebrate.
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Cindy and I took a nice drive up the Valley on Saturday and visited a few Farmers Markets.  I wrote about it on The English Kitchen today and shared what I bought.  We had a great time. There is not a lot of fresh local produce available yet, but there is some and we had a great time exploring a few new ones that we had not been to yet, but will surely be revisiting as the season progresses!  Good times!

I hope that you have a lovely day.  A day filled with beauty, light and love. Whatever you get up to, don't forget!

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And I do too!