Friday, 9 October 2026

Dear Neighbor . . .

 

 OCTOBER 9th, 2026

Estate Lane, Nova Scotia
7*C/44*F
partially sunny, rain expected

Dear Neighbour,

It's very quiet in here this morning. Eileen got up to use the bathroom not too long ago, I helped to get her back in bed, to pull her blankets up, etc. She is doing very well, although she finds the stitches down below were really bothering her yesterday. It wasn't until later in the day we realized that if she sat reclined in the recliner it felt better, so today she is going to be sitting there.  She has been getting up and walking for between 5 and ten minutes every hour or so, which is good.  It helps to keep the blood circulating, avoiding clots. All told, however, she is doing very well. Prayers are being answered, left, right and center, and we are grateful.


 

My phone appointment with my Doctor went really well. Nothing showed up on my Ultrasound. No kidney stones. Everything looks good. I got my prescriptions renewed and am picking up a requisition for blood tests, etc. and he has put me on the waiting list for a colonoscopy. (happy happy joy joy) Just what I wanted. But we endure what we have to I guess. It won't be happening any time soon. Dan has been waiting over four months for his.




I treated Eileen and I to a movie last night. It was something we had not seen in a very long time and we were just feeling like watching something funny. It was just as funny as it was the first time we saw it. I did have to rent it from Amazon as I couldn't find it streaming anywhere, but we didn't mind. It was still cheaper than going out for a movie.





Cindy stopped by with a sweet arrangement of flowers for Eileen yesterday and a quick visit after her Thai Chi class. Eileen was just thrilled. That was such a thoughtful thing for Cindy to do. I don't think Eileen has really been given flowers before. It meant a lot to her.

But that is Cindy, thoughtful to a "T." I wish I was more like her. She has always been the one who picks up the bird with a broken wing and tries to fix it.


 


There were a great many holidays at Plumfield, and one of the most delightful was the yearly apple-picking. For then the Marches, Laurences, Brookes and Bhaers turned out in full force and made a day of it. Five years after Jo's wedding, one  of these fruitful festivals occurred, a mellow October day, when the air was full of an exhilarating freshness which made the spirits rise and the blood dance healthily in the veins. The old orchard wore its holiday attire. Goldenrod and asters fringed the mossy walls. Grasshoppers skipped briskly in the sere grass, and crickets chirped like fairy pipers at a feast.  Squirrels were busy with their small harvesting. Birds twittered their adieux from the alders in the lane, and every tree stood ready to send down its shower of red or yellow apples at the first shake. Everybody was there. Everybody laughed and sang, climbed up and tumbled down. Everybody declared that there never had been such a perfect day or such a jolly set to enjoy it, and everyone gave themselves up to the simple pleasures of the hour as freely as if there were no such things a care or sorrow in the world.
~Louisa May Alcott, from Good Wives, 1869

That is one of Alcott's books I have never read. To be honest I have only ever read Little Women. Perhaps I need to read some of her other books?  Have you read any of them?  All the byways and lanes are filled with wild asters at the moment. Purple and so pretty.  I love wildflowers. Every season has their own, and each one delights in it's very own way.

Quite a few leaves came down yesterday as it was quite a windy day, but there are still plenty to enjoy. I need to really get those pots at the front of my house emptied and put away for the season. The flowers in them are mostly spent now. Perhaps today I will go out and take down all the other things which need putting away for the season.  The decorations, like flower stakes, etc.  I still haven't gotten my windows washed, but I really must get it done soon. It depends on when the rain is coming. right now the sky is turned out to be a brilliant blue. That October blue that the golds and oranges, ochres, and reds look so beautiful against.


 

It is time to start thinking about Halloween again. To get in the treats to hand out. Nobody on the street has put out any decorations yet, but this weekend is Thanksgiving so I expect that they will start showing up once that is done.

We are going to try to go to my sister's on Sunday for Thanksgiving dinner. We are having roast chicken. I had picked up a large one at Peltons a few weeks back. Whole turkeys are so expensive these days and I am really the only one who enjoys turkey. Well, Eileen does too, but that's a lot of money to spend on something only we will enjoy.  For me, it's more about the sides. The stuffing, the sweet potatoes, etc. My sister makes the most delicious stuffing and sweet potatoes. 

It is just nice to be able to get together with a family to celebrate the holiday. They don't do Thanksgiving in the U.K. so I missed them a lot when I was living there. Oh, I used to do an American one for the Missionaries every November, but the Canadian one was largely forgotten.


Days of thanksgiving in Canada originated in the colonial period, arising from the same European traditions as those in America, in gratitude for safe journeys, peace, and bountiful harvests. The earliest celebration took place in 1578, when an expedition led by Martin Frobisher held a ceremony in present-day Nunavut to give thanks for the safety of its fleet. In 1879 Parliament established a national Thanksgiving Day on November 6; the date has varied over the years. Since 1957 Thanksgiving Day has been celebrated in Canada on the second Monday in October.

I have many happy memories of making Thanksgiving Dinners for my family throughout the years. It was always a really big deal. We would pick up our Turkey's in the states in September. (Cross border shopping.) We usually picked up three or four to have in the freezer. They were always a lot cheaper down there and I always thought they tasted better. I never had a dry American turkey.  There would be dressing/stuffing (lots of that), mashed potatoes, mashed turnips, mashed squash, sweet potatoes, carrots and peas, gravy, homemade rolls and usually two pies for dessert. Always a pumpkin one and then another one, usually apple.  My favourite part has always been the leftovers. The turkey sandwiches with cranberry and stuffing. The pot pie. The soup.  Enchiladas. You can get a lot of mileage out of one big bird.


 

We had a nice little facetime with Anthony and his family yesterday. It was nice to see Anthony, Anne and the boys.  I expect Anthony will be cooking a big turkey this weekend. He is just like me. He makes a big production of the holiday meal. I remember him and Anne coming over for my last family meal prior to my marriage breaking up in 1998. Amanda was home from University for the weekend. Doug was in his last year of Highschool.  Mom was still alive. Eileen and Bruce were just Eileen and Bruce.  It was a great weekend. My house was full to overflowing.  Amanda stayed at mom's so she could have some privacy for studying. Lots of noise and good food. Anne made her apple/cranberry pie.  It was a great time. It is too bad we all live so far apart now.  Also the fracture in the family makes it difficult as well, but at least we have our happy memories of the past.

I have run out of things to write about now. Eileen will soon be getting up. I think she wants fruit and yogurt for her brekkie this morning. I need to get out and get some milk. Mine had gone sour yesterday so I had to dump it. Other than that, not sure what is on the agenda although I am sure I will come up with something!

A thought to carry with you  . . . 

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*Sometimes it's the words we 
choose not to say that speak most
loudly about our character.
~Lysa TerKeurst


Italian Peperoni Ripieni


I made these really delicious stuffed peppers for our supper last night. Italian Peperoni Ripieni. There is this channel I watch on YouTube, Pasta Grammar.  Its really cute. A young American and his Italian wife. The food is always really tasty looking. I watched a video the other day and she was stuffing vegetables.  Three kinds. I decided to try the stuffed peppers and we were amazed. So delicious. So much so that I am still thinking of them this morning. Seriously tasty.

Well, I hope that you have a lovely day. If you are a Canadian, Happy Thanksgiving Weekend!  In any case be blessed everyone!  Don't forget!

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Thursday, 8 October 2026

My Favourite Things . . .

 

Raindrops on roses and whiskers on kittens . . . these are some of the things in life that I enjoy, and which make me happy, inspire me, or put a smile on my face. Maybe some of them are yours too.  Let's share!


 

Pie. Any kind of pie. Fruit. Meat.  Meringue. Pie.


 


This  . . . 


 

They're just so funny  . . . 


 

I adore these . . . 


 

Candlelight  . . . 


 

Dancing leaves  . . . 


 

Fresh fruit  . . . 


 

Mums  . . . 


 

A hot soak  . . . 


 

This  . . . 


 

Autumn cupcakes  . . . 


 

Just a puppy and his bear  . . . 


 

Oh my goodness  . . .  heaven help me . . . 


And those are my favorite things for this week. Someone is stirring and I promised to make her some porridge for her breakfast with raisins and a sprinkle of brown sugar on top.

A thought to carry with you . . . 

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*Make the most of yourself
for that's all there is of you.
~Ralph Waldo Emmerson

3-Ingredient Apple Spice Cake


In The English Kitchen today  . . . 3-Ingredient Apple Spice Cake. Three simple ingredients, one very delicious cake. Simple.

I hope that you have a really lovely day today. It's a bit chilly in here this morning. I want to try to get my windows washed today, if it warms up some.  In any case, I hope your day goes well!  Don't forget!

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Wednesday, 7 October 2026

Wednesday Witterings . . .

 

 Eileen got back here yesterday afternoon about 6 p.m. safe and sound. I had some supper waiting for her, once we got her unpacked and settled. I have to say I was very grateful for the care that her father and sister gave to her.  It was so good to have her home here and to know that our prayers had been answered. Cancer free. That's what she was told. She is in a bit of pain, probably more than she lets on, but I think she's going to be okay. She's doing very well and I am very proud of her. We also thank everyone so much for their thoughts and prayers. They have really helped immeasurably, and we have appreciated them.  Praying now for continued healing and her life getting back to normal. She is sleeping at the moment. 


 

My cleaners came yesterday. It was perfect timing.  Actually only one was here as the other had to go to the emergency as her eye was swollen up or something. The one that was here did a usual fabulous job. She also helped me to sort out Eileen's room properly and get clean sheets on the bed, etc. so it was fresh and ready for her return. I was so pleased with what she did. This one is a great organizer. I am going to get her to come back another time, outside of their regular hours to help me with a few bits I think. She does a really great job. 

I was supposed to have a podiatry appointment today, but I called on Monday to cancel it. They were out of office so I left a message. They did not get back to me so I have no idea if they got the message or not. I hope that they don't ding me with a cancelation fee.  I did call to cancel the appointment in time. So hopefully that was okay. 

I have so many appointments that I need to make. I was waiting for this business with Eileen to get done. I want to make an appointment to have my winter tires put on and my car winterized. I also need them to look at my backing camera which has stopped working properly. 


 

I have had to put a bit of heat on in here this morning.  It was a bit chilly.  Really these places stay fairly cool in the summer and warm when the weather starts to get colder. I am lucky really to have a center unit as I am protected on both sides. So I really only get wind from the front or back. It's really quite comfortable.  But we are having some very chilly mornings now so I guess a bit of heat won't hurt. It's not far above freezing out there this morning.


 

Myriads and myriads plumed their glittering wings,
As fine as any bird that soars and sings,
As bright as fireflies or the dragon-flies
Or birds of paradise.

Myriads and myriads waved their sheeny fans,
Soft as the dove's breast, or the pelican's;
And some were gold, and some were green, and some
Pink-lipped, like apple bloom.

A low wind tossed the plumage all one way,
Rippled the gold feathers, and green and gray -
A low wind that in moving sang one song
All day and all night long.

Some trees hung lanterns out, and some had stars
Silver as Hesper, and rose-red as Mars;
A low wind flung the lanterns low and high -
A low wind like a sigh.
~Katherine Tynan (1859 - 1931), Leaves

We had some strong winds yesterday, in fact Cindy's power was out for a couple hours. Quite a bit of leaf came down, but there is still plenty up there to enjoy. All the power lines here are above ground and many of them have trees hanging over and below them. The Power company does try to keep them trimmed, but it would be so much better if they just put them underground like so many other places have. There probably wouldn't be so many power outages.

My power did flick when the power came back on in the places that had lost theirs. Enough that I needed to reboot everything. I also had to sign myself back into all the streaming channels on the television, which was a bit annoying, but, nevertheless, we got it done. It won't be long now before we are setting the clocks back an hour. I saw online that several provinces have opted not to change the clocks. I wish all of the provinces would get on board as when only a few of them do, it makes things even more confusing.


 

We had our church's bi-annual conference last weekend and it was very good. The talks seem to be a bit shorter now, but they have more people speaking. Once they have them all published on the church website I am going to go back and listen to them all again. Several struck me as I was listening to them with some profound things. One in particular by Elder Bednar, so I am keen to go over that one again.

Usually I listen to all of the talks over and over again until the next conference rolls around. There is so much to take in and take on board. So uplifting and inspiring.

There is a really lovely video on YouTube about the Salt Lake Temple that I watched yesterday while I was waiting for Eileen to get home.  I really enjoyed it. The Temple has been closed for a number of years while they did some major repairs on it and they are getting ready to re-open and re-dedicate it next Spring. There will be an open house as well, prior to the dedication, where people can walk through it. Its an amazing building. I remember walking around it when I was in SLC back in 2009. I had forgotten my temple recommend at home in the U.K. so I couldn't go in however.  

They have a couple of really nice visitor centers there that you can go in and Temple Square is looking really lovely as well, with some really beautiful statues, etc. I am so grateful that I had the opportunity to visit it when I did. 


 

I don't know that I can ever adequately explain just how very much of a difference my faith has made in my life. I really and truly don't know where I would be without it. My life has truly been transformed by it. I can honestly say that I am not really the same person that I was before I embraced it. Life is much sweeter now, despite all the hardships. I have an anchor and a ballast now that helps me to navigate all of the troubles that life sets on our doorsteps. It does for everyone. Lets face it, life is hard. I love that I can go to my Heavenly Father in prayer and pour my heart out to Him and I can tell you with all honesty He always answers my prayers, sometimes in the most unexpected ways, sometimes I don't get the answers I wanted, but always I get answers in the way that is best for me, for my life. And yes, some prayers I am still waiting for answers, but I know they will come. 

Well, I guess I best bring this to an end now. The morning is getting on and I expect Eileen will have a few visitors today so I need to get my skates on. 

A thought to carry with you  . . . 

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*God holds me
Every day, every thought
every step.


Spameroni & Cheese 


In The English Kitchen today, Spameroni & Cheese.  This is incredibly delicious, budget friendly and very quick and easy to make. You can't ask for much more than that!

I do hope you have a beautiful day. I have a phone call appointment later today for the results of my ultrasound last week, the nurse said non-urgent, so I am trying not to hyper-focus on that, hypochondriac that I am, lol.  In any case, it's beautiful sunny and Eileen is home and healing. God is good.  Whatever you get up to today, stay safe, be happy and don't forget! 

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Tuesday, 6 October 2026

A Day Book . . .

 


FOR TODAY, October 6th, 2026

OUTSIDE MY WINDOW ...



October is really showing off. Isn't it beautiful?  Its supposed to be really windy early this morning with the wind chill going below zero, so we may lose a few of these.


I AM THINKING ...


I am so grateful that things went well yesterday for my girl. And also that she is now cancer free. That is what they told her. I was able to speak to her last night and she has messaged me this morning already. She is looking forward to coming home. Her dad and sister are bringing her in a cup of tea and a biscuit from Tim Hortons when they come in this morning. She was looking forward to that.


I AM ALSO THINKING ...

I took myself off of that Plenty of Fish site. I had one guy messaging me a bit, but he wanted me to give him my real phone number. He lived not too far from here. I wouldn't give it to him because I wanted to know more about him first. He did try, but I am just not ready for this.  Not in any way. It was making me far too anxious. So I took myself off and I won't be pursuing it again.


 

I AM GRATEFUL FOR ...

God's timing. Its been right all along. I am just going to trust in that. If anything is meant to be, it will happen in God's timing.


 

I AM ALSO GRATEFUL FOR ...

Octobers. Oh how I love Octobers.


Banana, Rum, Date & Walnut Loaf

IN THE KITCHEN ...

Banana, Rum, Date & Walnut Loaf. A delicious banana loaf that is moist, tender and loaded with plenty of sticky caramel-like dates, toasty walnuts and rum soaked banana. Yum Yum!





ON MY "TO COOK" LIST ...

From Zona Cooks.  A lush looking orange and hazelnut cake. I love this kind of cake.



 


THIS I BELIEVE ...

I really do. I would not have gotten this far in life without believing this.



 

SOMETHING THAT IS NICE ...

Toasty roasty potatoes.


 

SOMETHING ELSE THAT IS NICE ...

Autumn blooms  . . . 


 

I AM LOOKING FORWARD TO ...

Getting Eileen home and putting this all behind us.


I AM WANTING TO CREATE ...

 

Snowflake and Berry Table Runner  . . . 


 

Crochet Christmas wreath ornament  . . . 


 

This  . . .  so cute and pretty  . . . 


 

This  . . .  a great scrap buster  . . . 


 

This too  . . . 


SOMETHING I ENJOY ...


 

Toast and jam.  I really love toast and jam.


SOMETHING ELSE I ENJOY ...


 

Autumn cookies  . . . 


I AM READING ...

 


STANDING FOR SOMETHING, by Gordon B Hinckley

10 neglected virtues that will heal our hearts and homes


In this national bestseller, the late president of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, Gordon B. Hinckley, has created a classic look at the values that can change our world--and how to stand up for them. Drawing on anecdotes from his much-admired life of faith and service, as well as examples from American culture today, he examines ten virtues that have always illuminated the path to a better world: love, honesty, morality, civility, learning, forgiveness and mercy, thrift and industry, gratitude, optimism, and faith. He then shows how the two guardians of virtue--marriage and the family--can keep us on that path, even in difficult times. 

Standing for Something is an inspiring blueprint for what we all can do--as individuals, as a nation, and as a world community--to rediscover the values and virtues that have historically made us strong and that will lead us to a brighter future.

I have read this before. It is not a bad thing to review something inspiring like this every now and then.


THINGS THAT CATCH MY FANCY ...


 

Lacy things  . . . 


 

Artsy things  . . . 


 

Pumpkins and Indian Corn  . . . 


 

Homemade soup  . . . 


 

Pretty frames  . . . 

 

Crusty bread  . . . 

MAKES ME SMILE ...

 

These always make me smile  . . . 

SOMETHING TO WATCH ...




Frank Sinatra, All or Nothing At All . . .  Netflix


A THOUGHT TO CARRY WITH YOU ...

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*Prayer should be the key of the day
and the lock of the night.

And that is my daybook for this week!  Thanks always for being here!


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Have a beautiful day!  Don't forget!  

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