FOR TODAY, November 26, 2024
OUTSIDE MY WINDOW ...
It's cool and grey, but it's not raining. Not supposed to I don't think. We shall see. Garbage day today. Last week they were here by 7 a.m. No sign of them yet this morning. You never know when they are going to come. It is always wise to be prepared for any time. That's why I always put my garbage out the night before.
I AM THINKING ...
This is my last daybook for November of 2024. This year, this month has gone by so quickly. It seems like each day is no sooner started than they are ending. The days are quickly slipping off the calendar and into the next year. Somebody make it stop! haha
I AM ALSO THINKING ...
I had a nice long facetime with my son Doug yesterday afternoon. We talked for about an hour and a half. He was on his own in the house, the boys were at school. He enlightened me somewhat as to what my youngest son's problem is with me. And it all has to do with Todd. He is angry with me because of what Todd did and because I had brought him over to spend time with us in the U.K. around the same time that these crimes happened. Never mind that I was as unaware of the crimes as he was. That I had no idea what or who Todd was. That nothing happened to my son. For some reason he is angry with me about it. Anyways, that is what Doug says, and I have no reason not to believe him.
I am grateful that out of my five children, at least three want to have and do have a good relationship with me. I cannot help that two of them don't. It is out of my hands.
IN THE KITCHEN ...
Today, Herby Bread & Butter Stuffing for Two. I adapted this delicious recipe from one I found in the New York Times. Simple and delicious and just the right size for the smaller family.
ON MY "TO COOK" LIST ...
From Serving Dumplings, Hamburger Steak in Creamy Dill Sauce. This sounds interesting. I wonder if the flavors are similar to Swedish Meatballs. I am intrigued.
LOOKING FORWARD TO ...
The first snowfall of the year. They are saying it will snow on Sunday. I don't know how they know these things. I always look forward to the first snow of the year. Right up until New Years, then snow can take a hike, lol.
SOMETHING NICE . . .
Soup, bread and a roaring fire. Especially this time of year. The soup and bread I can do. The fire, not so easy.
SOMETHING ELSE THAT'S NICE . . .
Crisp and buttery fresh croissants, with jam. Any kind of bread with jam. And butter of course. My favorite jam, next to homemade of course, is Bonne Maman.
SOMETHING I KNOW TO BE TRUE ...
Need I say more? We no longer live in a past we cannot change.
I AM WANTING TO CREATE ...
Paper star garlands . . .
Little houses . . .
Paper animals . . .
A Sleeping Angel . . .
Little felt birds . . .
Have you ever seen anything as cute as this? Baby animals are all so cute.
HOW I WISH . . .
That we could sit down and enjoy a hot cup of tea and a natter together.
I AM READING . . .
NOWHERE IS A PLACE, by Bernice L. McFadden
Nothing can mend a broken heart quite like family. Sherry has struggled all her life to understand who she is, where she comes from, and, most important, why her mother slapped her cheek one summer afternoon. The incident has haunted Sherry, and it causes her to dig into her family’s past. Like many family histories, it is fractured and stubbornly reluctant to reveal its secrets; but Sherry is determined to know the full story. In just a few days time, her extended family will gather for a reunion, and Sherry sets off across the country with her mother, Dumpling, to join them. What Sherry and Dumpling find on their trip is far more important than scenic sites here and there—it is the assorted pieces of their family’s past. Pulled together, they reveal a history of amazing survival and abundant joy.•。★★ 。* 。
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And I do too!
The month has just sped by, as they all seem to. At least you know the reason your youngest son isn't speaking to you, he must of spoken about it to your other son. I love felt birds, made a lot from Down East Thunder Farm,(all free patterns) and have them hanging on one of out artificial trees. Rain here, but to the north of us it was ice and a bit of snow. It is coming. Soup and casserole weather for sure. Enjoy the day.
ReplyDeleteI will have to check those felt birds out Linda! I love working with felt, but I don't really like anything too complicated. I am tired of the grey dismal days, but hopefully we will get some sunshine soon! xoxo
DeleteThe older we get the faster the days speed by.This is the speed of lightning:( As I look at all your cozy pics..and it's raining as I type..I think to myself how very fortunate we are to have family..a roof..food..Your son is ...well.. hurting all of you by his blaming you for that man.Linda I have loved Downeasts' patterns also:)
ReplyDeleteI think he is being unreasonable, but I am not able to see it from his perspective. He has never spoken to me about it at all. Surely that would help. It is his choice. My son Doug thinks that he (Bruce) will regret it one day and has assured me that he will let him know that I always loved him no matter what and did not hold it against him. That gives me a bit of peace. xoxo
DeleteMarie, that’s a breakthrough to know why your son is so distant from you. Now that you know you have a different perspective on it. Maybe in time your rift will be healed. He shouldn’t be blaming you. I can’t get over how lush and green your grass is in November, almost December. Take gentle care. Love and hugs, Elaine
ReplyDeleteI hate to say this, but your son COULD find himself in a very similar spot at some time...one thing most young people seem not to know is that often things will repeat within a family...sadly so. Misplaced anger...mercy, doesn't that describe so many family issues these days?? And most of the time, kids blame mom...no idea why except she is less apt to get angry and less apt to not forgive them and keep on loving them anyway. I am sorry Marie. IF YOU LIVE LONG enough...and I surely hope you do, he may wake up and smell the coffee..TRULY?? You are not the sort of woman to be a loose immoral one...that is plain to see from your blog. The REAL REASON you married Todd? Obviously your son's dad could not love you enough. OBVIOUSLY!! What woman ever leaves a truly good loving husband?? Usually never happens. Unless you have known someone from childhood, these days it is smart to have some kind of investigation done. Not all sex perverts get caught. But some do. My youngest has not married and is 40...after all the grief, STILL ONGOING, caused by esp. the 2nd husband of her sister...who on earth would chance marriage?? Very hard to find truly Godly men now. VERY. They hide in churches as much as anywhere...sigh. But oh ONE DAY twill all be past and all will be well...and as GOD intended. I really think we are seeing the end of days (no idea how long that will last) and that is why so much is so wrong in every area of life. Take care. At least your older son is wise and will see to it that at least your younger son one day will see truth. THEN the anger may be placed more correctly if there is any. Take gentle care of yourself, my friend.
ReplyDeleteLOTS OF HUGS!! Elizabeth xoxo